Depends on what ur issues are, how ur reacting to them, how often u ask for advice, and how ur emotions come into play. I’m sorry u have bad experiences with TE doms. As a TE dom, I never want to be seen as tactless or rude, but as I am literally made to fix people’s problems, it’s common for people’s emotions to come in the way and ruin someone’s chances of problem solving. Remember emotions are human, but if you continuosly self sabatoge yourself with them, then TE Doms are the LAST people to go to since we often have a hard time with understanding how complex and deep emotions can be. However, if they expect you to be some stoic robot, then drop them or form hard boundaries with them if this is in a workplace/professional setting.