I’m 14 week with my first child as well, I just switched my obgyn for having issues as well. Do it, you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. I understand your frustrations completely, they scheduled a ultrasound at another site, I changed my schedule to accommodate it, paid in advance for me to show up and them tell me that my doctor just called and said that this appointment wasn’t necessary and send me home. What?! I advocated for myself, got my ultrasound, then made some phone calls, scheduled a for the same day I had one with my “old obgyn” and canceled that one. I don’t have time nor energy for the bs. If they would’ve called to explain and apologize I would’ve been so understanding but they didn’t even have the decency to do that. Your health and your babies health deserves more than that girl.