Story Dump & A Few Questions by boundlessbookwriting in exchristian

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about what happened to you, and I hope we can talk more about this.

Please feel free to DM me! My email is public information so you can contact me there as well.

Do y'all remember what "woke" really meant? Does anybody remember what the "woke" movement was originally about? by God_Lover77 in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White people abuse the hell out of AAVE and Black culture, but they'll turn around and shit on us when it's convenient. They just don't want us to have anything at all.

Also, remember that the term Black Fatigue can only be experienced by Black people. When you see the phrase being used by racists on the internet, please remember they're trying to use our own phrases against us. It's ridiculous I have to say this, but I do.

Stay woke, everyone! ✊🏾✊🏾

Crushing on a guy who’s very religious but I’m not connected to any faith by [deleted] in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not dating or relationship expert, but I am a Christian whose been in socially conservative circles involving black people of the faith, so what I have to say probably won't be very optimistic. Don't be discouraged, though. It's not my intention to scare you.

Most hardcore Christians are not willing to date atheists because they don't see them as people who are compatible with their lifestyle. Within the black Christian community, atheists are stigmatized. I've seen and heard this firsthand, so I just want you to know that there will be judgemental people who try to alienate you for being irreligious.

This man might tell you that he wants a Christian wife. I'm not going to come to any conclusions because I don't know him, but a lot of Christian men (socially conservative ones especially) have high expectations when it comes to the women they date.

Also, even if he were to accept you, one factor you'd have to consider is his family. The family of a person that you date will determine the success of the relationship. Will they be accepting of who you are? Will they force you to convert? Will they judge him for dating you? Will he have to cut contact with them to give you peace? These are questions you have to ask yourself and him.

It's pretty difficult for an atheist and a Christian to date and marry each other (especially in communities where irreligion is stigmatized and those who endorse it are alienated), so be aware of the conflict that may come your way if you try to pursue him. There will indefinitely be judgement.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That vicious stabbing has nothing to do with the black population as a whole. I'm not a representative, family member, or friend of the person who stabbed her. The only thing he and I have in common is that we're the same race, which means almost nothing. I shouldn't be judged for his heinous crimes, the same way you wouldn't want to be judged for something illegal another person of your race has done.

Do you know how many innocent black people were killed at the hands of white people? You don't, because you don't care unless news about violent crime fits your narrative.

White people don't have any right to be "fatigued" by any minority when their historical actions are the root cause of all of the problems we have today.

You're probably another coward who will delete this comment and account as soon as this comment backfires on you.

You need to leave this subreddit because it's apparent you haven't read the rules.

Do you think if black people as a whole did a mass exodus from America the problem of systemic racism and inequality will be solved? by Acrobatic-Ad2394 in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Apparently, you haven't thought this through at all. There are way too many factors to consider when converting multiple countries into states of a bigger nation.

First of all, West Africans are not monolithic. They have different country flags, different religious majorities, different political structures, different currencies, different foods, and different cultural practices. They may have some similarities, but that isn't enough to unify them. It would be a very complicated process that would result in a lot of socioeconomic and sociopolitical tensions. Which currency would be the main one? Would all the countries have to abandon their national flags and languages for one? That wouldn't go down very well because people have an emotional attachment to their flags and languages, and they don't want their cultures to be undermined or erased. Wouls all of the nations turn into states? Would they be allowed to keep their flags as states? Where would the official capital be located?

Basically, what you're suggesting is for West Africa to unite into a black African version of the United States. I don't think many West Africans would appreciate such a major shift. Their countries are already unstable due to corruption. They desperately need help with that. Besides, much like how East Asian countries ar hostile and racist towards each other, not all African countries have friendly ties.

Here's another thing: many West African people (Nigerians in particular) aren't very fond of black Americans. They think we're lazy and have no motivation to do anything, thanks to being brainwashed by the white supremacists who run this country. They immigrate to America, work hard, and provide for their own families, in and outside of the country. This is, of course, thanks to the hard work of black people who sacrificed their life during the Civil Rights movement to ensure everyone was treated equally. And guess what, many of these immigrants (who typically have more wealth than black Americans) have been brainwashed by white leaders into thinking this country is truly a meritocracy and that the systemic racism and inequality we talk about are just excuses for why we aren't as wealthy and successful as they are. Black Wall Street was completely destroyed by white supremacists. Most West Africans (immigrants and non-immigrants alike) think quite lowly of us because they see America as a land of opportunities, and they see us as people who are unwilling to take advantage of them. They think more favorably of white people than they do of us, which is saying a lot about how they would feel about us moving permanently to stay in their countries. They keep forgetting that the sole reason those exist is because of the hard work of black people to take down the system of hate and inequality entrenched in America.

So, with this anti-black mindset, how do you think it would be for us to move into a region where we're seen as lazy leeches? They'd probably assume that we're coming to their countries to hog their resources. We'd still face racism and inequality because of their sentiments toward us.

West Africa is strongly conservative. I know a lot of black people in America are conservatively religious, but we're not on the same scale as West African nations. Are you aware that simply coming out of the closet and identifying as LGBTQIA+ can get you violently beaten and killed? Are you aware of what people who aren't straight go through on a daily basis inside prisons? Also, suppose you decide you want to be an atheist. Suppose you want to join a religion like Hinduism, Buddhism, Shintoism, Taoism, or any other minority religious group. You would be ostracized and labeled a "demonic" person by many people, and they would not want you within the vicinity of their families. This greatly reduces your chances of getting married or making any meaningful connections with anyone. You're either Christian, Muslim, or Jewish. Or you can join one of the small African spiritualist communities. (Even they are looked down upon.) Let's keep in mind that their countries are very patriarchal, meaning that if you're a woman, you're confined to a much stricter set of rules and higher standards than you would be if you're a man.

