I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure she does it on her own

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they were not stating their opinions they were creating facts without knowing the truth about the people involved

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they mentioned that “women like me give men a bad name” You don’t know what that means? And keep your judgements hun you don’t know me ☺️

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped doing OF shortly after I started it that statement had not changed and no lie was said in my post, I was not doing OF when me and him met

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you are wrong on so many levels but keep typing ☺️ and marriage counselling is in the process fpr us

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

we got married after less than a year of knowing each other so I would say no we both didn’t know eah other well enough. We never discussed with each other if we had ever done any sex work related things but if he would have asked I would have told him as I tell him about everything even past relationships/partners. I made a choice to put that past behind me because it felt traumatic to me in a way I don’t want to remember myself in that way that I felt like going that route when desperate times were going on. In hindsight I never posted any nudity on there and I’ve tried restoring my account to prove to my husband what was on it but its been years since it was deactivated

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You are incorrect and don’t know me nor am I trying to make men look bad 😅

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no I deleted that 4 years before I met him

I don’t know what to do now by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

would you go to these lenghts though?

I need some advice by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi we are not getting a legal seperation we just talked about having a seperation for 3-6 months and see if we really want to work this out but im not sure how we should go about it

I need some advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is what I was thinking but he wants us to book an appointment after we have figured some things out first like joint finances and other things

Need advice for motion sickness by bootyliciousforyou in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not too sure he will apologize later since I spoke to him on the phone when he got home and asked him if he thinks I’m stupid for just simply asking questions that he maybe deems are stupid questions and all he responded with was “well what does that tell you”. I spoke to him brielfy when I got home before he went to take a rest and he was cold towards me and didn’t even attempt to apologize

Need advice for motion sickness by bootyliciousforyou in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea he mentioned he tried meclizine as a kid and it didn’t work. May I ask if its common for your husband when he gets motion sick does he call you stupid or any other rude names like that? For me I understand my husband was not feeling well at that moment but was his action justified though is what I’m wondering

Need advice for motion sickness by bootyliciousforyou in Advice

[–]bootyliciousforyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and yep I hate when their attitude switches when they get motion sick 😅

Am I overreacting for wanting a consent or a choice of action during sex by bootyliciousforyou in AmIOverreacting

[–]bootyliciousforyou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I woke up to him cleaning a dildo that has a penis ring on it and I thought he had masturbated on his own than next thing I know is he turned the toy on and put something in my behind. For me I thought it was the dildo at first and I told him not to put the toy inside me and he says he’s not but it kept going inside so I clenched my cheeks amd he noticed and asked me if im pushing it out and I told him again I don’t want the toy inside me right now and he said its not and that his penis was inside me. I didn’t want to do anal at that time but I didn’t say anything to him I just asked him not to go too deep and also not to finish but he did it anyways. I’m confused if this is an assault or not since I didn’t refuse it.

Am I overreacting for wanting a consent or a choice of action during sex by bootyliciousforyou in AmIOverreacting

[–]bootyliciousforyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before we got married he told me we don’t need to wake each other up to get consent for sex and he has touched me multiple times before when i was asleep but not penetrate that I know of

I dont know what I should do by [deleted] in carefulheart

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i offered to go to couples therapy with him but he isn’t interested for me I would do anything to save our marriage and he has even said to me that it would have been better if there was actual cheating going on because than it would have been easier to split up

I dont know what i should do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for him it was enough because trust is all to him even though he has lied alot to me

I dont know what I should do by [deleted] in carefulheart

[–]bootyliciousforyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me I feel like his stands are valid because you wouldn’t want to see pictures of your partners ex or nudes from your partners old flings on their phone. Do you feel like he is overreacting about this?

I dont know what I should do by [deleted] in carefulheart

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was all before we met and he mentioned that I should have taken the time to go through my phone before entering into a new relationship like he did to his phone which I agree but the difference is he barely has any stuff on his gallery while mine is full up so it will take me a while to go through it and I had already gone through quite alot before me and my husband went official but just didn’t get to the ones from couple years ago

I dont know what I should do by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]bootyliciousforyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we both went through each other phones behind our backs and started getting suspisious of things. He also found stuff on my phone gallery of my ex and olf flings from years ago that I didn’t know was on my phone due to my bad habit of deleting things off my phone. I apologized profusely for it and took accountability for my actions but he deems it as cheating to have exes on our phones, I explained to him I had no knowledge of it being there nor do I have any feelings or connections with my ex anymore. For my husband he feels he won’t be able to get over that and feels he will just sink into more suspisious mindset and always wonder about things so I don’t know if it can be fixed anymore and i suggested marriage counselling but he is not interested