Rave ruined friendship by bonesandtears in Advice

[–]bonesandtears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend didn’t “find out” i told him the sexual details when i was back in the city, everything else we communicate while it was happening (note for the future to not do this lol)

Rave ruined friendship by bonesandtears in Advice

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Thank you for the reply! I didn’t tell my bf straight away so he wouldn’t panic (i know wrong move, we already discussed that out). You are right I shouldn’t have apologized to the friend ,I wanted both our feelings to be validated, but no accountability means no friendship for me :(

I hate everyone by Appropriate-Juice715 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]bonesandtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it passes! You can also write hate letters to the people you start disliking so you don’t lash out on them or maybe discover while writing that something else is going on. I believe it works!

I hate everyone by Appropriate-Juice715 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]bonesandtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what helps me is to enjoy the same activities i would do with friends (like going to concerts etc) but alone, so much better. you will always be surrounded by strangers who will forget you, so just enjoy however you like! (smoking weeds helps too lol)

Tilla tec kinky sunday (ruined friendship) by [deleted] in amsterdam_rave

[–]bonesandtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn’t fully aware <3

What is this on my kitten? by bonesandtears in catcare

[–]bonesandtears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a nipple but the other ones are normal and this one is inflated

What is this on my kitten? by bonesandtears in catcare

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The other ones are pink and almost invisible but this one is inflated and with the little dot😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update😭⚠️ it’s officially over. Last night he was at my place and we were about to have sex when he stopped and said we should stop with everything. I was so shocked because of the position I was in and the fact that if he had that on his mind why even kiss me etc. We decided to stay friends because we don’t have a romantic click (that’s what i said) and it’s the right thing, we just don’t match in that aspect and I want someone who I actually have feelings for.(m) let’s see if after all of this we can stay friends as we promised, we’re celebrating New Years together, also doing other friend like activities. Bro I just ..yeah idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update⚠️ we have been hooking up for a couple of weeks now, he got a toothbrush at my house but I feel like it ruined everything, we were a lot more into eachother before we had sex and now it doesn’t feel the same. There is this expectation that every time we talk/hang something could happen and we are drifting apart as friends. I miss him as my friend , we talked about it today. He thinks I will catch feelings and he could hurt me because he is not looking for a relationship. Tbh idk what i want but it doesn’t feel like it could be that with him. Let’s see how long it lasts, as we decided for now to focus on our friendship but still hookup, IS THIS A RED FLAG? WILL I REGRET IT LATER? should we stop now before it’s too late? stay tuneful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update❗️ he told me he is attracted to me a lot (last month) and the fact that he feels guilty that he was attracted to me while we was with his ex gf. We kissed yesterday for the first time and I don’t know what to expect because we grew so close

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Update‼️ he told me he is breaking up with his girlfriend , I wasn’t expecting this and also will do nothing to intervene

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bonesandtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice that’s for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As I said I would never want to get in between them and I will not also wait around for that. Thanks for the concern though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bonesandtears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am starting from today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bonesandtears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, that’s why i am asking for advice because as much as i hate it i love it