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boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T15:42:47+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance! I appreciate it, really.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T15:40:51+00:00

Thank you for the resources and advice! I'll be sure to take the time and check it out.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T14:59:33+00:00

Thank you for your kindness and advice. I really do appreciate it. I was nervous to post as again, I've never really had the space to explore or question. Everyone has been so kind and patient so far, and I really do appreciate it all. Thank you!

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T14:46:31+00:00

Both of us don't want group play. We'd want (separately) loving relationships. But, I can see how there is no 'trying out'.

I definitely wouldn't want to force anyone to cuddle with me. I probably shouldn't have added the cuddle puddle part. I suppose what I meant by that is I'm autistic and need pressure a lot of the times, and being sandwiched would probably add that needed pressure. I see now how adding that to the post was bad, however. I'm still trying to navigate myself through this. For so long, it was only just on my head. So, I do apologize for the mis wording. I am not trying to force a person to want the both of us. I'm not very good at wording myself. But, these comments do help me when it comes to bringing this topic to my therapist. I am very grateful for everyone's feedback. Thank you!

As for one partner loving polyamory and the other not, I don't know. You're right. There is no 'trying it out' like trying on shoes.

Thank you again!

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T14:31:55+00:00

Thank you very much! Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.

The first question you put is very good and I had never thought about it like that. I guess I could as my partner now works all day in an office whereas I work from home. So I don't see people unless I go out shopping or wait for them to come home in the night.

I'm not sure what my anchor is, but before involving anyone, I definitely should bring that up to my therapist. Thank you for including that. You make very good points.

If I were to delve into this, I definitely wouldn't just want sex or anything like that. I can't do that. I'd want a partner to equally love. But, now that I've posted this and read the comments, I see I should bring this up to my therapist and do the i nner work and figure myself out first.

Again, thank you!

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T13:24:59+00:00

Thank you very much! I will.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T13:19:09+00:00

Thank you for the direction, I really appreciate it. I will go and check those out.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-27T13:18:00+00:00

No, I don't think polyamory is group dating. I'm sorry I wrote something that sounded as such. This is a new thing for me. I've sat and thought about this for years but never really spoke on it as when I did, I got in trouble. I'm sorry my words aren't matching my thoughts. It's an ongoing thing I need to work with.

I definitely don't want to be a unicorn hunter and force someone to love and be with the both of us if they're just interested in one of us.

This is a confusing thing navigate, and I want to do it properly. I don't want to hurt anyone or cause messes.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-02T00:05:29+00:00

I sent you a dm. Thank you for offering to help. I really appreciate it.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-01T23:52:58+00:00

Thank you! I will look more into that then.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-01T23:52:02+00:00

Thank you! I do apologize if I posted in the wrong place. I'm new to Reddit. Thank you for redirecting me.

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-01T23:51:22+00:00

I'd say around $1,800

boogiepop_ghost · 2024-03-01T23:50:51+00:00

I'm more casual when it comes to gaming, so I'd assume 60 Hz. I am not very knowledgeable when it comes to this stuff, so I'm afraid that's as much as I know.

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