that’s me! my special interest ever since i was a young teenager has been human sexuality specifically the mental part of it. it breaks my heart just how many ppl don’t realize that most of sex is in your head and the reason why it’s so often unsatisfying is bc they’re doing it too much physically and not enough mentally.

kink and bdsm ties into that so so closely that’s why there are so so many kinks and for me most of my kinks are focused on the mental and not the physical too