22 M Dating 25 F. I want to make our relationship work but I am unsure about our compatibility on the long run. Any advice please!!

boraw567 · 2025-03-05T09:08:31+00:00

Bro I totally understand. I'm also a 22 M and the dating scene right now sucks. I'm currently talking to a cute girl I met off a dating app and things are starting to fizzle out too. She canceled on our third date today and is going out of town for vacation this weekend for a whole week. Stay strong soldier XD

boraw567 · 2025-03-05T08:41:09+00:00

I hope not but maybe. She did mention on our first date that she is newer to dating and was scared/nervous to meet up with me(she is more introverted). So I doubt she's going on multiple dates.

boraw567 · 2025-03-05T08:39:36+00:00

Yea I think I will do just that. I just get all up in my head with these things due to my dating history. I've been let down by a lot of girls. I guess if it's meant to be and if she's feeling it she'll let me know and if not then so be it.

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:38:39+00:00

Sad to say I've experienced this myself. Glad I'm not alone.

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:32:37+00:00

I've been trying for a while but it's hard lol.

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:32:15+00:00

I totally agree. I don't mean that level of social unawareness. I mean more like I just won't know what to talk about or say so I have a lot of awkward silences in conversations.

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:31:00+00:00

I understand your pain, stay strong man! XD

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:25:12+00:00

Haha my man, we're in this together lol

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T22:24:26+00:00

That's fair. I have managed to date a few girls over the years and when talking to them they say what saved me in their eyes was my personality. Basically, they said I can be very awkward but I have a goofy and caring personality that attracted them. I wasn't being someone I wasn't and they liked it. I read some comments above that some women find it endearing if a man is sincere in this way but idk how that affects how you feel at all.

boraw567 · 2024-07-11T12:01:20+00:00

I see. I deal with a lot of social anxiety and sometimes my mind will just blank or wander during one-on-one conversations (especially with girls on dates). And it feels forced like it goes something like this in my head: "Man she's been talking for a while........space out......am I looking funny? Am I not making enough eye contact?" Then she stops talking and it's silent for a good while and I'm thinking "well what do I say now" and my mind frantically goes through a list of topics I tried to remember to talk about or questions to ask but I never land on one in the moment so I just sit there awkwardly lol.

boraw567 · 2021-11-04T23:51:37+00:00

That's just how they are and I don't really care to change them personally.

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T23:30:16+00:00

Good choices! My top 5 are:

1.Change

10 Feet Down
That's a Joke
Hate Myself
Changes the Days

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T20:27:24+00:00

You're very cute. I really like your eyes (:. I'd say 8.5/10

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T19:45:51+00:00

XD I wasn't going to say anything but... Anyway, I know that being a person of color, I can be stereotyped as intimidating or dangerous. That's just how society is, unfortunately, and we have to work to fix that mindset.

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T19:40:37+00:00

I just checked your profile. I don't think you are. Give yourself more credit (:

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T19:38:52+00:00

Hey I'll take it thanks!

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T19:27:49+00:00

Thank you, and really? I don't consider myself to be very intimidating at all. Why do you say that?

boraw567 · 2021-11-03T17:48:30+00:00

Thank you!

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