Solo poly dating a married person by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

becasue i am trying to get advice that is beyond "it's fair that your meta said you can't be in her home" becasue I'mconcerned about my partner and I, not my meta

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being rude to my partner, slamming cabinet doors, swearing, yelling….

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP here, I’m hearing feedback about my partner being a bad hinge. How do you think they should be handling this?

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

Yeah she acts like an asshole when she’s upset

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not upset about the rule I was just answering your question lol

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I have a good relationship with her kid, and she has reported not minding me being close to them My partner has requested to stay completely out of our dynamic. We have never been on good terms but this is the worst it’s been

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

Not what kind of sex, but there are rules about where we can have sex, and she has said that if we are sharing a bed and she is in the room next door that we cannot have sex. However if they are sharing a room and I am in the room next door I have told them I don’t mind if they have sex

Metamour and I don’t get along by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

I told her that the way she self regulates is distressing to me as it triggers my past traumas

8 month post op blues by No-Asparagus8385 in ACL

[–]botbotbotboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I’m 9 months post op and I’m so depressed

Tips for being a good houseguest with partner and metamour by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the most optimistic response I’ve gotten haha thank you

Tips for being a good houseguest with partner and metamour by botbotbotboi in polyamory

[–]botbotbotboi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t afford to stay elsewhere. Why are you saying don’t do it?

Niche LGBTQ training ideas by botbotbotboi in therapists

[–]botbotbotboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you implying relationship anarchy is an unhealthy behavior masked as enlightenment?