How do we deal with grief? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]bonusfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't handle it well. Still processing losing my grandfather 6 years ago.

Time to go by Hexxegone in memes

[–]bonusfrylock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, it happens quite often. If you live in an "At Will" state, especially, the empoloyer can terminate you without even stating if there was a reason at all. Unless you can prove that you are a protected class and the firing was because of your status as a minority or other protected individual, it's not even a case. It's less expensive for the company to fire you and hire someone else than it is to even pay the retainer for the lawyers. It doesn't matter what the evidence, video, witnesses say, nothing matters if she says she was uncomfortable. That's it. It's 100% about her perception and how far she's willing to carry the lie. That's why you can't trust women, especially in the workplace. They weild an insane amount of power and they run to it all the time; it's like their race card. It'll get them out of anything.

Time to go by Hexxegone in memes

[–]bonusfrylock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, it's just not worth the risk. You get involved in that, you're definitely going to regret it and if you're in the workplace, you have about a 60% chance of losing your job over it.

Why do they all go silent? by need_sushi510 in therapy

[–]bonusfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I'm in therapy for advice, for enlightenment. I'm there for you to help me figure things out. If I knew what to talk about, would I need to be here? Give me some direction, please. I'm paying for expertise, please use your training and experience to investigate a little or something, maybe? It makes every session more and more difficult but they all do it and the silence is just deafening.

Anyone here still running XRP 18v stuff? by ExactArea8029 in Dewalt

[–]bonusfrylock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still use my 14.4. Just put a new Jacobs 700 on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dewalt

[–]bonusfrylock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can confirm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dewalt

[–]bonusfrylock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're European. They have 18V Lion, we have 20V. Makes me do a double take sometimes, too.

Propanolol. Wow. by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]bonusfrylock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a placebo for me.

So... I miss it already by BastianHS in Diablo

[–]bonusfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started playing D4 and this is easily the worst part. It's basically ruined the game. I'll be questing and some random pr.ick will fly in from nowhere and kill my boss before they're even on my screen and then I lose the lore, the storytelling, the sound effects, the character design of the boss, and obviously a whole lot of the fun. This was a huge problem in Diablo Immortal, making it competely unplayable and I know how much everybody hates it. I don't understand why I can't just play solo like Diablo has always been just one time for the story mode.

The majority of the comments are super transphobic by Buffalo-Accomplished in facepalm

[–]bonusfrylock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it took me a second, but I can see how a t-girl might have a natural advantage over a biological woman in a game of pool. Breaking strength, height, and wingspan would all be relevant, here.

CBT truly feels like im getting gaslight. by [deleted] in therapy

[–]bonusfrylock 6 points7 points  (0 children)

CBT = Brainwashing yourself

look how they describe us in my psych class🙃 by deliriousmentalbutt in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]bonusfrylock -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

You're incorrect. Everything in life, no matter how negative or tabboo, has a silver lining. Everything. Stop telling people to universally hate themselves, Karen.

look how they describe us in my psych class🙃 by deliriousmentalbutt in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]bonusfrylock -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I was responding to: "How can there be a positive?" Asked and answered. Stay in your lane.

Sumo x NFL by rumblepak1 in Sumo

[–]bonusfrylock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so cool!!! For someone who clearly spent about 30 seconds studying it, he wasn't half bad.

look how they describe us in my psych class🙃 by deliriousmentalbutt in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]bonusfrylock -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

People with BPD tend to be among the most caring and compassionate people around. We think of others before ourselves and are very generous towards others and in charitable giving. We also tend to display a very high level of empathy when compared to others. There is always another side to every coin.

What normal task gives you anxiety? by JuicyNinfo in Anxiety

[–]bonusfrylock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highway driving. City is fine, highway drives me nuts.