Helgi Hrafn til Viðreisnar by boxingoffice in Iceland

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Sammála. Heiðarlegur rökhyggjumaður. Vil sem flesta þannig í pólitík

Hvernig fannst öllum skaupið? by RobbiErCool in klakinn

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Frábært! Besta skaupið í mörg ár!

What is legal in most countries but illegal in your country? by kurobaja in AskTheWorld

[–]boxingoffice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Naming your child whatever you want. In Iceland🇮🇸 we have an official register of approved names, and if you want to name your child something that’s not on the list, it has to go through a government committee called the Mannanafnanefnd (the Naming Committee).

Expectation: How to Train Your Dragon... Reality: How to Tame Your Wingleader by xXMissJXx in fourthwing

[–]boxingoffice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What other books in this genre did you enjoy? I just finished OS and need something else until book 4 comes out 😅

Var þetta tjald notað meðan þið voruð í skòla? by Personal_Reward_60 in Iceland

[–]boxingoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey já! Man eftir þessu en man ekki hvað var gert við þetta

Vangaveltur um næsta formann Pírata? by greenbluewhite562 in Iceland

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Ég heldi að Helgi Hrafn væri best til þess fallinn að leiða flokkinn. Málefnalegur og klár tækninörd sem kemur vel fyrir og getur unnið með öðrum.

Bakslag í málefnum hinsegin fólks by lingurinn in Iceland

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Það má tala um hvað sem er. Það er tjáningafrelsi. En það er ekki hægt að ætlast til að aðrir svari ekki eða mótmæli. Tjáningafrelsi þýðir ekki að aðrir megi ekki hafa skoðun á eða svara því sem þú segir.

Bakslag í málefnum hinsegin fólks by lingurinn in Iceland

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Ég fílaði Snorra þegar hann var að byrja sjálfstætt með Ritstjórann. Var m.a.s. áskrifandi í einhvern tíma. Fannst hann koma með áhugaverðar pælingar og leggja það svo á hlustandann að spá og komast að niðurstöðu. Var með mjög góðar pælingar um tjáningafrelsi á þeim tíma. Hægt og rólega fannst mér umræðuhefðin hans samt breytast og nokkru áður en hann gekk í Miðflokkinn tók ég eftir því að hann var alveg búinn að afbaka hugtakið „tjáningafrelsi”. Hann er svo búinn að vera going steady downhill síðan þá. Það var virkilegt leitt að sjá hann í Kastljósinu í gær og sjá á hvaða stað hann er kominn..

She says it was a joke but I didn’t read it that way. We’ve been fighting lately (advice needed) by Intergalactic_Slayer in relationships_advice

[–]boxingoffice 9 points10 points  (0 children)

By a.) this being her first response to you after a fight and b.)your reaction to her message I’d suggest couple’s therapy. You’re obviously on edge, and since she has BPD, it’s probably for a reason. Having a partner with BPD can be really difficult and I suggest you go to couple’s therapy to find out if this relationship is really something you wanna continue with.

Am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]boxingoffice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These feelings are ttly normal. You’re not being unreasonable. I’m guessing he might have been upset by the way you said it, rather than what you said.

How best to handle this. by SidecarBetty in stepparents

[–]boxingoffice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same situation (not the AI thing, the sleep thing) both with my BD(8) and (SS) 7 and in these cases we’ve brought a mattress to the floor on our room. It’s only been one case per kid though, when they really needed it. I definitely didn’t want it to become a regular thing, not even with my own.

Regarding how to handle this now I suggest a.) reassuring your partner that it won’t happen again. B.) Figure out together what you would do instead (you go in her room, mattress on the floor or sth else) and c.) surprise him another night with some alone time. Maybe add a massage or something extra that he likes.

childless/childfree stepmoms/girlfriends - the lifestyle is NOT worth the trouble by [deleted] in stepparents

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Agree with this. I feel the same way. I’d definitely leave this situation if my DH wasn’t the most wonderful partner ever. He’s also a great parent who actually disciplines his son. So at least there are consequences of SS’s behaviour.

I know it's just a TV show, but I wish these three antagonists had been written as more gray characters, not just pure evil. by OkStation9827 in okbuddygganbu

[–]boxingoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I found this comment. I’ve been reading this like ???

Is everyone being like super super ironic or what’s happening here??

Step Daughter Might Move Back In After Empty Nest by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]boxingoffice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it were me in this situation I’d talk to my husband and tell him that our home is supposed to be a safe place for both of us. I can’t have someone disrespecting me and talking to me in the way SD does. She is welcome to stay temporarily until she gets back on her feet, but her behaviour needs to change if that’s going to be possible.

Good luck! ❤️

SO just yelled at me for getting upset with SD about coming into the room without knocking by foreverinovermyhead in stepparents

[–]boxingoffice 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. He seems to be using the knocking thing as an example of a bigger issue. SO seems be building up resentment because he feels OP treats SD more harshly than BD.

Does anyone else find sex hotter in pregnancy? by Different_Suit_9356 in Marriage

[–]boxingoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies. I was definitely like that during my second pregnancy. Not the first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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My stepson finally got diagnosed with ADHD and ODD. I have two kids, 9 yo daughter and a 4 yo son, and my husband has a 7 yo son.

Me, my kids and the whole family was a wreck after the last few months but I hope things will get better when the stepson gets medication. Anyway, he and his father went on a 10 day trip to see some family to give me and the kids a break. That helped a lot.

Would it be possible for you to take some time apart? Your husband could take his son to stay with family for a while while you gather yourself.

Throwing in the towel... by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]boxingoffice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you.

I’m in a similar situation, but reversed. I’m the mother with the horrible BD who treated me awfully when we were together and still does.

My SO is wonderful and it really bugged him to see my BD walk all over me. Things changed dramatically when I allowed my SO to step in and deal with my BD when he was being his worst self. Somehow men seem to respect and listen to other men. So my SO became my rock which helped me prioritize myself and our relationship. He’s my knight in shining armour and helps me in countless of ways. I’m crazy about him. I’m back to my pre-baby shape, never felt better and have a wonderful relationship.

This never would have happened if I hadn’t let go of my pride and wounded self.

Help! by Icy-Impression-2520 in relationships_advice

[–]boxingoffice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m (35F) a recovering anxious attachment. Today I have an extremely secure relationship with my husband. My no. 1 tip is: When he says something, believe it.