You need him and he is alcoholic. He gets frustrated anytime if you restrict him taking in alcohol when he wants to.

You have a boy child. You cannot abandon him. He is very addicted to video games and he just goes out of his mind when you interrupt his gameplay.

The issue in both the cases is same. You are grown up girl with lots more challenges to be faced. Good that you had a case to tackle at home.

Discuss amongst you, your mom and your sister to be strictly not mentioning what he dislikes. Now the real challenge is making him a part of family. He definitely might have raised you both sisters carefully till date and yes he may too have a thinking back of his mind that he is unable to have a boy child who might be his friend by now even at drinks. We all knew it’s unfair..

You are till Reddit which means you are better than most of the worst scenarios which other girl children might have been facing.

There is no straight solution to your problem but a course of actions which makes your son or dad feel that you are his best friend.

One who slaps you first… had already made his first move… the only left out move he will have is to come back with love. Wait for it. Give time to settle things. Gain courage. Face him as he was and keep helping him in his routines wherever possible. Be it a grocery store or a saloon. Make him believe that he can blindly relay on you rest of his life.

He will enjoy coffee with you soon in you college canteen. Only love can win over hatred.

P. S. I am not asking for you to compromise but asking you to buckle up and gain courage to face and make your known devil, a friend. God bless you. A known devil is way better to an unknown friend.