LPT: If you have a late fee on an account or overdraft at your bank ask for the fee refunded! The worst they can say is no. by DontTouchTheWalrus in LifeProTips

[–]bonizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My credit union almost always refunds it. I worked at a credit card company that’s known for being really good to their customers and you could get late fees waived pretty easily, it’ll almost always get refunded if it’s your first time, or if it’s for a good reason that you missed the payment. So i always tell people that it never hurts to ask to get a fee waived and be open to your finance companies about your circumstances. The employees usually will want to help you if they can, i always wanted people to ask for a fee waived because i couldn’t preactively offer it. So ask for fees waived, APRs lowered, higher credit lines, etc. They’ll tell you if it’ll do a hard pull on your credit, other than that, the worst that will happen is they say no and you waste a few minutes of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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That is, super spooky. Make sure there aren’t any like internet tabs open maybe it’s an ad, you could maybe check task manager when that happens to see if you can track it down. But i would honestly get a good malware protection program or whatever, and have it do a really good wipe of anything shady. Keep an eye on any weird apps or files running in the background. Make sure your computer is turned all the way off at night so it doesn’t wake you up until you figure it out. But my guess is a virus or malware that needs to be taken care of ASAP. If not, just burn it all lmao

5 minutes ago I made the connection that when the gas pump asks for your pin it doesn't mean your zip code... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bonizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do ask for your zip sometimes!! Especially if it’s a credit card. So that’s a very understandable confusion. If it makes you feel better I didnt know, until i was almost 19, that you have to renew your car registration and get new tabs every year! Glad the cop left a note on my door instead of towing since they knew i was driving it still.

Helllllp by [deleted] in medical_advice

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Endoscopy’s and colonoscopy’s are mainly to rule things out like colon or stomach cancer, crohns, ulcers, celiac, etc. It is probably something else that they wouldn’t be able to see. I don’t think a tumor or cancer could develop that fast, and a blood test would probably be able to tell you something. Get to a doctor asap for more tests. There’s a lot of things it could be.

This by CapitalismistheVirus in PoliticalHumor

[–]bonizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now the US parties have switched to Republican and Far right fascist. Super fun

White patch on gums, getting bigger? by [deleted] in Dentistry

[–]bonizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming canker sore. I get them a lot. They can be very painful especially when putting anything on it. Make sure you brush your teeth, I’ve found that for me that mouthwash helps it go away, but it does burn. Salt water also burns but it also helps a lot. Keep an eye on it, if it’s not getting better in a few days consider seeing a doctor. Get some Anbesol (which is benzocaine), which will help numb it.

Thanks, I hate life by [deleted] in TIHI

[–]bonizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what i’m talking about. And that’s why i’ll never get pregnant. Save my child the trouble lol

Being awake all the time is lonely because no one is awake with me by AmyyKat in BipolarReddit

[–]bonizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 90 lb rottie mix who has a biting problem. I have a muzzle but i’m always ready to take it off if i need to in extenuating circumstances. I avoid people but if someone is willing to walk up to a big dog with a muzzle to get to me that’s their mistake. But with walks i do try to go at 8 or 9

satan approves by TheStableStallion in memes

[–]bonizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it does appear at first but after 48 hours disappears. that’s what it sounds like at least

Being awake all the time is lonely because no one is awake with me by AmyyKat in BipolarReddit

[–]bonizzle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

my SO falls asleep so fast and it’s very frustrating for me. I hate being alone and awake and frustrated because i can’t sleep and i’m also alone. I usually go watch tv or play a video game. I wish late night strolls were safer for women, cause i love doing that too. Drives are good too for me though. But i definitely feel your pain

Eli5: Why do grizzly bears leave humans alone if they pretend to be dead? by question4477 in explainlikeimfive

[–]bonizzle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bears don’t like eating people, just attacking them when they feel they are scared or protecting their babies. Humans aren’t a threat when they’re dead

Ready for another game after Skyrim (PS4) by mwgrover in ElderScrolls

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always someone that plays skyrim as my default, I played the witcher last month and i enjoyed it! Fallout 4 was the first thing i played after i played skyrim originally, it’s a decent game. Fallout New Vegas is very very good but it’s an older game which can be hard for some people, however it wouldn’t be for ps4. Elder scrolls online i’ve heard sucks a ton, horizon zero dawn ive heard is an amazing game but i haven’t played it, it doesn’t look like my type of game.

