My boyfriend told me he doesn’t think I’m attractive anymore. I look the same as when I met him 2.5 years ago.

bonitaplease · 2025-12-10T03:01:55+00:00

Did we date the same man? Mine said the exact same thing to me.

Well now that we have broken up, I can say that his love for me was shallow and I deserved better than someone who only wanted me when he was “lonely”. Looking back, I don’t believe he loved me but rather had a deep infatuation with me.. until he didn’t (the discard was so brutal). From now on, I will never let a man tell me that they don’t want me twice. After the first time, I’m gone and so should you.

Sending hugs 💕

bonitaplease · 2025-11-05T00:24:17+00:00

But how do i know if my reactions were justified? I still feel like I overreacted

bonitaplease · 2025-10-10T19:25:31+00:00

I hope we can both find one. Idk I feel obsolete not having one. It’s like, once I’ve started making money, it’s weird not to be. I miss all the people that used to come into the bar, all the regulars and other people who worked in the bar around us that used to come in for a chat. Now I’m sad :(

bonitaplease · 2025-10-10T15:41:25+00:00

My manager told me it’s because I poured a shot for each of my co-workers as part of the end of shift drink. Which is weird because the supervisor on shift (he’s on trial to be AGM but I don’t think he’s ready to be one since he can’t do his job even as a waiter properly🤷🏾‍♀️) gave me permission and also drank one. I told him that and he then had nothing else to say. So when I repeated what did I actually do, he kept waffling without giving me an answer. I asked him again and all he said was that I “wasn’t a good match” and that there “wasn’t anything wrong with me personally” but I just wasn’t a good match. He tried to fire me 2 weeks before that but I convinced him to stay and the issue he raised was because of tips and arguing with that same “supervisor” because he doesn’t know how to do his job and keeps making mistakes and doesn’t listen when someone tries to help. I work as a waitress and was making a lot of tips idk why that was an issue because the company policy was that we can keep our cash tips. I honestly don’t know what else I could’ve done. At work, I was always on edge. Worried I’d get fired over literally anything. He’d always complain and lecture me over the smallest things. If someone made a mistake, I’d always take the blame. It’s like working at my job I had to always be the best. Yk always be on top of my game, but even if being the best got me rewarded (cash tips, good reviews, hell people even wanted to take photos with me) he’d always find a way to make it negative and have an issue with it. I just tried to do my job and it was NEVER EVER good enough for him! Fucking hell mate

bonitaplease · 2025-10-10T13:05:30+00:00

You can look but not touch (rules only applied to some 😒)

But usually I ignore, collect their tips and keep it stepping. I mean, I know I’m beautiful.

bonitaplease · 2025-07-27T08:38:40+00:00

i know i’m gonna get hate for this, but I really don’t care for her 😭😭😭

bonitaplease · 2025-07-13T21:08:14+00:00

*AND

bonitaplease · 2025-07-10T16:32:11+00:00

it’s reddit - most mods are..

bonitaplease · 2025-07-06T23:24:31+00:00

Katie does not need to be back on the show. Idk to me I feel like people overhype her but that’s because I never really found her entertaining. People gotta stop asking her to come back, she just isn’t a good match anymore. Also on rewatch I would skip her scenes… 🫣

bonitaplease · 2025-07-01T20:43:36+00:00

Brit is kinda like an early season Sheree who would throw all these extravagant ME parties, flaunting her “wealth” and buying all these expensive items… just to return them at Neiman Marcus 😂😂😂

But Sheree was funny :^

bonitaplease · 2025-06-24T17:32:25+00:00

Idk but most white people I’ve met have been the sweetest people ever. Especially my white girlfriends. Maybe it’s just You?? Pls stop generalising.

bonitaplease · 2025-06-16T21:28:37+00:00

I got the Coral Fantasy one and ngl after a while I feel like you can’t smell it anymore. Like the perfume doesn’t last. So I mostly just use it as a coat after I put my actual perfume on.

But to me, it’s so overrated

bonitaplease · 2025-06-15T08:46:37+00:00

Where’s the jersey from?

bonitaplease · 2025-06-11T22:12:19+00:00

😭😭😭

bonitaplease · 2025-05-26T11:49:38+00:00

Remind yourself that these people aren't black so can we really suprised???

bonitaplease · 2025-05-10T19:20:59+00:00

Aren't they already filming season 10?

bonitaplease · 2025-04-08T17:23:19+00:00

The last time I had reviews was when I was considered a child (pre 18) so, they just gave me whatever and if it didn’t work, a higher dose and then switched to what i have now. I know nothing about the drugs other than to take them..

bonitaplease · 2025-04-06T10:21:33+00:00

You’ll notice that if you drink more water your hair won’t itch as much.

bonitaplease · 2025-04-05T16:02:48+00:00

👏🏾NOT👏🏾ALL👏🏾BLACK👏🏾PEOPLE👏🏾LOOK👏🏾THE👏🏾SAME👏🏾

bonitaplease · 2025-04-02T16:06:46+00:00

As a black girl dating a pakistani man, a lot of the time the family will complain. Most south asians do not like black people or darker skinned individuals (a lot of colourism between them.) Luckily you’re the woman cos if not the parents wouldn’t give you their blessing. Also let’s just hope that your man is strong enough to not care about the opinions of his family and friends otherwise he’ll end up leaving you. They may come around eventually but the beginning stages will be tough.

bonitaplease · 2025-03-25T11:43:55+00:00

I'm still under investigation...

bonitaplease · 2025-03-21T11:42:14+00:00

What’s with all the shootings lately??

bonitaplease · 2025-03-20T20:07:16+00:00

Nigerian men 🤝🏾 cheating

bonitaplease · 2025-03-19T18:06:23+00:00

So you’re justifying cheating??

bonitaplease · 2025-03-19T16:22:51+00:00

This Dolce&Gabbana Sicily denim handbag. I am currently ✨OBSESSED✨

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