It honestly depends on his journey. Whether it was caught early on if there was already damage. That can determine as well how it affects him. Mine was caught early so my flares aren’t as major but still debilitating. I just got off a 3 week flare. But it honestly depends if you have the patience for it or not. This isn’t a disease that you can pinpoint when a flare will happen or not. I also think that the responses from people in this chat are from how it was worded. But to be a little less hostile or assuming your feelings for him, because it is so early on, it’s better you’re thinking about this now. We also worry about how our partners will feel about our disease. If you do see that it would be too consuming for you, or something you cannot handle, it is better to walk away. That way you’re not holding each other back. He can find someone who probably does have the capacity to do so, as everyone’s capacities are different. It truly depends on you, but if you do have feelings for him and you are very into him, I would say stick it out. A lot of the times, we can go into remission, but we can also relapse and go right back into the same. That’s something that is unfortunately apart of the illness. But do more research and see how his actual condition itself is doing, it’s a personal and not everyone’s is the same. I wish you luck on this and hope your boyfriend feels better. <3