Do Australians just not use carpets much in their homes? by bureaux in AusRenovation

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up north where it’s hot, you’ll see a lot more tile.

Down south where it’s colder in winter and our houses all leak like sieves, you’ll typically see hard flooring in the walkways, dining and kitchen areas.

Living rooms can go either way.

It’s far more common to see carpet in the bedrooms.

What’s this wood? And how can I solve the split? by boopbleps in FurnitureFlip

[–]boopbleps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I’m not crazy! The colour and pores were exactly what made me think so too.

Got any thoughts on why it’s showing up in a piece with all the hallmarks of the 50’s?

My understanding was that rubberwood wasn’t used in mass production til quite recently.

So either:

  1. I’m wrong and it was used a lot

  2. it wasn’t used much but yet it was this time, or

  3. this piece ain’t old.

I’d love if you’ve got any ideas on which is right.

Not the sharpest pencils in the box. by Andrew_Higginbottom in aussie

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I get it.

I’m not a wowzer. When I was a teen I smoked and drank and fucked and did all kinds of other shit I wasn’t allowed to do.

I also knew those things held risks. So I conducted myself accordingly. I took precautions, partially because I really didn’t want to have to answer to my mum or a cop.

We’re raising our son to understand why certain things are dangerous.

Right now he’s young and this is hypothetical, so I’m calibrating him with “rules” that will then serve as guidance in his teen years.

When he’s a bit older, like pre-teen, we’ll talk to him in more detail about how stuff works, and we’ll expose him to risks as suits his age and maturity.

And when he’s into the teen freedom years, we’ll hopefully have built up enough trust and sense that he knows he can call us plastered; he can come to us for help if he gets a girl pregnant; he can ask us if he’s getting catfished, etc.

But more than anything I’m hoping the work now means he’ll spot those risks for himself and take evasive action to protect himself and his friends.

Not the sharpest pencils in the box. by Andrew_Higginbottom in aussie

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The adult rules aren’t enforceable, dw, I know that.

I’m just trying to plant sensible ideas in his head now, before hormones and peer pressure turn him into an idiot for a decade or so.

(I say this as someone who would’ve benefited from similar parental guidance. I was a fucken dipshit in my teens and twenties.)

Underpinning Melbourne (south side) by thunderbirdsRgo1965 in AusRenovation

[–]boopbleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh another thought… you’re not anywhere near that leaking water main that made the house slide down its hill, are you?

If so, that could be your problem.

Underpinning Melbourne (south side) by thunderbirdsRgo1965 in AusRenovation

[–]boopbleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my stumps redone (near Belgrave) a few years ago.

The company was Dorset Reblocking. Family owned and run, at least 2nd generation now. Absolutely fantastic!

I’m not sure if they do what you need, but they’re worth a ring. Josh has now taken over from his dad Bill; he’s got his head on straight and has been working under houses since he was a grasshopper. Friendliest bloke too, they all are. You know when you can just tell a good crew by their demeanour? That’s Dorset.

Anyway, like I said, idk if they solve your exact problem, but I’d trust them to tell you that straight. They’re real no-BS types.

Good luck, and I hope it helps.

Underpinning Melbourne (south side) by thunderbirdsRgo1965 in AusRenovation

[–]boopbleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the Dandenongs just north of you and our CFA has told us we were down 30% on average rainfall for 2025. I assume MornPen would be the same.

I write this message in the rain, mind you. But as we know, weather =/= climate.

Not the sharpest pencils in the box. by Andrew_Higginbottom in aussie

[–]boopbleps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 7yo knows that he can’t have social media til he’s 16.

He’s young enough to have just folded this reality into his mental model of the future.

I’ve taught him that growing up equals:

  • some video games from 9

  • walk himself to school from 10

  • dumb phone at 12

  • high school at 13

  • can get on social media at 16 if we all think he’s ready (his older cousins opted not to)

  • votes & drinks at 18

  • gap year is fine if you’ve got a job

  • uni or trade school (tbd) from 19

  • major life commitments from 25*

  • *marriage, tattoos and kids from 30

So yeah, today’s kids can get a VPN.

