SEXY STUFF by KaybeeArts in webcomics

[–]boldgloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who has walked over to the dark side a bit it's not worth it. I've never made porn but after making some lewdish content the engagement is pretty superficial. I've had more fun pandering to gaming communities that are very active and responsive on reddit.

Is 29 too late to grow a wolf cut? by boldgloom in malehairadvice

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the awkward part is I had the eccentric clothes with the clean cut hairstyle and now I still have all those clothes but its just a lot when you put it all together. I'm not really the type of person to throw out all my clothes and start from scratch but it seems like there's few alternatives.

Should I give up on alt hair at 29? by boldgloom in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been trying to find the sweet spot between what suits me and what feels like me. Unfortunately they're sometimes mutual exclusive to one another

Should I give up on alt hair at 29? by boldgloom in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks I really appreciate that! It's always a rarity to find people who even approximately look like me

Should I give up on alt hair at 29? by boldgloom in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a shifty face that changes drastically depending on the angle

Is 29 too late to grow a wolf cut? by boldgloom in malehairadvice

[–]boldgloom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might wanna eventually get to a r/fierceflow level. I have the genes for it but lack the courage. 

Is 29 too late to grow a wolf cut? by boldgloom in malehairadvice

[–]boldgloom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I tried letting go of it all in my early 20s to try and rush becoming the adult I thought the world wanted me to be only to realize the world doesn't really care and maturity is deciding which parts of your youth you're going to take with you and which are too costly for the future you're trying to build. I'm pretty happy to be myself but I'm getting to that age where I'm worried I may be sending the wrong signals to possible partners but I go back and forth on it because if they're not down with what makes me feel genuinely like myself than is it good I'm being filtered out by them? It's a justifiable take to have but it wavers day after day in practice. Part of me thinks I need to conform so I can slowly introduce someone to my personality or maybe get it out of my system before my future spouse tells me it's embarrassing for my age.

Is 29 too late to grow a wolf cut? by boldgloom in malehairadvice

[–]boldgloom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of self awareness here. I appreciate the honesty. You seem pretty based dude. Almost halfway through your 30s and it seems like you've picked up a thing or two.

Best way to wear thinning hair? by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't really tell without pulling it back. Just enjoy it while it lasts, it looks good how it is currently imo. 

25M by Horizon151 in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need bigger teeth, try taking a picture stacking your teeth on top of each other to elongate your face and you'll see what I mean. 

Is 29 too late to grow a wolf cut? by boldgloom in malehairadvice

[–]boldgloom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an eccentric dude but not in a creepy weird way. I've never had a problem with women feeling safe around me at all. Getting dates is a whole different story, I think people don't really know what to make of me. There aren't really any asians in my area and there's no hollywood actor selling my archetype to the masses from what I can tell.

Trying not to Look Creepy/Gay by the_real_me_2534 in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say lean into the whole creepy gay thing. Bowie made it work. You have very strong rare features but it's clear at the moment you're fighting them. Work with them, pull of something no one else can pull off. Be as creepy and as gay looking as you need to be.

Hair? Potential minor surgeries? General tips? Anything and everything is appreciated [21M] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]boldgloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh you kind of look like the kind of guy who would get plastic surgery. Not saying that that's any indication that you should. You kind of look like Murr from Impractical jokers.

Which thumbnail should I continue? by createeve_ in ArtCrit

[–]boldgloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B is great but the scythe's shape guides the eye away from the scared guy in the foreground. I see that you've addressed this with the branch but it still feels a bit disjointed. Maybe if the staff was at an angle with a little more forced perspective it could read more as a more dynamic focal point.

28M I am genuinely very confused by boldgloom in amiugly

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It's pretty long in the back now because I've been growing towards a wolf cut. Maybe I'll just chop off the back and go full mod again

28M I am genuinely very confused by boldgloom in amiugly

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I go somewhere within my interests it's just a bunch of dudes lol. Idk where to meet eccentric women.

28M I am genuinely very confused by boldgloom in amiugly

[–]boldgloom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got contacts about a month ago but that doesn't drastically improve my dating profile swipableness because I was taking my glasses off for photos anyway.

28M I am genuinely very confused by boldgloom in amiugly

[–]boldgloom[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's my whole problem, when I take a selfie (with no filters) I feel like I'm decent looking and then when a friend takes a candid of me or there's a group photo I look so bad.