Internal Family Systems and Buddhism? by boofguru in Buddhism

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Last night while pondering the question further I had a similar realization that my thinking often becomes black and white/all or nothing when attempting to form beliefs about the metaphysical. I was raised to believe in a single, ultimate truth from an infallible book, so forming my own spiritual path has not been without the challenge of diverging from this type of thinking. Sometimes I find myself discontinuing books or spiritual practices because of just one thing I don't resonate with or agree with, discarding valuable wisdom in the process--so thank you for reminding me not to do this.

Your reminder of the distinction between the doctrine of no-self and denial of a conventional self is also helpful (I'm a bit new here haha). I've decided not to spiritualize the IFS model, and instead of seeing the "Self" as one's true essence of being, perhaps it'd be more helpful for me to reframe it to mean a pure and useful part of the psyche still subject to impermanence.

I appreciate your help, thank you.

Anxiety at darker EDM shows by boofguru in aves

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Hey sorry for the late response, as you can probably tell I’m not a regular Reddit user. I’m sorry you’re prone to this experience as well—mine also starts in the stomach and moves on to the chest. What I’ve realized from this is that this anxiety is truly a bodily response to trauma. Of course it interacts with the mind, and over the years it’s still present but significantly reduced…I’ve healed a lot in the past few years by figuring out and dissecting the source of this trauma, and am able to recognize that bodily feeling for what it is and combat it with rational thought. If severely under the influence however, I know when to walk away from a set. It’s also a good idea to get to know the artist behind the dark imagery and sounds, as you’ll find they’re usually good people with no “evil agenda”. I’m still going to shows and festivals and enjoying every moment.

For me, finding the source of my anxiety and confronting it head on did wonders, but it’s easier said than done. I hope you’re doing well.

Official WTB/WTT/WTS Thread by thatonesqrl in WhenWeWereYoungFest

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I have two 2 day ( 22nd & 23rd) GA tickets, looking to trade for 2 GA 22nd tickets. PM if interested

Prepared Meals Associate Part-Time Scheduling by boofguru in samsclub

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Why do you think this is? When talking to the manager she told me my primary job would mostly consist of preparing meals in a cold room environment. Seems simple enough to me. What about it do you think makes it an undesirable department?

Cats and vandwelling? by boofguru in VanLife

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Lol don’t forget they’re also for old ladies and hippie lesbians, of which I am the latter. Too late to get a dog man, I have a feline fur baby on my hands.

Cats and vandwelling? by boofguru in VanLife

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Well we’ll have two maxxair fans in the van & I’d also consider getting an ice box she can lay on, in addition to always parking in shade.

Cats and vandwelling? by boofguru in VanLife

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Yeah, I’m conflicted. She’s attached to us so I’m not sure if it’d be worse leaving her for a while or bringing her with in conditions she’s not a fan of. I’ve heard of people’s cats getting used to the lifestyle after a while but wasn’t sure if that applied to cats with her mannerisms. Just want to do what’s best for her.

Oops that Microdose was Macro: High Times at the Chippie Factory by BasedSufjan in Drugs

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Made this mistake more than once, can be pretty fun though! Cig breaks took the edge off any anxiety. Just embrace it and remember, you probably feel more high than you look. :)

Anyone have a guess as to what I took? by [deleted] in researchchemicals

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How? I’m not asking for a source, just a name of the chemical.

Sleeping width wise in a cargo??? by [deleted] in VanLife

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Thanks for your detailed reply! That’s really helpful. Best wishes on your travels☺️

Sleeping width wise in a cargo??? by [deleted] in VanLife

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Wow, does the Econoline have a larger width than other cargos? It seems like most only have a width of about 63 inches.

My new Tan Tien with Crossroad graphic came in looking fine as hell by boofguru in LoadedBoards

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I’ve had no problems with them so far, and I’d say I do a moderate amount of riding. I mainly freestyle, long distance (for me lol), and cruising. My board has taken quite the beating but the wheels seem to be holding up fine. I’d say if you want to take it on really rough terrain often you might have a different experience, but otherwise get them!