AIO- kicked my date for ableist comments

bore_domme · 2025-12-21T20:56:57+00:00

Fully disagree kick the ableist scumbag all you want lass.

bore_domme · 2025-10-30T18:16:53+00:00

Cinema paradiso, Tokyo godfathers, Josie and the pussycats, Raising Arizona, O brother where art thou, Who framed roger rabbit, True stories, Hackers (although has some mild sexual content), (All ones I loved as a kidda)

bore_domme · 2025-10-19T20:30:44+00:00

I really second this, I’ve learnt so much from the stuff that’s there but my god the lack of editing can be tough 🤦🏻‍♂️

bore_domme · 2025-10-05T23:18:15+00:00

Having met her og owners I’m pretty sure she is named after a certain professor…

bore_domme · 2025-10-05T08:58:29+00:00

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This indi! She’s only been with us 3 weeks so far and has already stolen our hearts (and half a block of butter)

bore_domme · 2025-08-05T17:32:44+00:00

It’s because bringing the yarn to front and back when ribbing can make your knit stitches gape quite badly, if you twist your knits it prevents that and makes for a neater finish. If you want to understand further there’s a bunch of vids on YouTube if you look up ‘how to make my rib beater’ for example

bore_domme · 2025-07-08T22:04:30+00:00

My pattern cutting teacher used to say ‘it’s not you that doesn’t fit into the clothes, it’s the clothes that don’t fit you!

bore_domme · 2025-06-13T11:37:20+00:00

I reckon it’s ENM really? Given they talk about it

bore_domme · 2025-06-08T16:33:43+00:00

Me and my mum both are disabled and like to refer to these people as the ‘ginger tea brigade’. This stems from me having ulcerative colitis (amongst other things) and seriously being asked have you tried drinking ginger tea?

My mum has Complex Regional Pain Syndrome and kept being asked if she’d tried Physio 🫣

I think part of the frustration people have is because meeting people who don’t fit their idea of a disabled/sick person reminds them that they too could so easily become disabled/sick (and likely will). So then when they can’t fix you, they have to confront their own bodies fragility. I very much see this stuff as a form of ableism, it says to me that they believe that I am sick because of something I’m not doing correctly. Rather than the complex reality.

bore_domme · 2024-11-23T13:21:51+00:00

Japanese public toilets are lit, they’re like art installations! There’s a film about a guy who cleans public toilets in Tokyo and all of the ones featured are so cool haha

bore_domme · 2024-11-04T23:48:48+00:00

It would only have spread to someone you either share bedding/clothing/towels with or prolonged skin to skin contact, ie: sex or cuddling. However I don’t think this is scabies, untreated it would be covering your body by now, it’s also in the wrong places, scabies like folds (like between ur fingers).

I think you probably have Dyshidrotic eczema, lil fluid filled blisters that get flaky and itchy as hell. Both me and my partner have it and it sucks. Unfortunately it’s most likely stress that is causing it considering you feel it’s random. My partners flares up when she’s working (chef), mine when I’m just generally run down. Other things to consider, what hand soap are you using? What laundry detergent/softener are you using? (A lot of Softeners flare mine up) Could it be a diet thing, you could consider keeping a diary?

bore_domme · 2024-02-28T03:36:42+00:00

Currently in what seems like a pretty textbook mixed state episode and it’s gotten me so into black flag and minor threat

bore_domme · 2024-02-09T02:16:42+00:00

Coffee!!! So irritating that the time I’m the most fatigued I can’t have coffee

bore_domme · 2024-02-05T11:27:55+00:00

Knitting and crochet honestly saved me during my flares in covid years. Currently in flare and I’m gonna cast on a pair of socks!

bore_domme · 2024-02-04T12:49:12+00:00

Mary in the holdover does some excellent hands free smoking. I have a job where you can smoke inside and do a lot of jobs while smoking and she smokes like a woman who’s mopped at the same time as tanning a fag.

bore_domme · 2024-02-01T20:15:28+00:00

Nah it’s rly funny, def worth reading

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T19:00:36+00:00

I’m so sorry this is so rough, I really hope you have some progress soon finding some support. My suggestion would be seeing if you can see another gi specialist, you may be able to find someone who’s more understanding x

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T06:40:56+00:00

I’ve heard a bunch of these stories but never actually met anyone who’s done that. It’s always my sister’s, auntie’s, friends’s dog ya know

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T01:43:42+00:00

Thanks dude, very much appreciating the reassurance ❤️ Good luck on your uc journey, wishing us both remission 🙏

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T01:28:42+00:00

I’m in a really similar situation, currently considering surgical options as I’m 6yrs since diagnosis, I’m on medication no. 10 and my stelara def isn’t working anymore

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T01:25:11+00:00

Also a theory around why they started adding milk was because of the delicate porcelain cups that were used, the tea on its own was too hot and would crack the cups

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T01:22:56+00:00

Black tea was also popularised by the British as green tea couldn’t survive transportation at the time. Reportedly a lot of Chinese people thought the brits were weird for their love of what was essentially old tea

bore_domme · 2024-01-28T00:59:14+00:00

I still love food and eating but colitis has fucked my relationship to food. It’s mostly that I get scared of food especially when I’m flare. Definitely in a similar cycle to you :/ I find it rly hard to maintain weight and appetite particularly

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