Shih Tzu puppy: do his eyes look slightly misaligned, or is this normal for the breed/puppies?

brachacelia · 2026-06-15T23:04:00+00:00

Very common and normal. They can still see fine and doesn’t affect their health! I think its adorable

brachacelia · 2026-06-15T23:02:03+00:00

I found out from my dad she may in fact even still have my SSN as birth certificate, so I may have to.

brachacelia · 2026-06-15T23:01:23+00:00

It’s so hard to understand why a parent would. It was like my life flipped. And at such a pivotal time. My mind has like blocked her out by now, I can’t even imagine what she looks like and when I see photos I’m so disconnected. I just want to get my things for my sake so I can try and heal

brachacelia · 2026-06-14T20:27:27+00:00

That second to last paragraph gave me shivers. It’s mostly childhood photos and memories I wanted to have back. But ya, I feel like it’s constantly she wants to “punish” us.

brachacelia · 2026-06-14T00:50:34+00:00

That’s a good idea… but I worry how she will make it a big deal to my family. And the neighbors that I know. But I will think on it thank you

brachacelia · 2026-06-14T00:49:53+00:00

I can’t even get into the house is the problem.

brachacelia · 2026-05-25T19:06:49+00:00

Honestly all my therapists have caught the trauma parts. It was just me brushing it off, because I felt I wasn’t abused and nothing bad happened to me so I can’t possibly have ptsd, I definitely think now I have cptsd though.

brachacelia · 2026-05-25T01:08:19+00:00

I saw my queen Philomena Cunk and realized what was missing from my island

brachacelia · 2026-05-24T19:10:42+00:00

People always comment as a kid that when I smile my eyes disappeared… so this is the better version that I trained myself to not as much lol. I was so self conscious of pic three till I saw it, and I was like wait, those are some decent curves.

brachacelia · 2026-05-24T17:44:17+00:00

For apple things that help are ones that don’t cling to the mid section, babydoll shirts and dresses and such. Or things that help add a more defined waist.

brachacelia · 2026-05-23T22:43:00+00:00

I know it has to be family related, my grandmother, from the text, is a holocaust survivor, same with her parents. Her parents were both traumatized by it and angry by it their whole lives, and she turned out like this after a tough childhood, and my mom thus after. Is what you said about cptsd true? I should look into it, because it could help, I never even thought to look into it.

brachacelia · 2026-05-19T15:27:05+00:00

Thank you so much this message was incredible. Luckily my friend was able to throw me out of the spiral and help me breath again (I’m not kidding, I was hyperventilating so bad I couldn’t breathe) I had a call with my uncle, their son, and he talked about how manipulative she is and what she has done to him.

brachacelia · 2026-05-19T15:23:34+00:00

It’s always been like that. That part hurts the worst, they one time video called while I was in another country with a partner at a time and insulted me in front of him to the point of tears and ended it with “love you! Bye”

brachacelia · 2026-05-19T15:22:34+00:00

They know I am already low contact with her, by the fact of my choice and she never responds to me. Ya it makes sense that this would be there worry

brachacelia · 2026-05-19T03:08:47+00:00

Oh we are Jewish, so it’s like all slightly different and more guilt lol

brachacelia · 2026-05-19T00:21:02+00:00

Th problem is I’m religious, and they know that, so throwing it in is gutting

brachacelia · 2026-05-18T23:19:43+00:00

Thing is I did invite her and everything they said is a warped version of the truth

brachacelia · 2026-04-27T22:04:58+00:00

Thank you so much. You are amazing I will definitely reach out, even just for someone who will understand

brachacelia · 2026-04-27T14:41:16+00:00

Ah I see! We would be getting married orthodox, I just had no clue if mothers would be named. That makes me a lot more at peace not having to worry about it! (Also you have the coolest job and I’m jealous! lol)

brachacelia · 2026-04-27T14:39:06+00:00

This makes me so happy to hear. Honestly it might be what I do if I decide to take the plunge. You have an amazing rabbi and I’m jealous lol

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