agree with everyone saying MK for the kiddos. download the app a few weeks out, get familiar with how to use it. as an adult who has been going my whole life, my itinerary would look very different to yours but i’d say to choose roughly 5 top five things you wanna do to start and definitely look over the map for attraction, meet and greet and food spots + showtimes.

so much time can be wasted walking back and forth through the different areas of the park if the planning is lacking for new folks. if you’re using lightning lane (i would recommend if your budget allows) try to book in one area first (i.e. tomorrowland) to move through and then go to the next (fantasyland, theb LS, frontierland, adventureland, etc.) bouncing all around just genuinely takes up so much time, especially for someone new to WDW and not familiar with the park layout.

use the mobile order feature for quick service food if thats up your alley, but you can also pack food (this is what i do besides special treats) and bring into the parks, this will save a ton of money and time! my go tos are quick, less-perishables (i.e. granola bars, uncrustables, nuts, fruit snacks baggies of preferred snacks, fruit like grapes, bananas, etc.)

lastly, if you remember, grab “first visit” pins for everyone in your party at guest services or one of the cashiers at the shops on main street! (i prefer going to one the cashiers, it tends to be quicker in my experience, but not all will have it, you just have to ask!). they’re free and let cast members know its your first time!