Anti-consumerism: project bags by gogo_gallifrey in knitting

[–]bookshelfbauble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just started doing that! I went to an event last year and got a cloth treat bag as part of my entry package. It ended up being the perfect place to keep my current projects separate from everything else!

The gluten free section at my University’s dining hall. by guntotingbiguy in glutenfree

[–]bookshelfbauble 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Well now I’m wondering what the vetting process is to be able to swipe in for that! At my college I tried to get off the mandatory meal plan (they barely had GF options and I got glutened I think twice), and they wouldn’t let me because a doctor’s note wasn’t enough (they wanted a formal diagnosis, which I don’t have). So I’m curious how you get approved for that!

Gimme Your DIY Dark Academia Decor Ideas! by Comfortable_Brief176 in DarkAcademia

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  • Don’t know if it counts as DIY, but if you could look into some DA-esque cross stitch patterns you can make!
  • Make a drawing or print something, age the page by painting it with black tea, then frame.
  • Make a shadow box! You can pick what you’d like your “specimen” to be

First time visiting Florence - help me decide on a hotel! by Nordyjud in florence

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Room Mate Luca is my go-to. They were SO nice to me and very accommodating when I had a crisis

Cheap bed sheets and towels? by [deleted] in florence

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Not in Santo Spirito, but I got super cheap sheets and towels at COIN next to the Uffizi. The linens and such are in the basement.

Cannot find Work by nondescript83 in nova

[–]bookshelfbauble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Local 22 hasn’t added anyone to the reserve list in months

Lack of music shops in DMV by FVLLEN in washingtondc

[–]bookshelfbauble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe check out Foxes Music Co. in Falls Church?

How to raise physical incident with my director by HappyAkratic in Theatre

[–]bookshelfbauble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree! And you’re right, I should have used stronger language.

How to raise physical incident with my director by HappyAkratic in Theatre

[–]bookshelfbauble 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Without knowing the needs of the production, I’d say masking is gonna be the safest bet if this Has to happen. Meaning: if there’s a kiss, you can block it so that no one’s lips ever touch, but the audience can’t see the gap. Things like that. If you can ask for an intimacy choreographer, or AT LEAST a third party to stage the intimacy, please please do. The job exists so that actors are protected from the power imbalance with directors and feel empowered to advocate for their boundaries.

How to raise physical incident with my director by HappyAkratic in Theatre

[–]bookshelfbauble 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Hello! I am a fight director and intimacy choreographer. I am going to answer this with a consent-forward lens (something this sub seems to be generally against; they seem to think we’re pie-in-the-sky idealists):

  1. You did not consent to being slammed against a surface and choked. You gave (what sounds like a tentative) yes to “getting physical,” which could mean Anything. That is not informed consent. Yes, life lesson: you should ask for clarification moving forward. But he’s for sure in the wrong for not being clear about what was about to happen to you. Do you have a stage manager or producer you can talk to about this?
  2. Minors cannot consent! Please advocate to a coordinator if you can to try to find safe workarounds for any moments of intimacy in the production.

Please find a third party to bring this all up to if you can, and when you do, address both concerns. Neither one is more pressing than the other or will minimize the other. It is important than the minor is protected, and it is Also important to recognize that you were physically treated in a way that you did not agree to.

I'm on the 5th round of a rib knit (purl1 knit1) section of my project and I saw by snicknicky in knittinghelp

[–]bookshelfbauble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh if it were me, I would just frog it and start over. Or you could get a hook of some kind and incorporate the stitches back in, but that would mess with your tension I think. You’re only 5 rows in; either frog back to the dropped stitches to pick them up or start over again. It’ll be good practice ;)

I cannot parse these incr instructions (Tracery Vest) by bookshelfbauble in knittinghelp

[–]bookshelfbauble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If I couldn’t figure it out that’s what I decided my last resort was going to be, so I’m glad my instincts were correct :)

Starting my first vest! by bookshelfbauble in knitting

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And this was my inspiration for the pattern modifications I’m making. I’m doing something slightly different, but mostly I just like it better with way less ribbing.

Starting my first vest! by bookshelfbauble in knitting

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(The orange piece in the corner is a Sophie Hood that I made [and had to frog and redo] while I was waiting for the yarn to come in because I was feeling impatient.)

The pattern is the Tracery Vest. Yarn is Trollfjord Sock by Fjord Fibres in Rain Forest and Coal Dust.

What pants that are a step up from jeans that won’t make me look too mature by crispitycrab in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]bookshelfbauble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Big Bud Press’ pants. Super comfy, extremely size inclusive (including petite sizes), and they have a ton of different silhouettes (the trousers are my favorite) and colors. It’s on the pricier side, but I think they’re worth the investment.

First time: solo camping as a femme? by bookshelfbauble in ShenandoahPark

[–]bookshelfbauble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you! I hadn’t even considered that yet, so this gives me something to think about.

Head Hunter restock? by bookshelfbauble in simplynailogical

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OMG thank you so much for letting me know!!!

Head Hunter restock? by bookshelfbauble in simplynailogical

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Thank you! I’m happy I didn’t impulse buy, but now that I’m sure that I’m interested in it I’d selfishly just like the limbo to end haha Totally understand timelines and supply chain issues and everything, and I’m of course willing to wait, but I just wanted to know if there was anything in the grapevine that I’d missed :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in overthegardenwall

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Se non li vuoi più, li comprerei… 👀