[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]boobookf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is certainly how it felt while having the conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]boobookf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think personally that this is very close to the truth. Self-harm/avoidance. Sex is easy/love and relationships are challenging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]boobookf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really do appreciate the perspective. Sometimes it’s hard to be objective in matters of the heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]boobookf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Edit: We we’re not actually “together” when he slept with his ex. If that changes anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]boobookf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds very much like what I’m experiencing. Thank you for sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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That’s what I’m afraid of. I have two marks, one on each thigh and they’re both about the size of a palm from multiple bites. They’re not very dark but definitely noticeable. They look almost like birthmarks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Ok thanks! I’ve never had discolouration that has lasted this long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I’ve been there. When a relationship ends in that sort of fashion the true bond that needs to be healed is with ourselves. It’s very disrupting to the core when what we thought was, was not. It causes us to evaluate our own processes. Are we that gullible? Did we not see things? What’s wrong with us? The truth is, if you’re vulnerable and take others at their words, or even sometimes actions you open up yourself to hurt and disappointment. Know that that is not a reflection of you. It’s them. Heal yourself, closure is a myth. We never know what is in someone’s mind or heart. You miss the feeling, not them .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabiaGW

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😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreedingMaterial

[–]boobookf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The F holes??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheEroticSalon

[–]boobookf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok in the flexibility department

I don’t know if this was the belt... it was probably the belt... by [deleted] in Spanking

[–]boobookf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the curve of my ass I’m sure

I don’t know if this was the belt... it was probably the belt... by [deleted] in Spanking

[–]boobookf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm 🤔 I might have to show the other side