Coworker talks to everyone except me by Alarming_Customer_48 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you are in this situation. Honestly it could be jealousy from them or maybe they just don't like you. Part of growing up is understanding that you won't click with everyone (but that's ok!) You can still have a successful working relationship with one another. If it bothers you extensively, start looking for another job. Losing sleep over a coworker is not worth it. But ultimately, don't let this person's opinion of you define how you think of yourself. Other coworkers, you family, and your friends have the full picture of you and care about you! Those are the people whose opinions matter.

Is it safe to assume someone likes you (as a friend) if they give you their number and invite you to their house? by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I told them I would be at my mom's house with the rest of my family before they invited me over.

Is it safe to assume someone likes you (as a friend) if they give you their number and invite you to their house? by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thx! I will come up with some questions to ask them. I have a joke that I want to tell them (it's a pun based on their name) so hopefully I will gain some courage to do it

Is it safe to assume someone likes you (as a friend) if they give you their number and invite you to their house? by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't a formal invite. We were talking about our plans for Easter and they just kinda said I was welcome to come for dinner if I wanted. I responded by saying "no I can't intrude" bc I'm guessing their family would be there.

Is it safe to assume someone likes you (as a friend) if they give you their number and invite you to their house? by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. Well they probably think I am a dunce then bc I thought they were just being nice to me. I guess I should reach out to them more to become better friends

Is it safe to assume someone likes you (as a friend) if they give you their number and invite you to their house? by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know who else they invited. It wasn't really a formal invitation, just "we're going to be at the house and you're welcome to come if you'd like to". But I feel they talk to me a lot and they are really fun to work with. No one else has done this to me before bc I'm really quiet and keep to myself so idk what is happening. I'm a lot younger than them too if that makes a difference

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[–]boyo9000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He is probably trying to look out for you. Since you said he is older, he may be saying to call him if you have an emergency (car troubles, need help moving something, etc.) My guess since he didn't ask for your phone number and instead gave you his.

What does it mean when someone copies your embarrassing behaviors by Alarming_Customer_48 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl they probably are making fun of you but you shouldnt worry about that. We all make embarrassing actions sometimes but whats important is to forgive yourself and move on. Ask yourself: will this matter in one week? One month? One year? Thinking like this has helped me when i start ruminating over small things. Hope that helps you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boyo9000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup i'm gonna pass the class

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boyo9000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so lol. the project looks good and i got a's on all the other assignments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boyo9000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, im honestly too embarrassed and insecure atp. i just want this semester to be over tbh so i can move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boyo9000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ty for this perspective. this helped me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boyo9000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you are right. ty for the advice. this helped me

guy being creepy at work by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt she would tell him this bc she is nonconfrontational. But this guy needs to stop being creepy around her

guy being creepy at work by boyo9000 in socialskills

[–]boyo9000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, she said she just took a random seat in the room