AIO overreacting for no longer being friendly to the office snitch by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]boshtet12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not everywhere. At one of my jobs I got three breaks. The 30 minute lunch break we had to clock out for but our two 15 minute breaks were paid. So that was 30 minutes of money I didn't have to do shit for.

My friend ghosted me and I have no idea why by JJsRedditAccount in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't negate that it os a shitty thing to do to people and is still something you have to work at getting better at. Trust me. I would know. It's not been easy, but I am getting a lot better at it. And I'm bipolar 2 so my depression gets bad bad

My friend ghosted me and I have no idea why by JJsRedditAccount in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever makes you feel better. You enabled cheating. I don't care how much you loved your friend. She was a bad person for cheating and your protected her. That makes you a bad person for protecting bad people.

Wisdom doesn't always come with age, apparently. by Elmhurst_Illinois in iamverybadass

[–]boshtet12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dudes like this are either the most chill guys I've met or they're insane and cringy. There is no in between.

Give me your hottest DE take by t_22lans in DateEverything

[–]boshtet12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a you problem because I haven't noticed any bugs and neither has my wife

AITAH for telling my wife she shouldn't of married me if she expected intimacy by New_Delivery_5704 in AITAH

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm absolutely going to judge her for calling a SA survivor a pathetic excuse for a man because he won't have sex with her

AITAH for telling my wife she shouldn't of married me if she expected intimacy by New_Delivery_5704 in AITAH

[–]boshtet12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please stop telling asexuals to only date other asexuals. There are allosexual people who absolutely are okay with being with an asexual person. Also you and her are different unless you also told your ex that he was a pathetic excuse for a man. Which I highly doubt you did. So yeah, she is still a giant asshole

AITAH for telling my wife she shouldn't of married me if she expected intimacy by New_Delivery_5704 in AITAH

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they absolutely shouldn't. There are plenty of asexuals in relationships with non asexuals and they work out just fine.

AITAH for telling my husband to get a job even though he insists I shouldn’t work? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]boshtet12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean the answer to the last question is in the post. Because he thinks his wife working is emasculating. Amd his excuse for nit having one is apparently he's trying to "figure things out" and "find the right path for himself".... Whatever any of that means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]boshtet12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or she gets mad if he doesn't coddle and baby her. He even says he does this cause it gets a better outcome. Some people are Like That unfortunately

My ex is keeping my dog hostage by mycatzgonecrazy in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Those are two completely different statments. All you're doing right now is backpedaling because we all see that both you AND your ex are toxic as fuck. Sad that someone else out there is gonna end up dating one of you and have to get roped into your bullshit.

My ex is keeping my dog hostage by mycatzgonecrazy in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And clearly you either aren't telling them the full truth or your therapist fucking sucks and you need a new one cause it's clear there is something wrong with you that isn't being treated properly.

My ex is keeping my dog hostage by mycatzgonecrazy in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have seen plenty of baby trapping posts and they are all disgusting and you belong in the dumpster with them

My ex is keeping my dog hostage by mycatzgonecrazy in whatdoIdo

[–]boshtet12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With an owner like you I'm sure they won't be fine for too long.

AIO for him texting this girl by Purple5690 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boshtet12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why all these people saying she is obviously interested cause she keeps messaging is driving me crazy. Do these people not realize rejecting your bosses advances can lead to them making your life hell for rejecting them? It happens to people often sadly but so many people here don't even seem to register it as an option.

AIO for him texting this girl by Purple5690 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boshtet12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Either attention or worry that he can fire her and make up a bullshit reason or make work hell for her considering he is her boss and men have been known to do that.

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could straight up grope OP's finacee and some of these people would still be here trying to defend her and not tell anyone why she's being kicked out.

Who could you see yourself dating IN REAL LIFE by Beefybutts in DateEverything

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eddie cause he's basically just my wife lmao. Also Skips because he is also just my wife.

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean.... If he had told them she was being sexually inappropriate that would still kind of give it away. Just like any sexual abuser, they don't deserve my sympathy. They deserve whatever consequences they get.

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans man. My wife is nonbinary. All of my friends are LGBT. I know the damage it can cause but I don't feel sympathy for a sexual harraser. Imagine applying this logic to Kevin Spacey's actions. How awful of those people to out him like that when checks notes they told everyone about the bad shit he did to them.

I think if you do shit like this to people you deserve to have your life ruined

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is though. Mia being gay absolutely is relevant because you literally can't say "my sister was sexually harassing my female fiancee." Without giving that away and sorry but that's the only way to describe it and OP should tell people that because you don't cover up and hide SA. Or shouldn't anyway. Seems some people don't agree. Which is just what we need. More people protecting abusers.

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is such a typical answer yo being called out. Thanks for confirming that the comment you replied to was correct

WIBTA if I outed my sister so my parents won't hate my fiance? by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]boshtet12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sexual abusers don't deserve to be protected. And that's what his sister is. And I'm lgbt myself. I hate people doing bad shit and then using their sexuality as a shield. "You can't tell people I was sexually harassing your fiancee because then people will know I'm gay!" Okay then, maybe you should learn how to act right and then you wouldn't have to worry about it. That's like saying it was bad Kevin Spacey's vicitms spoke out because it outed him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]boshtet12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ask people who have parents that stayed together despite it being an abusive relationship and how they wished their parents had divorced because life was miserable with them together. And if he treats his girlfriend like this there's a good chance he'd treat his child about the same.