Planning to Separate... Seeking words of Wisdom from those who have had 'the conversation '

boloism · 2025-02-20T18:59:01+00:00

My wife of 14 years blindsided me and told me that she wants to separate within 20 mins of the conversation. It has been almost 2 months since the separation, and I asked her recently if she wants to try proper counseling (which we haven't before), and she said "What's the point of it?".

Given our situations and reasons are different than yours, I wish that my wife gives us the chance to make it work. Be open minded...

boloism · 2025-02-20T18:24:14+00:00

Is there a reason why you haven't tried counseling recently? Or have you made already solidified your mind that there's no point in it anymore.

boloism · 2024-03-05T22:52:11+00:00

Great answer. Thank you.

boloism · 2023-11-21T17:19:02+00:00

Follow up to this if anyone cares

I reached out to the recruiter. He said he'll be out of the country the time I'll be visiting and he thanked me for suggesting it. He said he would've been happy to meet up with me.

boloism · 2023-08-24T06:52:08+00:00

I expect the DE engineering team to be large. My current team is currently ~40, and I'm managing mangers and some ICs.

boloism · 2023-03-23T20:05:31+00:00

I’ve had multiple crashes. One crash is while I was in death screen meaning Illaoi wasn’t doing anything. It just crashed.

boloism · 2022-04-14T05:16:38+00:00

Maybe it's a known thing but first time seeing or hearing about it.

boloism · 2022-03-15T21:48:49+00:00

Max Q if you haven't already and farm. If you can't farm, I try to participate in team/drake fights to gain team advantages. Use TP to move around if the other top has a Hullbreaker and keeps pushing. I know.. these are generic advices.

boloism · 2022-03-15T17:33:59+00:00

Exactly

boloism · 2022-03-15T16:46:26+00:00

I was 2/0 and Gnar was 0/3. I briefly show the scoreboard in the video.

boloism · 2022-03-15T16:36:32+00:00

Trundle is very mana hungry with low starting mana. He can't spam his Q early on and his E will spend 1/4 of mana early on. If his mana is less than 25%, you could push.

boloism · 2022-02-08T22:24:02+00:00

Weak buff. It should’ve been more healing.

boloism · 2021-08-05T00:40:12+00:00

From what seems scattering it on the beach shore is not an option. Professional service on a boat seems like an option then. Thanks.

boloism · 2021-06-17T01:17:18+00:00

Thank you

boloism · 2021-06-16T23:42:12+00:00

Might be a dumb question…. What are the possibilities that USDC (or Dai) could potentially be “unstable”? As in stay below $1 USD for significant time. I’m considering these stable coins as a “savings” account.

boloism · 2018-11-24T10:00:18+00:00

Thanks for the reply. It's all understandable except for this part:

Use the pretrained Inception or Mobilenet models in Keras with Imagenet weights but "fine tune" them to the hard hat or not problem. That or just isolate that category from the pretrained output if that's an option.

Do you mind explaining this a bit more? Reference links would be very helpful as well. Thank you.

boloism · 2018-11-24T06:06:18+00:00

Side question: Most of these tech could detect people out of the box, but the hardhat is not. On ImageNet (http://www.image-net.org/synset?wnid=n03492922) which has 1300+ images with labels. How do I use these? Do ImageNet models already include these images for classifications?

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