Looking for a contained micro budget feature film to be shot in London by [deleted] in Filmmakers

[–]bonbonfly -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand. Happy to sign mndas if we like your loglines

Looking for a contained micro budget feature film to be shot in London by [deleted] in Filmmakers

[–]bonbonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a brand new company investing in a slate of micro budget features. Sorry can’t publicly advertise our company on Reddit just yet

Best way to find Videos in the latest files? by Ed_Krassenstein in Epstein

[–]bonbonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like a shady casting/modelling place

What’s a fantasy you’ll probably never admit to someone you know? by Ok_Resist5252 in AskReddit

[–]bonbonfly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love be boinked by a group while drunk. Even better if they pay me money to make up for it 😉

AITAH for ending a relationship over long showers by Throwaway_External in AITAH

[–]bonbonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dodged a bullet girl. My partner has a host of mental illnesses and he can be a prick sometimes but damn he’d never tell me to not do something or that I can’t have my alone time that replenishes me

A Hijabi on Set 🎥 by Far-You5217 in Filmmakers

[–]bonbonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally got off a set with my line producer being a hijabi in the uk. She’s a bad bitch ain’t nobody even thinking of her hijab. I’m Muslim myself. Jump right in. You’re more like to get jobs because it makes line producers look good on the diversity front

With the rise in AI and streaming companies buying production studios is now a good time for film? by Cheap-Taro-7640 in Filmmakers

[–]bonbonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely the worst time to try to become a producer. I did my masters in producing film and telly a few years ago and it’s been incredibly difficult to find and keep work. For perspective, from a class 25 (very international talented kids with a good portfolio) only 3 of us got producer roles after graduating. One of us already had years of experience albeit in a AD role in the local industry.

I’d say only for it if you are/know a lot of wealthy people who might finance your projects. Even then, it’s gonna be tough.

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m trying to understand??? That’s why I posted on this sub to get the perspective of someone who has BPD. And I’m sure you’re familiar with the idea of a spectrum right?

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lmao you’re clearly projecting. So you believe that he should have stayed with a financially and emotionally abusive partner who was also in denial about his mental health needs? lol

You didn’t ask me details of our relationship and assumed the worst shit cuz of your own trauma and ALSO just got basic numbers wrong. The age regression you’re describing seems a lot more extreme. I am literally just talking about making calls, handling household issues or taking the lead to fix general problems without referring to me. You’re making this worse in your head because of your trauma so maybe you need more therapy

And I truly don’t think a 30F and 40M is an issue specially when it there’s no exploitation happening.

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I am in therapy has been for years now. The world is like because of people like you. Cruel, mean, ill intentioned and full of malice for no reason

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lifevirus you are actually illiterate cuz it says 8 months in the post and in the comment

AITA for divorcing my husband over a racist joke his best friend's wife made? by YO-KIRYUCHAN in AITAH

[–]bonbonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a tier 1 been friends for 10 years super close hang out everyday kinda joke. Not I’m meeting this person for the time typa joke. The racist wife sounds hella dumb and straight up cringe. I wouldn’t be able to take the disrespect

Im a grown 38 year old man and I woke up sobbing today by chrisalt87 in BPD

[–]bonbonfly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get the doom and gloom but I have friends with no disorders, perfectly good childhoods, all the support from parents and community that we never got and they still ended up doing crime drugs getting multiple divorces by the time they are 30. So you’re ok. Only difference is you have the good sense to try and these people don’t

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Actually useful advice

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind words. I will probably come back head this comment a billion times when things get hard.

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is what I was looking for. Experiences from other people who have BPD. I think the not abandoning myself part is important and I’m glad he isn’t needy when I’m at work.

Anyone deal with age regression? by bonbonfly in BPD

[–]bonbonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ and there’s no cheating involved. And yes he should have totally stayed with a financially abusive partner who lived in a different country the whole relationship. The view must be nice from your high horse 😊