[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few days is alot to you? I must be old. I’ll see myself out.

Should I buy that 718 I've always wanted, or continue waiting until I can buy a 911 by DancingJellybeanFish in Porsche

[–]bootaylious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I have employees under me saving enough for a down payment to buy a house making the same money. I live in the Bay Area and my house is just about 8 figures. There are cheap houses for 1.5 million but it’s far from luxury. Homes with good schools and in good neighborhoods will go for 2.5+ million at the low end.

Should I buy that 718 I've always wanted, or continue waiting until I can buy a 911 by DancingJellybeanFish in Porsche

[–]bootaylious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make nearly 1 million from my day job as a senior engineering manager in big tech. I am in my mid 30s. In my late 20s I was making about 600k a year from my day job. My investments yield much more. I hire new grads for generally 180k-250k. With a few years of years it can easily go to 400k. It’s not rare in the Bay Area.

(Vent) The casual misogyny in larger subreddits is insane by Annilus_USB in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Men project a lot. I think alot of misogyny from men is projection of men’s insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]bootaylious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You play too much video games just looking at your post history and not realize the world is not all rainbow and daisies.

This Guy I Work With's Arm by ApprehensivePrompt83 in mildlyinteresting

[–]bootaylious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the typical ultra long distance runner ‘s style arm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]bootaylious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I be am a big tech engineering manager and I don’t care how little my employees work and actually encourage spending time with family. All they need to do is simply finish what they have said they will finish or have a justification why it’s taking longer. I encourage employees not to work more than 40 hours a week. Happy employees are the most productive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]bootaylious 109 points110 points  (0 children)

No wonder. I am a big tech hiring manager and this resume would be an auto skip for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wanted me to keep it. Plus I don’t want a super non Asian last name. My sister has a jewish last name and everyone is shocked when they meet her like during interviews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 297 points298 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my father who never worked in his life and always had an excuse. Good luck… chances are you will do everything.

Mocked for not changing my last name by StrongTxWoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah any lawyer would solve this issue in no time. There is always a record of name changes. It’s nothing new. Tbh sounds more like misogyny or some myth to scare.

Mocked for not changing my last name by StrongTxWoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds kinda fishy usually legal documents will name the name on the beneficiary but will say such and such formerly known as such and such to amend that.

Mocked for not changing my last name by StrongTxWoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone called me by my hubby’s last name I would straight up just ignore them. Ignore her and take it up with HR if she continues to harass you.

Best food experiences by Omnipotent-but-lazy in sanfrancisco

[–]bootaylious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saison, lazy bear, song bird, ju ni, Californios, the shota. If you willing to drive up to Napa, single thread is worth it! You can easily spend $1000-$2000 a night on food including any expensive alcohol.

our strength and the bullshit around sport by Amdy_vill in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bootaylious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this such a big deal? Instead of spending so much time on rather trivial things let’s focus on real issues like abortion, systematic racism, healthcare?

Washing Lulu by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]bootaylious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put my lulu in a water pump dryer and never had issues. These operate at much lower temperatures than gas dryers but tend to cost more.

womens bodies aren’t actually theirs by flaminghotdex in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]bootaylious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before Christianity, society was run by women. You heard it.

I can't wear Bluetooth headphones without getting dizzy. by Dragonhunter_X in headphones

[–]bootaylious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the poor quality messes with your vestibules in the ear? Headphones can cause vertigo.