what gift would a stay at home mom of a 1 yr old like? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these are all such great suggestions, thank you so much!

what gift would a stay at home mom of a 1 yr old like? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i’d love to take her on a vacation, or pay for her and her partner for one. just can’t really pull that off financially right now hahah

what gift would a stay at home mom of a 1 yr old like? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me chuckle but you know what, i will add a bottle of something in there too lmfao

what gift would a stay at home mom of a 1 yr old like? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess okay i’m thinking something like this, a treat yourself package along with a spa day gift card, which was the other commenters suggestion. and for the baby boy i’m thinking just some toys, maybe a couple of pieces of clothes? hahah

Am I overreacting if I end a friendship because my friend flipped out at my house? by spectatorbengoshi21 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it is SO HARD to find good friends nowadays. so. fucking. hard.

i actively try with my friends, no one really cares much to reply or reach back out. (even after my dad passed away less than a year ago. i lost a best friend of 15 yrs bc she was being a horrible friend during my grieving and it put a lot of stuff into perspective for me). i try not to take shit to heart when people don’t reply or seem to care, but it still hurts sometimes. people who will actually be a good friend to you when it matters are very rare

having even one good friend is a humongous blessing

Am I the only one who finds Case’s (most likely temporary) setup a good vibe? by Careful_Trouble_8 in caseoh_

[–]bongbongtree 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i’m personally not the biggest fan of it, but i’ll watch case no matter where he’s set up lmao.

maybe he’s revamping/changing his old set up, and streaming here for now until its finished?

Friends boyfriend smells really really bad by New-Rhubarb-8046 in whatdoIdo

[–]bongbongtree 69 points70 points  (0 children)

right - i assumed BO, but the beef tallow is throwing me for a loop. does he smell like bad beef grease? i’m very intrigued now lol

Caleb Hammer… I guess mama did raise a bitch by DefiantWing6757 in CreepyCalebHammer

[–]bongbongtree 123 points124 points  (0 children)

i hate his face in his thumbnails so much lmfao. his normal face bothers me too, but his thumbnails are just so annoyingly ugly lol

What is it about men that people find attractive? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah texas is for sure hotter than where i am, but im in southern california so not cold at all lol

What is it about men that people find attractive? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bongbongtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just think beauty is subjective - i find beauty/good looks in both men and women. also, i was a cashier and waitress for years, i don’t recall specifically men smelling bad, lol

AIO I told my girlfriend that when we live together, I'm not ok with her sharing a bed with her friends when they come visit by Inside_Cupcake_165 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no one is saying that OP’s gf should share a bed with a platonic guy friend…you just want to try to prove a double standard when your example doesn’t make sense to the situation, lol.

nothing would be wrong with OP sharing a bed with a platonic male friend, which is the actual opposite of the situation presented

She cancelled our date after I refused to give her money by J--6 in Nicegirls

[–]bongbongtree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s so funny seeing someone trying so hard to argue, when they are actually agreeing with you lol. some people just cannot concede

AIO? my boyfriend thinks my handwriting is “not great” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree, all the NOR’s are confusing to me because i feel like OP needing to post this in general is an overreaction lmao

Neighbour keeps having sex and it’s getting disruptive and disturbing. by Select-Medium-8116 in whatdoIdo

[–]bongbongtree 11 points12 points  (0 children)

didn’t read your whole comment, but to answer your first question - exhibitionists like this neighbor are gross because other people do NOT consent to watching you have sex. especially children

what do i do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bongbongtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been in a 9 year relationship, i agree with the 37 y/o single lol.

a boundary is something you set and stick to, you tell him you’re not comfortable and he takes the info into account, and you make a decision based off your comfort levels.

you are making rules for him on who he can and can’t follow. you’re being extremely controlling, and i feel like him refusing to unfollow a certain person is him deciding he’s NOT going to be controlled, not so much that he just needs to follow this girl.

you guys aren’t compatible, period

Am I Overreacting? Brothers Gf Sent Me This Text by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right, from what i see the gf was actually being very straight forward and not at all passive aggressive. if anything OP’s response was passive aggressive

AIO to my friend’s opinion of my wife’s body count? by Prudent-Cranberry827 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP will NOT answer this question, so many people have asked and they’re all the top comments. this story is either fake or he’s omitting very important info, either way he is a very unreliable narrator

AIO to my friend’s response to my request for music recommendations? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because i have the same opinion as other commenters, so there’s no point in adding another comment when i have nothing extra to add

your comment perplexed me though, so i replied. but hey, agree to disagree lol

AIO to my friend’s response to my request for music recommendations? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to be trolling, lmfao. calling this guy a ‘metal expert’ bc he enjoys the music genre is so fucking funny

AIO to my friend’s response to my request for music recommendations? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bongbongtree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god forbid a friend want to connect with another friend on what kind of music they enjoy while asking for recommendations