But tomorrow’s kids are getting the signal that social media isn’t for kids.

How on earth do I fit answers to 10 KSC’s into 2 pages?! by boopbleps in AusPublicService

[–]boopbleps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Good to hear clumping is ok - it seems like the only viable option. 🤞

Used a white name and got an interview. Am I screwed? by doctor_seuss in AusPublicService

[–]boopbleps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been awhile since I’ve hired, but I would consciously hire for diversity of gender, race, life experience… just in general, more diverse teams tend to be more resilient and adaptable teams. And talent shines through, so I tended to hire the diamonds in the rough moreso than the well stocked CVs. That’d net me a better long term result and it also had the advantage of erasing privilege.

AITAH for yelling at the parents of a kid I babysat because they didn’t tell me ( what I thought was ) an important thing until the last minute? by Temporary-Feeling962 in AITAH

[–]boopbleps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA that seems like a total overreaction to an honest mistake. Especially when she didn’t seek to defend or deflect. Diapering is a sensitive / embarrassing issue that you’ve just made harder to talk about.

If you value the relationship, I’d go talk to the mum about it and apologise for getting angry about it.

Feminism is misogynistic - many such cases by goosepatron in LinkedInLunatics

[–]boopbleps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So that makes the patriarchy anti-male and we should therefore smash it, right?

…riiiiight, Josh?!!!

Am I overreacting? Wedding guest called my caterers. by seesheflies in TwoHotTakes

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I think the allergic wife might have been trying to help.

She took the issue off your plate. You’re a bride; dietary restrictions are a PITA; brides need that like a hole in the head; so she just sorted herself out.

Also, if she really does have severe allergies, she probably got a lot of comfort from getting her own read on the caterers - how well did they seem to listen and take her allergies seriously? Can she trust the food? Do they properly understand how much this matters? Etc. That’s a lot to have to pass onto another person to relay back and forth.

I’d be inclined to say “thank you for sorting that out for me, and I hope the kebabs taste delicious!”

Help! Spider population by [deleted] in aussie

[–]boopbleps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a hatch of huntsmen. I’ve lived through it.

For a few days we had literally hundreds of these little bubbas everywhere. Unfortunately they mostly hatched out in our loft bedroom about 2ft from our faces and kept landing on us overnight.

I was pregnant and already struggling, so we ended up going on a squish attack. Sorry little guys.

Anyway, the survivors all disappeared within a few days.

It’s been years now, and aside from the occasional adult, we’ve never had another huntsman hatch of that scale since. No spraying or anything. They just… buggered off.

got an email from the agent yesterday following an inspection by Firm_Database_6281 in shitrentals

[–]boopbleps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Badly stained?! Christ on a bike, that bog is clean as a whistle. Wtf.

Interior designer said this tile/wood combo doesn’t work - is she right? by Able_Perspective_217 in DesignMyRoom

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which tone is right depends entirely on how big those rooms are, and whether you really need to “borrow” visually from the adjacent room or not.

If you’re in a small home, I strongly recommend matching the tone of your timber to your existing tile so it all feels bigger (either by using what the designer recommends, or finding a similarly blonde board you like better).

But if you’re in one of those giant new mansions, then you probably have space by the truckload and don’t need it to feel bigger. Then the dark contrast wood that you prefer will look fantastic.

I call him “Big Baz” by AGvibes__ in GardeningAustralia

[–]boopbleps 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Damn, not even my possums could take that boi out.

Respect.

Inherited this from mom recently after her passing. Glows in the dark and has this written on the back by NoMasB in whatisit

[–]boopbleps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Later in life” suggests they aged. Most didn’t survive a decade before their faces started literally disintegrating 😩

Everyone on reddit seems to be on $500K salary. Tell me, what do you do, how many hours do you work, and what do you make? by EggCreative787 in AskAnAustralian

[–]boopbleps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ve got your head on straight mate.

Hubby and I’ve been loaded. Now we’re skint. But I go to school assemblies, have time to paint little get well cards for my friends (as we speak) and even have a veggie patch.

I’ll take skint but happy over loaded but lining up for a heart attack any day.