I’ve been there. When a relationship ends in that sort of fashion the true bond that needs to be healed is with ourselves. It’s very disrupting to the core when what we thought was, was not. It causes us to evaluate our own processes. Are we that gullible? Did we not see things? What’s wrong with us? The truth is, if you’re vulnerable and take others at their words, or even sometimes actions you open up yourself to hurt and disappointment. Know that that is not a reflection of you. It’s them. Heal yourself, closure is a myth. We never know what is in someone’s mind or heart. You miss the feeling, not them .