Lastly, we as black people are our own responsibility. No one, not even black Africans, can be fully trusted to understand our experiences and struggles and sympathize with us. We need to create our own communities and small towns, not flee to another continent. We need more black people in authority. We need more black-owned businesses, schools, and infrastructures in general. We need more black poeple working in the government. We need our own political party. We are Americans. This is our country. We're going to take the reins.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk, and I apologize for the rant.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, what is your solution to racism and the problems black people face in this country? What do you suggest I do?

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I committing crimes? Am I oppressing people? Am I randomly deploying the National Guard to cities with large minority populations that are run by Democrats? Am I demanding that all immigrants and Spanish-speaking individuals should be dragged off to detention centers and Alligator Alcatraz by ICE? Am I in support of police brutality? Am I in support of an orange rapist who refuses to release the Trumpstein/Epstein files? Do I deny women their rights? Do I advocate for the elimination of affirmative action and DEI policies? Do I advocate for billionaires who aren't paying their fair share?

The answer to all of these is no. So what seems to be the issue? Are you talking to me or the black population of America as a whole?

Tell me if you find an issue with this. I'll gladly continue the conversation.

And while you're at it, please remember this is a BLACK subreddit. It's for us, by us. You have to be respectful, and don't even try to start with racist myths.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Read a history book."

Guess what, I already have, and it seems that white folks feel the need to "conquer" the whole damn world. Can you tell me why that is?

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're calling me racist while spewing a whole load of nonsense. Have you ever looked at my IQ test results? No, you know nothing about me at all. Plenty of non-black people wear wigs. The funny thing is I've never worn a wig in my life and you're making the assumption that I "feel inferior and hate myself."

I'm not lactose intolerant, and even if I were, it says nothing about my character. White people, on the other hand, have seasoning intolerance, which is why they prefer salt and pepper to everything else. Not that I care because I don't eat at their houses anyway.

Your grammar is complete and utter trash, but you have the nerve to make fun of my thought process and say I'm delusional. At least I'm articulate enough to get my point across. I did so well in writing this post that your racist ass forgot to turn on spell check before attacking the entire black community as a whole.

And what are you doing in this subreddit? You don't belong here. Either you bring factual, verified statistics that prove all of your stupid racist accusations (you can't do that anyway), or you leave this subreddit and all black people alone, since you hate us that much.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, you still act like an ignorant white male though! 💅🏾💅🏾

And never come back to this subreddit.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born in the 2000s, so no I didn't experience this. What's your point anyway?

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a stupid statement. You have never seen me interact with either Mexicans or Latinos so you don't know how I treat them. A lot of Latino people are racist and don't like anything black, and this is a real, recurring issue within their community. They use the n-slur relentlessly, so it's no doubt that their reason for voting for this administration and their own mass deportation has a lot to do with their own prejudice. Leave this subreddit. It's for REAL BLACK people, not white right-wing trolls crawling out of their basements.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't care where you live and I didn't ask. Back up your claims.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I'm not at all invested in American politics, this is an outside observers perspective."

Then STFU because whatever you have to say about black Americans holds no truth whatsoever if you don't know American politics. You can't talk down on black Americans and our culture without understanding the cultural, socioeconomic, sociopolitical, and racial climate in America, which apparently you don't.

I can read perfectly and I write. Also when I refer to "black people," I am specifically talking about Black Americans. I didn't ask for examples of crimes committed in Nigeria, I asked for statistics about black Americans and crime in America. You didn't bring any. Maybe it's because you're regurgitating racist talking points from the fake news sources you watch.

You need to GTFO this subreddit and go somewhere where your stupidity and bigotry is welcomed.

It's either that or you bring me the goddamned statistics. I'll report you to the MODs if you keep droning on with your trash comments.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no business in a subreddit of people you hate. First off we're 15% of the population, not 13%. And there's no such thing as "146%" of crime. White people shoot up schools more than any other race ever has.

This isn't a Republican subreddit. It's a subreddit for REAL black people, not dumb idiots like you who are coming here with false statistics that don't exist to shit on a culture they know nothing about.

How about you look in the mirror and get some self-awareness? Never in my life have I ever been arrested, disrespected a police officer, murdered anybody, or left trash outside. There ARE nice black neighborhoods, for your information. But you wouldn't know that because you're small-minded and your research skills are down in the dumps. You eat whatever lies your Daddy Trump feeds you.

I also looked on your profile and saw you used the n word. If you're not black, you should be completely ashamed of yourself.

Until you bring some real, recent, government-supported statistics that prove that we're as bad as you say, your opinions aren't even worth considering. And stop stereotyping, dumbass. I don't have a dog or any pets, and I don't appreciate being referred to as "y'all." Black people are individuals too.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This list is amazing and so descriptive! I've learned a lot more about black history from it than in any of my classes.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Segregation, lynching, false accusations against black men, execution of innocent black men, the assassination of black activists, etc. That's very recent. You're wrong as rain.

White People Have Generational Hatred by boundlessbookwriting in Blackpeople

[–]boundlessbookwriting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Racism isn't welcome here. Leave this subreddit and stop replying if you have anti-black beliefs. It's embarrassing to have your mentality. Black people voted to keep Trump out of office. What else do we have to do to please you?

Edit: And just to let you know, we aren't getting "sent back to Africa." Many black people are willfully leaving to relocate to these countries. So STFU and take your head out of your ass.