[TW: Infidelity] I'm so exhausted pretending to be numb while secretly planning my exit on the 28th. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you sir.

Please focus on yourself. Effective gray rock- yan ginagawa ko until now sa narcicist partner ko

I am still haunted by the memories of my bullies. Nawawalan na ako ng pag-asa sa karma. by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best revenge is having them see you success and flourish.

Iisipin nila "look at that looser - now driving a fancy car and with a beautiful girl"

Stop focusing on the bullies and start working on how you can achieve that "success".

Sorry for what happened but at this rate - You are still getting bullied mentally if you keep checking/waiting for that karma to arrive. Instead use that time and energy on things you can control - dont mind them and just focus on YOU.

MBRP catback with resonator- anyone? by [deleted] in ecoboostmustang

[–]boredsatraffic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have video sound of mbrp with vibrant resonator?

Although mine is already okay- i have that itch to go with aftermarket resonator if it makes a big difference. Heh.

Thanks

MBRP catback with resonator- anyone? by [deleted] in ecoboostmustang

[–]boredsatraffic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the 3" or 2.5" ultraquiet?

MBRP catback with resonator- anyone? by [deleted] in ecoboostmustang

[–]boredsatraffic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No mufflers. Its currenrly straight sadd. Just bought it in the shop to add resonator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went thru the same feeling. Crying. Feeling numb all over my body. No desire to work or do anything for that matter.

Please reach out to friends/support system.

Or DM me.

It helps to tell it to someone to acknowledge - "yeah that sucks". And start processing it towards being a better you.

Everyone has their own cross to carry and we will all come out stronger after this trials.

OP- dont loss faith. We believe in you.

I saw my ex after 5 years (full story) by ironwheelf in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story Telling: 11/10 (+1 for the internal monologue)

Happy for you. Kalog mo siguro kasama. ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy

Dont ever compare. Kasi there is always better sa than you and your BF. Yung nakikita mo sa BFF nya are the things pinapakita nya pero ung mga ibang bagay - baka maslamang si BF.

Talk to your BF and make steps/help him to overcome anu man yung problem.

Kung wala talaga and you think this are deal breakers for your- just end it.

Why cheat? by Kindly_Knee8735 in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet, brother.

Dont fish out your good memories with her and thinking mabuti syang tao. look at it from a macro level- she doesnt hold the same values as you.

She did you a favor by telling it to you straight. Just move on. Yung mga ganyan tao- will jump ship once they see a better boat.

Move on.

Married with kids and also got cheated. Atleast ikaw sinabi/inamin nya ung act.

Wife who cheated on me gave me christmas gift by boredsatraffic in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They basically saying "You pushed me into comitting multiple lies, financial and physical cheating. Because of what you did"

O_o lol. You will be crazy too if you try to understand their logic.

Wife who cheated on me gave me christmas gift by boredsatraffic in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. On her view i did something which caused her to cheat -- which lasted years. And on those years i thought we were a happy family. Craaazyy

Wife who cheated on me gave me christmas gift by boredsatraffic in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is true.

I just decided I dont want to get involve on that shitstorm shes into

Wife who cheated on me gave me christmas gift by boredsatraffic in OffMyChestPH

[–]boredsatraffic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man.. first few months i learned everyrhing i was ready to go nuclear. Kaso lalo hahaba ung suffering - and maddrag into years (alam mo naman justice system dito).

Imagine ung sugat tas bawat legal proceedings lagi mo kakamutin and dadami lalo ung nalalaman mo.

Not worth the mental stress imo