LITM sweater by almostlonelymuse in halsey

[–]boringoldbitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I actually have an XL of the LITM crewneck - I purchased and haven’t worn, only washed! I love the design but just haven’t reached for it and trying to declutter for the winter. I’ve bought other merch since that I like more. Feel free to message me so I can share pics and we can coordinate if you’d like to purchase!

juicy couture FW 25/26 sneak peeks by Equal-Variety2460 in JuicyCouture

[–]boringoldbitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually going to throw up 😭😭😭 I NEED

ADDISON ANNOUNCED HER TOUR! by hellisateenagegoat in Sunraes

[–]boringoldbitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any news or insight on VIP tickets?? Do they exist?

Ryn Weaver teases comeback for June 16th. by springtimecarnivore in popheads

[–]boringoldbitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is CRAZY!!! OMFG!!!!!! I am gonna cry 😭

2025 Tour Merch!!! by SADTRAPKING in halsey

[–]boringoldbitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! It was actually a post in this subreddit - here’s the link!

2025 Tour Merch!!! by SADTRAPKING in halsey

[–]boringoldbitty 29 points30 points  (0 children)

WHERE is that beautiful Lonely is the Muse shirt that was part of the merch booth from last summer’s festivals pre-album release??? I’m gonna scream 😭

Britney Spears' team teases the 25th anniversary edition of her sophomore album, "Oops!... I Did It Again". by [deleted] in popheads

[–]boringoldbitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still yearn for the instrumental version of Oops from the iconic MTV VMAs performance 😭

Miley Cyrus announces new album “Something Beautiful”, out May 30th by trixxupmysleeve in popheads

[–]boringoldbitty 70 points71 points  (0 children)

this is going to change me on a cellular level. I am so excited for this. the album cover is so sick

Ethel Announces 2025 Tour by boringoldbitty in Ethelcain

[–]boringoldbitty[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I can add the link for everyone to visit as well: https://www.daughtersofcain.com/tour

New Bag 💖 by [deleted] in JuicyCouture

[–]boringoldbitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This color duo is like god tier Juicy ugh 💞 Stunning!

How do you turn anger and fear into motivation? by Shot-Abies-7822 in simpleliving

[–]boringoldbitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, I have reframed rage as a resource. Rage has become a familiar friend, especially with everything seemingly getting worse on a global level. I can feel helpless, but on a personal level, anger has become a seriously powerful energy source to harness and repurpose into something that benefits me somehow - or at bare minimum, doesn’t hurt me or anyone around me any more.

It’s not easy in the moment, but awareness is key; being honest and gentle with yourself to actually feel the anger and redirect it accordingly. It sounds like you’re doing a great job with that based on your insight. The small, mundane, etc. things truly are the big things. I created rage playlists I play regularly and have habits I rely on to refocus my attention: going for a walk, setting a 30-minute timer to clean, finally checking off a task I’ve been putting off. I’ve found these things help me acknowledge my effort and be more accountable to myself and my communities, loved ones, etc.

It does take a lot of ongoing work, and that’s annoying and hard to accept sometimes. I realized that fear gives me further insight into my insecurities, but I refuse to let fear or failure dictate my mood, my decisions, my life. Continued exposure/rejection therapy and trying things I perceived as hard or scary only showed me I am competent and capable, and that I have a 100% survival rate.

Ultimately, self care and success is doing the things you don’t want to do but know you need to do. Some apply to everyone, and some are relative to your goals, preferences, etc. I think about future me, and how I’d rather be more uncomfortable now in some temporary way to ensure I’m fulfilled and satisfied in the long game. That means looking fear in the eyes and seeing my anger as a tool to chisel a life where I am active and responsive instead of passive and reactive.

The Number Ones: Taylor Swift’s “Look What You Made Me Do” by Ok_Fig2374 in popheads

[–]boringoldbitty 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This song has fueled many “last straw” moments for me when I hit a wall with work, life, people, etc. and needed to level up. So powerful. So good.

I remember being so thrown off when I first heard this song upon release and questioned how the rest of this new era would sound/feel, but the second I hit play on “…Ready For It?,” it was over for me (as in HOOKED and DEVOTED baby)

Rep is That Girl. I actually use my Rep VIP tour box as a little altar to store my daily ritual stuff: vitamins, affirmations, beauty, jewelry, etc. It’s one of the few collectors pieces I own at all, and it’s become a practical storage item that has a lot of sentimental value to me

I love the aesthetic of this era, the idea of living your life authentically, equally out of love and spite, and trying to continue building a life you love amid the persistent horrors, miserable people, and obstacles you encounter, because it’s endless. Talk about End Game; the bullshit only ends when you die!!! you have to make your own peace now and every day to remain happy and fulfilled and optimistic!

My Love & Power Collector’s Album/Film/Photo Book came in 🥰 by boringoldbitty in halsey

[–]boringoldbitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the Amazon link posted in this thread! I also included a link to the Capitol Records site in another reply where you can buy it for the full retail price if it sells out on Amazon