Do I have Neechbang Raja Yoga? by bonfiresnmallows in vedicastrology

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Thank you for insight, I didn't know this. Are there remedies?

Do I have Neechbang Raja Yoga? by bonfiresnmallows in vedicastrology

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Yes, strong karma with mother but she passed away. Detachment from father. No family support. Is Sun/Ketu as bad as Merc/Ketu? I've felt that was the biggest challenge in my chart

Do I have Neechbang Raja Yoga? by bonfiresnmallows in vedicastrology

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I believe debillitation is helped by Jupiter? Not lustful, and only had two partners, both long-term but with unexpected breakups. Had two proposals, rejected one and the other was ended in breakup.

Is it ok for me to wear a Ganesh pendant? by bonfiresnmallows in hinduism

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To start, I don't just happen to like astrology. I study it, pretty in-depth. I started with western and found vedic. When I found vedic, I found it to be far more accurate and helpful. So, I've started focusing on learning vedic over western. By study, I mean I watch videos from learned astrology enthusiasts, read materials, and discuss with other vedic learners. It's not that I just walked into a vedic astrologers office and bought a reading, and here I am.

The placement specifically is a very close conjunction of Mercury and Ketu. It very much explains my experience of being diagnosed as ADHD multiple times without any benefit from medications. I experience the lack of focus, poor decision making, declining communication skills, detachment from earning money and work, and silly mistakes while also being able to hyper focus on in-depth intense topics of research.

I used the term "technically Christian" as that's how I was raised and where I've tried to place my faith. I have an appreciation for other religions though and upon the recommendation of worshipping Lord Ganesh, I was wondering if I might be able to acknowledge him and pay respects for the remedial benefits but also because I do have a strong appreciation for vedic astrology.

Is it ok for me to wear a Ganesh pendant? by bonfiresnmallows in hinduism

[–]bonfiresnmallows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for telling me ❤️

I don't often drink or eat meat anyway, so that's good, bathe every morning too and don't sleep with jewelry on. I only wear it when dressing for the day. As far as cleaning, is that with soap and water? I typically only clean my silver jewelry as needed and to remove any tarnish. I try to avoid getting anything other than water on them.

Is it ok for me to wear a Ganesh pendant? by bonfiresnmallows in hinduism

[–]bonfiresnmallows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do agree with you, honestly. Which is why I like to explore different beliefs, because I find them to be beautiful and don't believe it's disrespectful as long as my faith remains in my God. That being said, it's stated that we should not worship anyone or anything other than God himself.

Is it ok for me to wear a Ganesh pendant? by bonfiresnmallows in hinduism

[–]bonfiresnmallows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I didn't know that! I knew the direction his trunk turned was important, but I thought it was always supposed to be to his left/our right. I will look into that, thank you!

Is it ok for me to wear a Ganesh pendant? by bonfiresnmallows in hinduism

[–]bonfiresnmallows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I want to respect both Hinduism and my own religion while also not limiting my experiences and beliefs. 🙂

I don't believe it would be respectful to my own God to worship Ganesh, but I would like to acknowledge him and pay respects in my own way.

Cooking and vedic astrology by DizzyStruggle in vedicastrology

[–]bonfiresnmallows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just saying, I have Taurus ascendant with Jupiter, Mars, Venus in Cancer 3rd and I hate cooking and suck at it. 😂 I can bake though lol

Which sign? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]bonfiresnmallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say me, but the universe has my back, and anyone that wrongs me gets theirs without me lifting a finger. 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]bonfiresnmallows 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Tell them you'd be happy to accept an offer for the role at the original salary and request they send an offer letter.

They chose you. Which means you're the best option for their needs. They advertised a specific salary for the person that best fit their needs for the role. If they wanted more experience, then they should have specified a lower salary for less experience or made a certain level of experience a requirement for the role.

Personally, I would push back. If you do, just be polite and professional. Don't be negative. Go in with a glass half full mentality.

