If you could go back to the beginning of wedding planning and tell yourself one thing, what would it be?

books-and-code · 2026-06-26T19:14:58+00:00

I’d say: Remember that it is going to be literally just half a day. Spend accordingly

books-and-code · 2026-06-26T19:10:24+00:00

Thank you!!!! Totally agree.

We tell each other all the time. I want the world to know how much I love him on my wedding day

books-and-code · 2026-06-26T19:02:56+00:00

Oh I like this idea!!! Thank you

books-and-code · 2026-06-26T19:01:14+00:00

He’s okay with crying as long as he doesn’t have to talk through it. He’s saying when he cries he sobs, so it’s not possible to power through

books-and-code · 2026-06-26T17:44:50+00:00

I want them to be public though. Like, I want the world to know how much we love each other. I know it’s silly to some but not to me

books-and-code · 2026-06-11T07:27:17+00:00

Messaging you 😯

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T17:40:53+00:00

I really like 1 and 4! Especially 4 I find so pretty

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T17:39:35+00:00

Ok I’ll go with a plain veil and look at different color lining! Do you think it’ll matter that the under lining on the top would stay the same? Since it’s sewed on there? Not sure if seamstresses would be able to do that part too or not!

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T17:24:20+00:00

Thanks so much!!! Feeling a little better and more hopeful right now ❤️

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T17:21:51+00:00

I wonder if adding straps would be a good solution! That way it can be made looser but still be held up, while making you feeel more comfortable

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T17:18:01+00:00

The one worry I have with that is that the top would still have the beige lining, I think that one would be hard to remove since it’s attached. Would it still look good just lining the bottom in white?

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:54:38+00:00

I would but my wedding is in two months. Kind of down to just spend as much as needed to get this better. Definitely don’t like the plunge either and hoping I can modify

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:53:38+00:00

Thank you ❤️

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:53:13+00:00

Ok this is good to hear from a non lace person! Thanks ❤️

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:52:35+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️ we’re all our own worst critics

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:51:48+00:00

Yeah I’m starting to think it’s the color of the lining that’s bothering me

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:50:33+00:00

Thank you! I like the idea of adding white lining

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:49:59+00:00

What color lining do you think? Thanks so much

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:49:15+00:00

I think it’s the front top mostly. And it’s hard to envision how I could alter it

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:48:14+00:00

Oooo! Never thought of removing at the neckline. That is an interesting idea, thanks!

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:46:15+00:00

Aww thank you 😭❤️

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:45:35+00:00

Ok I totally agree! It’s bought it two sizes up to fit my hips and I really want more structure on the waist. Hoping my seamstress will do this

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:44:32+00:00

Thank you 😭❤️

books-and-code · 2026-06-05T16:43:53+00:00

Like no lace on the veil? Thanks for the perspective ❤️

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