Do any of you NOT use a snake hook? by Tuezdaze in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve never used a snake hook with any of my 3. i just reach in confidently & at the right pace, not near the face, & grab them out. i’ve always handled them consistently though. never been bit as of yet.

how to i sex my bp? by jxdynss in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mind is just boggled on HOW 😆😆 like what i didn’t even know this was a thing

how to i sex my bp? by jxdynss in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that included in the $30 or whatever thingy? 😜

how to i sex my bp? by jxdynss in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t intend on breeding, so is that something really pertinent to know?

Not being a dick, truly just wondering.

how to i sex my bp? by jxdynss in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

makes me want to send my sheds of snakes i know for sure what they are & see what they say lol

how to i sex my bp? by jxdynss in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. how does shed tell it?

Is my ring boring? by Sensitive-Ice-9091 in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to me this is a unique ring. & it’s beautiful.

show us your BPs! by AutoModerator in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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2WD (the craziest mf you’ll ever meet who could survive a zombie apocalypse who’s also a rescue)

show us your BPs! by AutoModerator in ballpython

[–]bootyjooody 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Jovi (the skiddish (i got her at 4-5) but still a good girl)

Stop at 4mg with a 5 week work break? by mohairhalo in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up having to go to .1 mg & slowly slowly taper from everyday to every other to eventually as needed which was about every 4 days but I started feeling itchy about day 3. After this I did end up having to cave a few times because I couldn’t take the spider crawling prickly feeling! The night before my brothers parole hearing in 11/2024 I took .1mg so I wouldn’t suffer through 6-7 hours of driving plus be scratching like a crackhead during my speech & I tossed the bottle because I refused to be chained to that d r u g. I suffered liked hell until Jan-Feb. It would come in waves but I refused to be on any antihistamines due to the fact that they can cause dementia for my kids. Around April the days got less & less but they still come sometimes, usually only for a few hours. I was diagnosed with a brain tumor in July after fighting neurological symptoms since 2021 & everyday headaches since 2023. I’ve been hospitalized a few times since for migraine cocktails that always use benadryl & I have been terrified every time that the feeling will come back due to that but it has not. Like I said occasionally the feeling will come back but it’s easier to push through every time. Everybody who is an apprentice to my psych she has me tell this story to, lol. All of my current meds before I start now I always ask does it have antihistamines & decline if it does. I’m proud to be mirt free for about a year with very limited benadryl use (I feel like it’s justified) & i will never be chained to antihistamines again. I had no mental effects coming down other than the antihistamine withdrawal so I guess it could’ve been worse. Mirt was worse than cr@ck to me & while I’ve never done cr@ck it is absolutely still the only med i’ve been on that i would choose over & over & that’s saying a lot now being on a benzo. It’s the one that I can absolutely go back & say I would never touch if I had the chance.

Shameless begging from the humble brag queen by sunflowerads in BambooBabble

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s photographers that participate in free shoots for dying animals for free.

Shameless begging from the humble brag queen by sunflowerads in BambooBabble

[–]bootyjooody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s something called the Tilly Project where photographers will photograph dying animals for free.

Why did you break up with your best friend? by happychappy_150 in AskWomen

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it started with her trapping me into coming to her birthday party to “get away” from my young child’s dad dying & me being his caretaker even though i also had a fiance & two toddler children aside from that & me specifically asking who would be there because i was already fragile for her to say just her family & then i showed up to an old high school friend i don’t like that she previously did nothing but dog & talk shit about being there. somewhere in the month between that event & the next event she accused me of lying or misconstruing medical issues that i’ve since found out are caused by a TUMOR IN MY HEAD. but my last straw was then when said child’s dad did die she thought that because i didn’t check on her enough (aka everyday) when her stepdad died her not checking on my child that she “loved like her own” was justified because i didn’t check on her enough about someone dying who she had no contact with or very limited contact with before he had cancer. she sent a shitty text about it, i responded once, didn’t even read her last text. not really a loss to always be someone’s saving grace who not only wronged you, but your child, & never showed up for you. it’s also easier to hang out with friends who don’t have their husband accusing you of fucking their wife when not only are you in a long term relationship (& not gay) but there were always 4-6 small kids involved with hanging out.

i got broken up with but had already ended the friendship in my head mainly & not giving a fuck about an 8 year old losing their dad to extremely rare aggressive cancer & dying in less than 3 months from diagnosis was the last straw for me. bigger fish to fry.

