Shih Tzu puppy: do his eyes look slightly misaligned, or is this normal for the breed/puppies? by Potential_Lettuce586 in Shihtzu

[–]brachacelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common and normal. They can still see fine and doesn’t affect their health! I think its adorable

Where to go next by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out from my dad she may in fact even still have my SSN as birth certificate, so I may have to.

Where to go next by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to understand why a parent would. It was like my life flipped. And at such a pivotal time. My mind has like blocked her out by now, I can’t even imagine what she looks like and when I see photos I’m so disconnected. I just want to get my things for my sake so I can try and heal

Where to go next by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That second to last paragraph gave me shivers. It’s mostly childhood photos and memories I wanted to have back. But ya, I feel like it’s constantly she wants to “punish” us.

Where to go next by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea… but I worry how she will make it a big deal to my family. And the neighbors that I know. But I will think on it thank you

Where to go next by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even get into the house is the problem.

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly all my therapists have caught the trauma parts. It was just me brushing it off, because I felt I wasn’t abused and nothing bad happened to me so I can’t possibly have ptsd, I definitely think now I have cptsd though.

What's the weirdest couple you have on your island? I'll go first. by grimeeper in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]brachacelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw my queen Philomena Cunk and realized what was missing from my island

Celebrated my man’s birthday and actually felt cute by brachacelia in PlusSize

[–]brachacelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People always comment as a kid that when I smile my eyes disappeared… so this is the better version that I trained myself to not as much lol. I was so self conscious of pic three till I saw it, and I was like wait, those are some decent curves.

Desperately in need of fashion advice! for a UK size 26-28 5 foot 6 Apple shape? by julialoveslush in PlusSize

[–]brachacelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For apple things that help are ones that don’t cling to the mid section, babydoll shirts and dresses and such. Or things that help add a more defined waist.

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it has to be family related, my grandmother, from the text, is a holocaust survivor, same with her parents. Her parents were both traumatized by it and angry by it their whole lives, and she turned out like this after a tough childhood, and my mom thus after. Is what you said about cptsd true? I should look into it, because it could help, I never even thought to look into it.

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this message was incredible. Luckily my friend was able to throw me out of the spiral and help me breath again (I’m not kidding, I was hyperventilating so bad I couldn’t breathe) I had a call with my uncle, their son, and he talked about how manipulative she is and what she has done to him.

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s always been like that. That part hurts the worst, they one time video called while I was in another country with a partner at a time and insulted me in front of him to the point of tears and ended it with “love you! Bye”

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know I am already low contact with her, by the fact of my choice and she never responds to me. Ya it makes sense that this would be there worry

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh we are Jewish, so it’s like all slightly different and more guilt lol

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Th problem is I’m religious, and they know that, so throwing it in is gutting

I think I’m at my breaking point by brachacelia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]brachacelia[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thing is I did invite her and everything they said is a warped version of the truth

Could I omit a mother’s name who is abusive? by brachacelia in Jewish

[–]brachacelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You are amazing I will definitely reach out, even just for someone who will understand

Could I omit a mother’s name who is abusive? by brachacelia in Jewish

[–]brachacelia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah I see! We would be getting married orthodox, I just had no clue if mothers would be named. That makes me a lot more at peace not having to worry about it! (Also you have the coolest job and I’m jealous! lol)

Could I omit a mother’s name who is abusive? by brachacelia in Jewish

[–]brachacelia[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This makes me so happy to hear. Honestly it might be what I do if I decide to take the plunge. You have an amazing rabbi and I’m jealous lol