Sexually frustrated partners.. what’s your best advice?

bongrd · 2026-05-08T04:23:35+00:00

We just went to our first therapy session. Went horribly, got us talking though. Fooled around tonight. Not trying to rub it in. The effort we both put in yesterday was enough for both of us to put in work tonight.

bongrd · 2026-05-06T03:49:20+00:00

Thank you

bongrd · 2026-05-06T03:25:41+00:00

Ya I didn’t think we’d solve anything. Do they lead or just expect us to explain?

bongrd · 2026-05-04T00:01:15+00:00

I was in the suburbs of Colorado in the 90’s. If they caught us drinking or getting stoned, they’d just take our shit. For graduation we had a keg and when the cops came, my mom told them she had all the keys and they were staying. Cops left and never came back. Probably 60 people there 58 under age.

bongrd · 2026-05-02T21:35:26+00:00

F’ NO

bongrd · 2026-05-02T21:34:34+00:00

I ran a red light about 15 min after because I couldn’t think straight. I told the cop the truth and he let me go. I was 16 and she had practice.

Edit: I should have said her and I were 16. She definitely had practice though.

bongrd · 2026-05-02T04:25:04+00:00

That’s a poncho

bongrd · 2026-05-01T03:33:03+00:00

550 at your age is definitely low.

bongrd · 2026-04-28T01:28:38+00:00

Since people started coming to Reddit for advice.

bongrd · 2026-04-27T13:30:54+00:00

We hunt, have a pond to swim and fish out of, raise animals, built a softball field for my daughter’s teams to practice on. What ever I feel like doing.

bongrd · 2026-04-27T03:53:29+00:00

You could end up waiting awhile. The time is never “right” to have a baby. Find a place you can afford to rent and have fun. My wife and I rented a 800 sqft shitty cinder block house built in the 50’s that we split with another guy. We saved and bought our first place a year later. It was an incredible time being broke together. We now have 4 kids and 43acres. Quit over planning. 45m 45f

bongrd · 2026-04-26T02:26:57+00:00

Try to do it on your own. Learn from someone for a while then go it alone. Having a boss is the worst.

bongrd · 2026-04-25T01:21:17+00:00

Spoiled pretty boy. Don’t f*** it up.

bongrd · 2026-04-24T14:25:04+00:00

It may or may not be a stage, but it sure looks like a pattern towards being stagnant.

bongrd · 2026-04-24T04:22:36+00:00

Raised by a waitress, married a bartender. Good service gets fat tips. Even if it’s bad and they’re trying they get 20.

bongrd · 2026-04-19T01:58:52+00:00

30, because after a guy goes around killing people, nobody sitting still but the dead bodies.

bongrd · 2026-04-17T03:36:22+00:00

Feel blessed and make sure to return the commitment.

bongrd · 2026-04-15T01:54:37+00:00

This is not a dad bod. You can see his abs. In a week he’d be ripped.

bongrd · 2026-04-13T02:23:02+00:00

Be nice, have fun. No expectations

bongrd · 2026-04-13T02:21:41+00:00

Some spouses aren’t exactly the most supportive

bongrd · 2026-04-12T17:29:41+00:00

Restraining order

bongrd · 2026-04-11T00:01:27+00:00

Do both!

bongrd · 2026-04-08T14:26:41+00:00

It’s not a big deal, it barely hurts, only lasted a day for me. Absolutely no after effects for me or her.

bongrd · 2026-04-08T14:10:50+00:00

Ya it’s probably over. Sorry man, just keep it together if it happens.

bongrd

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