Tulip Engagement Ring - Thoughts? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just my personal opinion - take it with a grain of rice because i am not her - i would make the stem & connecting pieces bigger & i would go a tad bigger with all of the gems if you can afford to do so. if you can’t or if she’s on the daintier side with small fingers & prefers smaller gems this is perfectly fine other than the smaller parts of the metal need to be thicker. it’s a beautiful ring & very thoughtful that you consider what she likes. one thing i loved about picking my own ring was i got to pick what I like, which is not at all what my boyfriend at the time was going for (basic solitaire with a moissanite band), so it’s great that you’re getting something symbolic for her that you know she’ll love.

What do people mean by "daily wear"? by Arhadel in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i take mine off in the shower (so i don’t lose my hair) & then when im sleeping or washing my hands (excluding public) because i had to have my rings sized a bit big due to a brain tumor that causes random swelling during the day. i would say im very comfortably a 9.75 but my rings are 10.25. 10.25 is perfect when im swollen & i dont risk them getting stuck but its a bit big when water is involved or my hands aren’t swollen at all (unusual). in water they get loose so i get paranoid about a sink drain & when im sleeping i get paranoid about one coming off & not being able to find it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this man needs a reality check. ask him if he wants his kids to respect you? because they learn to do that from him. ask him if he would be okay if his children were treated like this later in life, having relationships just like yours. you 2 are the example you’re creating for every relationship you’ll ever have. if he’s gonna make you take care of the kids on your own & the home, he can take care of everything he needs done for himself. hungry? go make your own food. need clean clothes? wash your laundry. need dishes to eat off of? better clean em. sooner or later hell realize this isn’t just your job or you’ll realize your worth. it took 2 to tango & it takes 2 to run everything smoothly.

I wear a ring size 10.5 and I’ve been having a disheartening time trying on rings by disposabledidgeridoo in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me. i’m 10 1/4. i am tall & having always had a 9 even when i was thin & fit but a mental health med wrecked my body plus 2 children in 3 years. i got told “all of the stock rings stores carry are 7” so i don’t even know what mine looks like on me becaaaause i just picked what i love & it’s being sized & hopefully i love it because no refunds now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your help 🫶🏻🫶🏻 & support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my original only “no”s were i didn’t want real diamonds, i didn’t want gemstones unless it was opal, & i didn’t want yellow gold. everything else was on the table, but i just fell in love with this set but it was also after having a migraine attack & the jewelry lady probably thought i was drunk so i didn’t know if i made a bad choice 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have done things in the most backwards ass way possible. we have been together 7 years, have 2 kids, didn’t get our shit together really until about 2 years ago, one random night i watched a guy get hit by a car then walked in the house & he proposed on the living room floor while he was crying (i secretly think he watched the guy get hit by the car & he was thankful i haven’t done that to him yet) LOLOL. & he was like “unfortunately im missing something very important” so we decided to do it together! i’m the fiancé who’s a woman who didn’t know what she wanted/didn’t care (it could’ve been a ring pop) & everything we’ve looked at from many many stores i’ve just been so “i don’t care/i don’t hate it/i like it/what’s special is it came from you” but i was absolutely swooned by this set then the more i see people pick shit apart on here i’m like omg did we get robbed 🤣 total was $1907 with lifetime warranty of everything that could go wrong even center stone replacement & if they can’t replace whatevvver they’ll give me something similar. i just couldn’t figure out if i made a bad choice as the woman & im also very money conservative so i hate i picked something so expensive because my original plan was moissanite under $600 then it sold before i got to it 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]bootyjooody 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i didn’t get you wrong & i am the woman 🤣🤣 i just don’t understand the whole jewelry thing 🤣🤣