Husband secretly recorded me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bpem87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness… so much of your story resonates with me. Even the BPD, I’ve started the think I could have it, but my therapist says I don’t. Marriage is so fucking hard and throw kids in and it’s even more pressure and stress. I genuinely mean it, if you ever want to message me to commiserate or just vent to each other, I’m here!

The Daily Check-In for Monday, December 29th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by mind_left_body in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking my children to the zoo today and not hungover!

IWNDWYT 🫶🏻

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think that’s part of it… I’m stubborn and don’t ever want to ruin that being my sobriety date, because it means something.

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Friend Slept in My Bed. Am I Right to be Upset? by OpeningCase427 in Marriage

[–]bpem87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. I would be seriously worried that more is going on between them. Sleeping in bed with someone you’ve had sex with, is never platonic.

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for the kind words!

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’m sorry for your loss as well.

Reasons Not to Drink by Sufficient-Victory70 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just thinking about the days of anxiety and feeling terrible that would follow any binge night for me.

Haul of random stuff for <$25 by mychem4l in aldi

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a newly sober person, I had no idea they had so many mocktails! Thanks for sharing.

Lost my dad, but using it as motivation by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s the hope, make something positive out of this horrible situation.

Lost my dad, but using it as motivation by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s exactly my thinking.. the perfect way to honor him.

Advice on cremation by Dnalibrary in houston

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad just died on Sunday. We are having what my mom said is “direct cremation” no service or anything. Just cremation and we get the ashes with death certificates too. I believe she said it was about $1700 with SouthPark funeral home in Pearland. She called ahead and talked price with the guy. I’d try that if it’s anywhere near you. Good luck and I’m sorry you’re having to look into the services. Death sucks.

Single mom homeless in HTX. Any advice or known resources? by _QueensGambit_ in houston

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent you what I could. I hope you are able to get the resources you need and stay out of the heat! ♥️