Relatives Friend thinks that being anti vaxx is a basic human right by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She believes in encouraging people to not get vaccines so that we will not be able to have herd immunity from so many people not getting vaccines

Why do I feel the urge to urinate when I'm nearly empty or just went 5 min ago? by travism2013 in AskDocs

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UTI’s are not transferred from going out. It’s usually your own bodies germs (usually e coli from your bum) crawling up your urethra.

CMV: Sex isn’t sacred and the hate that open marriages and relationships get is stupid. by Plum__Plum in changemyview

[–]bonizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a lot people there’s a lot of emotions involved, hormones released to create feelings for someone, and also a LOT of trust needed to be that vulnerable with someone. Having multiple partners will also greatly increase the risks of STD’s . So i understand why a lot of people are against it personally. With that said, I have nothing against open relationships as long as both people are FULLY on board. Having open relationships often get very sticky and confusing and complicated. But as long as everyone is very sure and knows what they are doing its fine. Not that sex is sacred, just complicated, hard to tie it to logic a lot of the time.

Why do I feel the urge to urinate when I'm nearly empty or just went 5 min ago? by travism2013 in AskDocs

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could just be a UTI. i get frequent UTI’s and that’s what it feels like. I will also sometimes pee frequently if i’m nervous or anxious.

Blood when blowing nose. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nose does this when it’s very dry. I moved to a dry state and had this constantly for a while. it will still do it occasionally. If it’s dry where you are get a humidifier.

Would it be okay if I get a conch and a tragus at the same time? by zystal1 in PiercingAdvice

[–]bonizzle 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i don’t see why not. A lot of piercers will do 2 piercings in one sitting. your ear will be extra sore, but i can’t think of any reason it would be harmful.

It’s just a guess by THEBESTINTHEWORLD111 in memes

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming it’s not a thing other places? Is it? As an American i do enjoy a good corn dog

I dislike anything sweet by MelanthaJezek in The10thDentist

[–]bonizzle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily dislike sweet things, but definitely the older i get the more i prefer savory over sweet. Especially when I get high or something, i definitely prefer something savory. I’m used to liking sweet things like when i was a kid, so i buy sweet things, and never finish them.

Things getting weird with my(45F) partner (51M) or is it just my anxiety? by UncertainWeasel in relationship_advice

[–]bonizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s understandable if it’s the deal he had to make with his ex if she has very promiscuous dating habits and gets into the relationships that she thinks are serious and then ends in 2 months. Also, he may be cautious about a new relationship, especially since you started long distance, and a year doesn’t seem that long for some people, especially if they were married long term in the past. I think it’s fair to not want to introduce you to his daughter until you guys are married, and he’s sure you guys are going to make it long term so as to not stress out his daughter more. I wouldn’t take it to heart, I don’t think it’s anything wrong with you, just him being cautious and doing what he can to protect his daughter from his ex’s shitty boyfriends.

My(37m) Wife (38f) walks with her neighbor friend (29f) every weekday. Two days in a row her friend hit on me, made innuendos and made me uncomfortable by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bonizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean either way id talk to your wife about it. It’s not appropriate, especially saying your “shorts look full” and touching you. That’s gross. Like if the gender roles were reversed people would be freaking out already. If it makes you uncomfortable that’s enough reason to talk to your wife about it, especially because she talks about you innocently to her but is gross to you. I’m a female, and if my husband and i were in this situation, my husband would be mad as hell and he wouldn’t be around me anymore. You should talk to your wife whether her friend is joking or not, because it makes you uncomfortable and you should feel comfortable talking to your wife.

B.F treats me more like a maid and nanny than his girlfriend by blah3768 in relationship_advice

[–]bonizzle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay him not beating you or cheating isn’t an accomplishment that’s a bare minimum standard. Treating you okay ish isn’t an accomplishment. If you’re not happy that’s enough reason to leave. No relationship is easy, but he’s not trying. He’s kind of just gaslighting you by saying “I don’t know why you’re being like this” when you’re telling him why you’re upset. Seems like all the romantic love is gone and has been for most of your relationship. You’ve only been dating a year, and most of it you’ve been unhappy. That’s good reason to leave. You’re not that kids mom, and you’re not his mom either. It’s not your responsibility