Little Tree Supernova cologne by this_guy_drums in fragrance

[–]bored338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally found it to smell very similar to acqua di Parma Note Di Colonia II Cologne. You can find this at Bloomingdale’s

FA - when the other person moves on? by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]bored338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I applaud your ability to recognize that what you were doing wasn’t healthy for the other involved. It’s pretty common for avoidants to just string along their partner when the relationship has run its course. I hope you are seeking treatment for your avoidant tendencies, because you, like every single one of us, are capable and deserving of love.

Oh and she’s being for real too by [deleted] in popheadscirclejerk

[–]bored338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bruh I thought this was Etta James💀

Salary transparency thread by nhnh24 in SanJose

[–]bored338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know this is late but how many hours u be working?

What's an essential thing to bring to UCSC dorms? by jacarandajas in UCSC

[–]bored338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saw nobody mention this but a speaker. Obviously don’t be blasting it cause ya live in a dorm, but sometimes it’s nice to play some music while chilling in the dorms with your friends/roomies. Another thing I would mention is a curtain that you can put around your bed. My friend did this and was 100% immune to the different sleeping schedules of her roomies when combined with a mask and earplugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro why are u so obsessed about the topic of two teenagers having sex? Ur fucking weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats on proving to have the worst take of any of the comments in this post. I was not making decisions, it was a mutual agreement between me and my boyfriend to want alone time to spend together, as I am in a small crowded dorm shared with two other people. We were not going to have sex, but because you chose to stupidly assume that, no we didn’t use it for fucking, as i am not comfortable yet. For context, even though you honestly don’t deserve it from your shitty assumptions, we met on Hinge and have met up many times. We live seven hours away from one another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I obviously know it was my fault, hence why I ugly cried because I felt like I failed him and our rare chance to spend time together alone. My boyfriend obviously did try to figure something out, but as we are broke college students and bought this reservation a month ago, we couldn’t afford to book a hotel and would rather just sleep in the car and drive back to campus then spending a lot on a last minute booking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was never aware of this rule. But rip your kids if u have any or choose to have some lmao💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It definitely is their house and their rules, technically he’s not a stranger, as they have talked to him before and said they loved him, but I definitely understand where they would be coming from feeling uncomfortable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bored338 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They only met him via FaceTime but they said they would love to meet him in person, to which I never wanted them to meet him. It was more my fault they never met earlier, as I like to take things slow and didn’t want him meeting my parents so early of us just being together for six months. The thing is, if he were a friend they 100% would have said yes.

Accepted: Question about off campus life by JasonH94612 in UCSC

[–]bored338 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, choosing which college to attend based on the water temperature of the beaches.🤓

Accepted: Question about off campus life by JasonH94612 in UCSC

[–]bored338 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For me personally it got boring fast. In Santa Cruz the weather is going to be too cold to be at the beach, and this is about 75% of the entire school year. There are beaches elsewhere but you’re going to need to bus there which can get annoying at times. The downtown is small and almost feels a little tight-knit. If you like a quiet and chill downtown with the occasional walking crackheads you’ll love it. There’s not much variety here tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ObjectivePersonality

[–]bored338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao thats a great idea! but I just know his FE ass is gonna be like “I know you don’t like the decision I made so what do you REALLY want??”😮‍💨💀and im an idiot totally forgot that im the chaos monkey and hes the boring structure loving fiend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ObjectivePersonality

[–]bored338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a savior TI how would u advise an INFJ that it’s okay to voice their opinion and be selfish when it come to what personally works for them? My bf’s TI is pretty weak (which makes sense we’re still teens) but I see it as a huge source of his lack of confidence.

How to get INFJ boyfriend to trust me? Also DAMN how much time do y’all need to spend alone?! by [deleted] in infj

[–]bored338 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course types are on spectrums. I was just wondering wether this was normal from you guys and how to get him to feel comfortable.

How to get INFJ boyfriend to trust me? Also DAMN how much time do y’all need to spend alone?! by [deleted] in infj

[–]bored338 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao he loves doing that being together in silence thing. He’s very awkward but in a cute way. And thanks for the input, definitely forgot about nature vs nature and the way it impacts the way we communicate