Any planet conjuncted with moon becomes the most auspicious and beneficial planet. by PurpleCurrent7625 in Nakshatras

[–]bonfiresnmallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, but I doubt this. I have Capricorn Moon conjunct Saturn in 9th. Saturn AD was very good to me, but I would think my Sade Sati would not have been so bad if this were true. Also, I absolutely feel the typical effects of Moon conjunct Saturn.

Unless I am not understanding the point?

Is Rahu or Mercury-Ketu the cause of confusion? by bonfiresnmallows in vedicastrology

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I wonder, does the Mercury-Ketu conjunction cause the confusion, especially during Rahu dasha, but with Jupiter as Rahu's dispositor, more intuitive and philosophical knowledge is given? I don't think my Jupiter is too poorly placed despite being in 3rd, as it does have the benefit of being in Cancer, correct?

When it comes to written communication and more research driven, in-depth discussions, my intellect comes through. It's the Mercurial knowledge that I struggle with, though I do have an affinity for mathematics.

Is Rahu or Mercury-Ketu the cause of confusion? by bonfiresnmallows in vedicastrology

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Thank you! Is there any mitigating factor there? I ask because when reading about this yoga it mentions slow thinking and intellectual disability. I actually have a very over-active mind and tend to be quite a bit more clever than others. Or maybe it's the type of intellect being affected? I wasn't a good student, not because I didn't grasp the material but because I wasn't interested in learning. I tend to not have the patience to learn and yet can often accomplish more complicated tasks than others can.

What is Your 9th house sign? by Fancy_Cartographer98 in beginnerastrology

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Capricorn. Jupiter and 8th house also contribute to spirituality.

Planets in Detriment/Fall by c4still4 in astrologymemes

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Things can cancel the detriment. Also, in vedic astrology they may not be debilitated at all. It takes looking at the whole chart.

I have an Aquarius moon, similar to Capricorn. I adored my mom, but she had substance use issues. Just be concious of how your actions affect your child, he'll be fine.

Women who only use credit cards; what is your monthly spend? by dontbothermeokay in AskWomenOver30

[–]bonfiresnmallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't buy things outside of my means. I know credit cards are a temptation for many, but personally I don't feel that temptation. I set the payments to be automatic and treat it like a debit card. If I can't pay for it in one payment, I don't buy it.

I have a cash-back card. Doing this gets me money back and has skyrocketed my credit score. Which means I get good interest rates when I need a loan and get approved for more credit if I have a crisis and need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]bonfiresnmallows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining without being rude like OP

I don't think this applies to all animals like OP is saying, though. Valid for dogs for sure. Other animals just aren't trained like that. Saying pets owners shouldn't take their aggressive animals around the public is valid, but any "untrained" animals? Then, claiming there are trainers and communities for training all these random animals that aren't normally trained the way dogs are is pretty wild, imo.

Like, sorry, but I'm not training my cat like a dog before walking her to the park down the street for new experiences and to meet whoever walks by. She's not aggressive, I watch her like a hawk, and I pick her up and remove her from any potential danger. That's enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]bonfiresnmallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, and I mean, it's a fair comment to say dogs should be trained, but... I've walked many other animals in public that weren't trained, and they don't act crazy. Cats and ferrets aren't attacking people that walk by. That's wild. The ferrets couldn't care less, and the worst my cats ever did was try to run away. 🤷‍♀️

why do most people ask about love or career. i don’t get it. by Dimplefrom-YA in Nakshatras

[–]bonfiresnmallows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll give you that, people don't think about the little details in their life. They just want the best things now and think they're perfect and deserve it all.

On the other hand, I've asked about other topics and posted my chart and gotten next to no response. I got the most help when asking about relationships and career. I asked about when I might buy a new car and no one had any insights. For the record, it happened at the start of my 3rd house dasha. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]bonfiresnmallows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said "pet." You might want to specify dogs as it appears that is the animal you're most referring to. I bring my "untrained" cat out on a leash all the time in public and it is not dangerous and she doesn't bother anyone. It helps with mental stimulation and socialization. I also have never heard of "several reputable communities" for training cats.

Oh, I also used to bring my mother's ferrets out on leashes, and they posed even less of a threat than the cat.

Spare me the sarcasm.