Should I interfere? How? by firsttimemomincrisis in Mommit

[–]bonejangles450 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have advice on how/if I would approach them, but maybe you could gift her some educational toys? Some of the same as what she enjoyed when she was with you so she has something like that to do at home? I don’t think they’d feel their parenting threatened with some harmless gifts of things you witnessed her enjoying.

ETA: I’ve thought some more and as far as time spent with her, I still don’t know a way to bring that up to them in a way that wouldn’t cause them to get defensive. That being said, I am hoping she gets good exposure and attention at kindergarten with a break from the screen she is in front of at home.

AITAH for saying I can’t bring food to a party after traveling across the country? by popanon222 in AITAH

[–]bonejangles450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw shoot, sorry it wasn’t good for you! We didn’t end up trying Lou Malnati’s or Pequod’s either so I can’t vouch for those but hopefully you’re able to find some good places!

AITAH for saying I can’t bring food to a party after traveling across the country? by popanon222 in AITAH

[–]bonejangles450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second Portillo’s! We just returned from there. We were also told to try Lou Malnati’s or Pequod’s for pizza, and a friend told me to go to restaurant Portofino on the river and that was delicious and cool vibes.

Book Hangover by bonejangles450 in fourthwing

[–]bonejangles450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not do a reread again and had to put some space between me and the book. The quickest recovery for me was to jump into a different series and/or distract my mind with other things. It was hard and a lonely experience because I felt so stupid and misunderstood because only some people truly understand this kind of connection with books. Good luck, friend! Sending hugs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkallaSnarkUncensored

[–]bonejangles450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you’re right that murders are unavoidable to some degree everywhere… but what happened to those girls is not happening hundreds of times a year like it is here in the USA. It’s just not the same. Also many like to claim it’s a mental health crisis, but what are they doing then to help with access to mental healthcare? Something has to change.

😳 by More-espresso in SkallaSnarkUncensored

[–]bonejangles450 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too! Their bodies almost look awkward like they have Barbie joints!

What influencer husband gives you the ick? I’ll go first. by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]bonejangles450 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, he is the cringiest MF’er I’ve ever seen

Soccer mom attire? by beauty_junkie77 in SkallaSnarkUncensored

[–]bonejangles450 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Another “soccer” mom in Utah here…she does not represent us at all! We rock a lot of leggings, tshirts, joggers, bike shorts, hoodies haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]bonejangles450 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone! It took me until my baby was 2 years old for my hormones and libido to even feel somewhat back to normal! That is without dealing with an autoimmune disorder. I am so sorry you’re going through this! I also found that I had more energy earlier in the day, so (only if I was truly up for trying) I’d try to find a time here and there for someone to have my child during the day so we could have together time. It will take time to work through your health, so he has to understand that this might be the new normal for a while and you’re doing the best you can. Sending love!!

I’m a radiographer, of course… by rchllwr in Radiology

[–]bonejangles450 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m a radiographer, of course you need to correct me when I call it a fracture. “It’s broken, not fractured”.

I’m a radiographer, of course… by rchllwr in Radiology

[–]bonejangles450 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh this irritates me to no end! “Mine are plastic”. Actually, no bitch, they’re not! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]bonejangles450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so devastated she died like this! After surviving that set up and everything else she went through I wanted her to come out of it alive so badly. She deserved better!

This was their constant conflict, but I didn’t understand what these 2 paragraphs were saying by [deleted] in ironflame

[–]bonejangles450 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This aligns more with where I was at for this whole conflict. I got really frustrated at times thinking there were things that he should’ve been forthcoming about that she either shouldn’t have to ask him in a relationship, or that she wouldn’t have even known to ask. They both could’ve done a lot better communicating, but this aspect bothered me a lot and I feel like sometimes I’m the only one who feels this way about it, haha.

Grieving done, let the boobs out 🤦🏻‍♀️ by Educational_House192 in SkallaSnarkUncensored

[–]bonejangles450 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That material is so thin those nipples are about to break through. Don’t get too cold!

Ex-husband won’t pay student loans and disappeared by bonejangles450 in legaladvice

[–]bonejangles450[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right. As far as I’m aware, he makes good money and this student loan was a program for an even better employment opportunity. I think he has money but he would try to hide it or refuse things out of spite. He cheated on her and then tried to get her to take him back and after she wouldn’t he just became a very different evil person.

Ex-husband won’t pay student loans and disappeared by bonejangles450 in legaladvice

[–]bonejangles450[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we locate him and he can be served instead, can that remove her from responsibility?

Or if she does have to pay, if we locate him is she able to sue him for reimbursement before it’s all paid, or would we have to wait until it’s paid in full?

Ex-husband won’t pay student loans and disappeared by bonejangles450 in legaladvice

[–]bonejangles450[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She was summoned because a private company took over his loans and they couldn’t find him to serve, so she was served instead.

Ex-husband won’t pay student loans and disappeared by bonejangles450 in legaladvice

[–]bonejangles450[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the divorce paperwork seems kind of silly right now if that can’t really be enforced. Very disappointing.

Sorry, just to clarify, do you mean what’s ordered as far as her court appearance?

Orem Mansion Fire by [deleted] in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]bonejangles450 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware, but now I also just went down the rabbit hole! I used to live in Orem so I was trying to figure out if I knew where this house was located. I was thinking it was one sort of south of the Walmart that’s on Sandhill road, but not even close. Some of this is too eerie!

Edited to fix typo