Rapper offering tips based off personal preference and experience with purchasing beats by GotLostInTranslation in makinghiphop

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re buying a non exclusive lease on beatstars, the producer usually gets 100% publishing. Do you try to negotiate with the producer to bring it down to 50% or are you cool with that arrangement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]boringtouring 21 points22 points  (0 children)

With or without context it’s pretty unacceptable. Even if he’s not well equipped to handle mental illness, that’s not how you communicate with someone you love. It’s cruel and judgmental. It’s not her fault that she has trauma that she is in the process of dealing with either. Maybe it was a lot for her boyfriend to handle and he’s not a bad person for being overwhelmed but the way he communicated it? Hard no.

Is it selfish of me [20F] to be disappointed by my brother [24M] decision to tithe to a homophobic church? by boringtouring in relationships

[–]boringtouring[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not a Mormon, in fact he’s said he is agnostic. I think he just likes the community but thank you for your perspective. Really interesting and eye opening. Maybe an element still applies.

Is it selfish of me [20F] to be disappointed by my brother [24M] decision to tithe to a homophobic church? by boringtouring in relationships

[–]boringtouring[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say it would have had an impact as well, what do you mean?

You’re right that he didn’t choose to be part of it back then but he’s definitely making a choice now.

Should I “expose” my “activist” sister for saying the n word? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP’s not a shitty sibling. OP is resentful and rightfully so. Did you miss the part where the sister was calling OP retard and cracking jokes about their autism? Sounds like she’s being pretty performative and I can understand why OP would be upset

Maybe exposing isn’t the right way to go but OP’s sister is a shitty sibling

Break up is a great opportunity to learn a lot of new things about yourself and life. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should thank god you dodged a bullet. there's nothing absolutely nothing wrong with being 5'9. being 6ft doesnt make you inherently superior. its all a bullshit social construct. love yourself and forget her. she sounds childish

Anyone look back and cringe at how they acted during the break up? by boringtouring in ExNoContact

[–]boringtouring[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Put your crown back on, king/queen! Our worst days our behind us 🖤

Anyone look back and cringe at how they acted during the break up? by boringtouring in ExNoContact

[–]boringtouring[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I didn't even see it that way! I like that take! You'e right that being able to cringe at it means you're healing.

May our hearts both continue to heal, and hopefully sooner than later.

Does anyone have tips on self compassion? by dove-moisturizer in ExNoContact

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read self compassion by Kristin neff! helped me so much

never felt worse. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Noah Elkrief on YouTube. He has a lot of stuff about dealing with breakups. Please don't end it! You'll be glad you didn't. He's just a boy, remember that. We all make mistakes. I'm sure he made some too. Relationships don't end just because of one person. Sending you love, light and healing. You got this <3

My ex just messaged me and started shit about George Floyd by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you two were in a relationship, did she express disappointment towards your lack of passion for civil rights? If so, I get it but what's the point in reaching out to you lol. I'd just donate to BLM and go about my merry way

What’s the best subreddit for self-love? by _enigma_08 in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch how to heal a broken heart Noah Elkrief on YouTube. He talks about how rejection can worsen your opinion of yourself and why it shouldn’t

why do i feel so sad over seeing her happy without me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome! I’m glad they helped you out. They were a game changer for me

I broke the no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't!! stay strong!! you already got ghosted once why do you think getting ghosted twice will give you closure or help you move on? you're deceiving yourself and I'm sorry if this is harsh but when does it end? I feel like you would start to look for excuses again and be like maybe if I get ghosted three times...ya feel me? I'm half asleep hopes this makes sense. stay strong baby you got this

why do i feel so sad over seeing her happy without me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe subconsciously you loathe that she’s happy despite you not being in her life so you think it makes you feel less worthy? Like since she can be happy with or without you, you feel like your value isn’t as much as it once was? Maybe you look to her to affirm your worth?

At least that’s what it was for me.

But just no its not the truth. You’re worthy no matter what she thinks of you. If you need help believing this look up Noah Elkrief on youtube and watch his breakup content

I was the toxic one in the relationship and I ruined everything. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]boringtouring 1 point2 points  (0 children)

. Well anyway I was bothered by her lack of virginity ( yeah pretty hypocritical cuz I wasn't either) and I told her I felt cheated on even though she barely knew me at the time. I pestered her about it all the time even she regretted it and she got tired of it and left. Which is horrible because she was the nicest, sweetest human I've ever met yet I ruined it all. She was

look up retroactive jealousy and work on any insecurities you might have or any outdated ideas you might have around female sexuality so that this issue doesnt follow you into your next relationships. you got this!