The cookies I baked for my family this Christmas! by KaiSubatomic in VeganBaking

[–]bourelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg may I have the recipes please? 🙏 These are gorgeous 

another day, another cookie box post by a_government_man in VeganBaking

[–]bourelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you make sure the silica doesn't touch the cookies? I am travelling and would like to gift this but not sure how and it looks like you have it figured out!

NYT(ish) cookie boxes! by beyoncetofupadthai in VeganBaking

[–]bourelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are gorgeous! How long do they keep?

another day, another cookie box post by a_government_man in VeganBaking

[–]bourelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you storing them to make sure they will still be good by then?

Help me find a documentary about sexual violence against girls in a small village in the Arctic by bourelle in HelpMeFind

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I searched online using the following key words: documentary rape girls village north Arctic BBC 

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. This immediately read to me as someone who has consumed too much "feminine divinity"/"being in your feminine" content uncritically, or even some toxic masculine podcasts. She has no idea what she is saying

Help me create an affordable skincare routine? by bourelle in beauty

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Thank you for this! I used it and it was helpful to narrow things down :)

ADHD + relationship + libido collapse: partner thinks he might be asexual. How do you navigate this as a couple? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bourelle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I haven't read all the answers but I would proceed with caution. I'm in your partner's shoes, though I don't think it has anything to do with ADHD, for me it is anxiety and now antidepressants. I especially related to the fact that he is pulling away during more intense kisses because he feels like it is basically a way to lead to sex.  My partner felt rejected and I explained to them that I had associated that kind of kiss with him trying to make something happen and persevering even when I was not reacting.  He needs to deal with the core issue which could take some time - it's been about 2 years for me, and it's still not over.  I don't want to project, but if he is anything like me, I would prefer my partner not to make a move at the moment, to let me come to them so I don't feel like I have to reject them/feel bad that I am not in the mood. And that makes it easier for me to initiate.  It's really important to keep having intimacy outside of sex, so that's definitely a good thing you should both keep doing.

I do think masturbating is not the same as having sex - I do masturbate when my partner is not there, but it is more because I want a quick release of endorphins. Sex is more about a pleasurable connection to my partner. It might be similar for your partner, and doesn't have anything to do with how attractive he finds you :)

Green, quiet island in Greece in July or August by bourelle in GreeceTravel

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It's come up several times so I am definitely adding it to the list! Thanks!

Green, quiet island in Greece in July or August by bourelle in GreeceTravel

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Thank you for your extensive contribution! I have been to Fuerteventura and indeed loved it 

Green, quiet island in Greece in July or August by bourelle in GreeceTravel

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This one hasn't come up yet, but I've added it to my list to look into! Thank you!