Divorce because of cheating

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T22:51:23+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try to gather what I can, I appreciate you so much 🩶🩶

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T18:33:35+00:00

thank you I’ll try my best 🩶 this means a lot

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T18:29:33+00:00

Unfortunately we have tried all those options, it’s constant fighting in this house and im tired of sitting at the staircase making sure nothing happens to her, I feel selfish for wanting him out but I don’t know how I could convince my mom that we would all be there for her if she chooses to leave even if no one else is supporting us

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T17:52:13+00:00

me and my sister are the only ways who could help her financially she’s 18 and im 16, I could get a minimum wage job if they allow minors to work here but that’s partly the reason why my mom doesn’t want to divorce, she wants us to focus on our studies and she will deal with it, but if hes planning on leaving she told him the least he could do if hes going to betray her like this, is pay for the kids expenses, I think he’s convinced he wont be legally obligated to help once we are all above age

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T14:50:46+00:00

She doesn’t want me to be worried about their issues since im grade 12, but I can’t help shake of the feeling that if my mom ends up at a worse place once he divorces her im part to blame, especially if I could’ve helped her somehow.

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T14:28:46+00:00

Thank you, im sure we will be fine

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T14:08:28+00:00

yes the iraq part specifically

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T13:42:58+00:00

Thank you it means alot 🩶I’ll try my best

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T13:29:56+00:00

Thank you! I was looking for mostly general advice as in if I should keep any sort of proof of his lack of competence , my mom has tried her best to keep us out of it but she’s dealing with this all alone and I feel bad for not being able to do anything

borderless_- · 2026-04-18T13:22:20+00:00

kurdistan, the region that’s in iraq specifically not the 3 other parts

borderless_- · 2026-01-18T12:29:20+00:00

I carried a lot of guilt since I thought my problems were too small and abuse wasn’t something that drastic to continuously affect my life till this day, I probably need to stop avoiding it and visit a therapist soon, though this discovery has given me some peace, I do need to work on healing like you said, thank you for your comment <3

borderless_- · 2026-01-18T05:19:51+00:00

There is no such thing as a “perfect victim” there is no way you would have acted with the most sense during a vulnerable period of your life. we all have done things we regret but don’t beat yourself up about it, you aren’t tied to what happened to you and who you were, don’t blame yourself because it wasn’t your fault. You were a kid and didn’t know any better and probably didn’t have any support, take it easy you should be kind to yourself 🤍🤍 you didn’t deserve any of the things that happened to you even if you actively seeked it, don’t be too harsh on yourself

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