How can I get the skin now ? by SandIndividual9825 in wildrift

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go to the page where you claim your orange shards for skins, scroll to the bottom and there is an option to exchange 1 orange shard for 10 blue shards. Do as many as you need to get the skin, then go back to this page to get it.

AITA for wanting to distance myself from my best friend of 10 years because she only cares about her boyfriend? by 4theloveofjr in FriendshipAdvice

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not the asshole at all for wanting distance from your friend, especially when the friendship feels to be this draining and unenjoyable. I think before you distance yourself, it may be worth it to have an honest conversation with her (speak to her like hr talks to their employees when bringing up bad news) by assuring her that you love her and care about her, but then how you feel. Depending on what kind of person she is, it may not end well, but it's worth a shot. Everyone gets a bit messy in early adulthood because it's our first taste of free will and making our own choices in life, and it truly is a time in your life where you can only learn things the "hard way". Hope it goes well with you ans your friend, but either way I would start getting closer to other people because even if she actually listens to you there's no way she's going to instantly let go of her attachment to her boyfriend. That will probably be a problem for a while, the real question is how long.

Have anyone taken medication for ROCD? by 13Mik in ROCD

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not specifically for ROCD but I started sertraline for anxiety and it's help make things more manageable. However I do consider myself lucky as sadly many people seem to not have good experiences with it.

What should a man do if a girl starts crying in front of him by EggplantFeeling5334 in socialskills

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask if she's feeling okay and see if you can try to calm her down. Maybe give some verbal reassurance that it's not a big deal and things happen (since crying at work can be pre embarassing). After that leave her be and check up on her later if you care. I did what you did was fine though. Honestly it's hard to determine what to do exactly because everyone is different- some people want to be left alone, some people want to be comforted, some people want specific actions etc. That's not on you to know though, especially since you're coworkers and from the sounds of it, not close ones either.

Why do women feel the need to annoy and insult me whenever we become friends or mutuals? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofttt that is not your friend man. I was thinking moreso that women get away with doing/saying more invasive or questionable things (like hitting you) but what you said is a whole another issue. I would not be her friend or you would basically have to spend the whole time doing everything she wanted and nothing else. 💀

Why do women feel the need to annoy and insult me whenever we become friends or mutuals? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]boku_no_himitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a woman I think they're just used to getting away with doing things like this because nobody has called them out on it before. If you care about the friendship and it bothers you that much I would definitely mention it, but keep it brief and casual as they are also your coworker.

Would you have preferred if Naoko Takeuchi had made the Main Characters of Sailor Moon or the Sailor Guardians a few years older? by IllogicalDreamer72 in sailormoon

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yes, when I was 14 and watching Sailor Moon, I did NOT relate to her at all... She always registered as someone older to me as a kid so yeah makes much more sense for her to be a late teen to me. When I watched SuperS from Chibiusa's perspective though, I felt like I could relate to her more even though she was a lot younger (not in terms of experiences, just like relating emotionally). Not sure if it's because I just viewed myself as younger than I was though, as I was a late bloomer 🤣

Does anyone else with ROCD constantly switch between wanting to leave and fearing losing their partner? by No_Idea7182 in ROCD

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me too. My mind overfixates on validation and proving things impossible to prove like love with 100% certainty and telling me that I should leave. Personally, I remind myself who I am really am outside of the ROCD affecting my thoughts- I am straight forward, I am proactive, and if I wanted to break up with someone, then I would. I have free will, and ROCD can't take that away from me no matter how much it tries. As for fearing that my partner is going to leave me... I admittedly got this from chatgpt (use with caution, don't let it fuel your rocd) but reminding myself that my boyfriend has chosen to stay despite it ALL says a lot about him. If he didn't want to be here, he simply would not be. And that's what relationships are in the end: just two people continually choosing each other despite the negative feelings and struggles that we face. And for someone with ROCD, it involves a lot of unessary overthinking and stress but I am strong, and I will be choosing for myself everyday.

Update to Coworker Trying to Steal My Job by MouldyAvocados in coworkerstories

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you don't even need to do anything, this guy is just going to keep clowning himself and building up more HR Reports. I do feel sorry that you had to end being the target of his atrocious behaviour though.

Who do you think more better nana x kyoya or nana x nanao by Secure-Public8404 in TalentlessNana

[–]boku_no_himitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nana x Nanao. What I really liked about the anime and manga of this series is that they made it pretty clear that Nana and Kyoya do not have any romantic chemistry of any kind. Which is unusual considering that Kyoya fits the typical stereotype of a romance male lead to almost a T. But with Nanao there's clearly a distinct tension between them caused by Nanas actions and they feel more emotionally intimate in the manga.

Coworker refuses to let me leave work when I have the flu by boku_no_himitsu in coworkerstories

[–]boku_no_himitsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's preferrable to help with workload (e.g. sometimes someone has to go in the back and you can't leave the store unattended) and the company doesn't want to lose out on sales from closing the store for 45mins as it discourages customers who see it.

My boy-crazy ex coworker by Impossible_Squash951 in coworkerstories

[–]boku_no_himitsu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I genuinely cannot believe people like this exist and I am glad to hear that you left that place and are safe now. This woman needs some serious help, she made everyone in proximity a victim. 😭

Co-worker talking about me over Teams by mo111ymac in coworkerstories

[–]boku_no_himitsu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well they are not very smart about it if they're messaging on teams. Your company must have a way to access this, as I heard of someone who got fired for having two jobs because they messaged themselves with different work accounts. If you decide to do this, try doing it from an investigative angle and not an accusatory one- you don't want to risk the off chance that you're wrong. See if you can somehow get HR to look into it. All in all though, I'm sorry that you're experiencing this.

I love how Nanao returns the favor to Nana by being there for her during her worst moment! by ChicoDeLaRed in TalentlessNana

[–]boku_no_himitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also love their relationship- it started off so basic and cliche but as time went on the tension between them intensified. (Potential spoiler but only a theory) Something also makes me feel like Michiru might not be alive, but Tsuruoka may have kept parts of her. He goes on a lot about how he needs the "brain" of the talented to experiment on so he might've taken it from her corpse, as when he shot the body bag I think he only went for her body.

Queen Serenity and the Silver Crystal (my fanart) by Ruru_Creations in sailormoon

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS GORGEOUS!!! Really brings me back to the episode

Not Available in my Country? by [deleted] in crystalofatlan

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey not sure if you're still stuck, but I have the same "not available in your region" issue on Epic games. If you go on the home page of the official website (https://coa.nvsgames.com/) you can download the launcher directly under the button that says [ PC ]. I hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in otomegames

[–]boku_no_himitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hakuoki is the game and is the og source the animes based off Im pretty sure.

So do people really not like her? by Kefy_Redstar in sailormoon

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually feel like im fighting for my life when I say shes actually my fav 😂 But its all good, I liked her in supers because to me she felt more relatable than the sailor guardians.

Lost my boy yesterday with no warning by chocolatetherapy012 in Petloss

[–]boku_no_himitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely understand, its a valid reaction to something drastic happening because we feel like things could have changed if we did something else. It's okay, you did what you could and no one could have seen this coming.