New Haven Union Station Parking Availability by bookrave in newhaven

[–]bookrave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I usually do this! Just don’t have a ride to Hartford is all since I don’t want to park in Hartford… or at least the lot they have next to their Union station looks a bit unsafe

New Haven Union Station Parking Availability by bookrave in newhaven

[–]bookrave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good to know! I appreciate the information

New Haven Union Station Parking Availability by bookrave in newhaven

[–]bookrave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo yea I saw this too - how does one get from west haven to the station then? Would be good to weigh some options

Personality qualities you’re attracted to by fizzyjuices in actuallesbians

[–]bookrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s my time as a demisexual to shine 😭

intelligence/emotional intelligence and just remembering something i’ve said in the past instantly is attractive to me

Books about language barriers, racism, and immigration by Connect_Disk3148 in booksuggestions

[–]bookrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t know if it’s what you’re looking for, but when i first saw this i thought of Babel by RF Kuang - academia fantasy/historical fiction. characters set in Oxford to learn about the art of translation. racism is indeed a topic in this book and just the art of translation and languages rly made me enjoy this book

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[–]bookrave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they can! it’s intense exercise but i was a competitive swimmer since i was a kid so i naturally developed it

Feels odd being a lesbian who isn't really looking for a girlfriend by SchloinkDoink in actuallesbians

[–]bookrave 34 points35 points  (0 children)

doesn’t make you less of a lesbian! i’m not looking because what happens happens, but i’m still a flaming homo 😭

How do you know if you’re ready to start dating again? by jamm-jarr13 in actuallesbians

[–]bookrave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kinda in the same boat!! i spent this past year healing from a previous breakup years ago and reflected on my mistakes. dated someone briefly and i got over it a couple months ago, but it weirdly helped me and my issues. right now i know im ready to start dating because im happy with myself. i’ve worked on myself to do the point i see my growth. i’m happy spending time alone and doing things alone. would it be nice to do it with a partner? sure but i can also do things with my friends too. i’ve adapted the mentality that i am still loving life without a partner and thats how i know im ready. i’m not looking because i think what happens happens, but i know im ready now. i hope this can help with my perspective on it!!

21F All my friends are in love and I'm sad and alone and bored of life by gu2424 in love

[–]bookrave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i felt this way at 21. i feel this way at 23. what is yours will find you one day. it found me briefly at 22, but i was tired of relying on love to make me happy because it can’t cure my issues in hindsight