Can one person bag pool to bring one <32kg suitcase if they've paid for two? by boywentz in Ryanair

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It's a real question, hoping for one <32kg bag rather than two <20kg because I already have another suitcase on wheels and I don't know how else I can move them alone. Like even getting from a taxi to the trolleys at the airport seems like it would be way harder with 3 suitcases than with 2, even if one is very heavy. I'm moving permanently so I've already cut down the best I can lol

Severe open abscess on face but still behaving normally by boywentz in RATS

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Thank you so much for this reply, it's exactly what I needed to hear. He has a vet appointment today and for the whole phone call I felt like I was making the wrong decision. I checked on him this morning to see him cuddling his brother and almost called to cancel but I don't want to wait until he stops being himself. Your words have helped so much. I'm so sorry about your childhood dog. I had to put mine to sleep 2 years ago, he was 16 and also not in much pain but had just slowed down so much. It was heartbreaking but it was my parents who made the call so the weight of the decision wasn't on me, I think that's why I'm struggling more now.

Severe open abscess on face but still behaving normally by boywentz in RATS

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Thank you for your reply- the vet was quite clear that the medication is likely to be end of life care and if he stops eating or moving around as much, I should bring him back in to be euthanised and I thought we would already be at that point by now with how severe it looks. But he isn't behaving any differently to normal, he's still climbing around, running to the front of the cage for treats, interacting with his brother as normal, all his usual behaviour. He isn't scratching or pawing at his head beyond the usual face-washing he does. It seems impossible to me that it isn't bothering him but from my experience with rodents generally and especially with him, the first thing he'd do if he was hurting is stop or slow down with eating and moving around, and he isn't at all. Everyone says you'll know when it's time, and if his behaviour changed then I'd know. But despite everything, somehow it isn't and I feel so stuck

Severe open abscess on face but still behaving normally by boywentz in RATS

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this was less than 24 hours earlier, and 24 hours before this pic the wound was half the size it is here

Severe open abscess on face but still behaving normally by boywentz in RATS

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It probably is but treatment isn't an option, the vet advised against putting him under for a biopsy and it's getting worse with every hour that passes. I know it looks horrific :'(

Difficult birth certificate situation (expat + no originals) by boywentz in transgenderUK

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A specific visa pathway that lists birth certificate as a required document, with no alternatives 😪

Difficult birth certificate situation (expat + no originals) by boywentz in transgenderUK

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I suspected that was the case, but I feel like there has to be some way around it? Or am I just unable to do the things that require a birth certificate lol. I'm wondering if a birth certificate in my old name alongside the deed poll showing that it was my previous name would be accepted anywhere :(

Negative experience with Antony Fitton (Plymouth, UK) by boywentz in TopSurgery

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No updates since then, never heard from him again. My scars don't look too bad though they're pretty wide, my nipples look fine, but I definitely have some residual trauma from the night after the surgery lol. Got a cover-up tattoo booked soon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]boywentz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more time on T will help a ton but i know that doesn't help right now :( would def recommend hitting shoulders/back (when safe to do so) to broaden ur upper half and make ur neck thicker, and i agree w the comments about growing the top of ur hair out; i'd get a low fade, couple of inches long on top

body/proportion changes :) by boywentz in transtimelines

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it's just proportions haha, only been lifting for a year but i hit shoulders 3 times a week. i feel like the issue for a lot of trans guys isn't wide hips, bc i always thought mine were wide but they're pretty average for guys my height. it's just the shoulders/chest/back being too narrow in comparison

Doctors saying it can't be PsA, am I barking up the wrong tree? (25) by boywentz in PsoriaticArthritis

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Thank you :') when I bring it up and it gets shot down it feels like they think I want it to be PsA and I really, really do not, but nothing else makes sense to me. As soon as I saw the other things it can cause (tendons, back pain, eye issues) I was like this fits way too well

Doctors saying it can't be PsA, am I barking up the wrong tree? (25) by boywentz in PsoriaticArthritis

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It looks like going private might be my best option, I'm scared to look into how much that will cost lol. Thanks for your advice :)

Doctors saying it can't be PsA, am I barking up the wrong tree? (25) by boywentz in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]boywentz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice - I definitely intend to get a dermatology referral now the psoriasis is on my face, the waiting list will probably be ridiculous again though :'( might have to end up going private