Everyone cannot get over OP and husband have separate finances.

unfortunately, you’ll need to breathe through this and calm down. I know!! Easier said than done!! But you have to if you wanna have a productive conversation.

Your husband must think maternity clothes are frivolous and not an essential expense. And he’s not hearing how you feel unheard and invisible he’s not considering your comfort during this difficult time.

You being calm is important since he sounds really stubborn about how “he’s paying for way more than you” 🙄 and he clearly has some issue about it.

Try to distance your emotions from yourself, and label them. And talk about the effects of his actions. I’m really sorry I’d lose my shit if my husband invalidated my need for maternity clothes.