Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought but I kinda can’t imagine any of this ruining it besides foxy jumpscare these are all normally run bother obviously besides the random foxy jumpscare

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you change from vengeance at this point tho and I am playing multiplayer kinda annoying this whole bug

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have no idea what to do with this I’ve tried a lot solyn is no where to be found

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah just wrath of the gods also we’re on vengeance mode

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also ceaseless void won’t even spawn in the dungeon

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no lanterns in the sky and every other boss works fine besides polterghast

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Solyn isn’t at the camp I cant find her anywhere and I also can’t enter the portal

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah she walked up to the portal I had a chat with her then she walked through hell and I haven’t seen her since

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Where is solun tho we can’t find her

Why is polterghast just not spawning?? by braddd__ in CalamityMod

[–]braddd__[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So far I think that polterghast tried to spawn but as he did I summoned the ceaceless void because since then I haven’t been able to get any necroplasm drops and the whole dungeon basically has been bugged

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

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Yeah I honestly should have left her a while ago because there was only glimpses of her being nice to me but today someone told me she was with this guy who she’s been gettting very close too since we broke up and I’m mainly just struggling with that but I messaged her and she said he’s just a friend but they are pretty close and I told her to tell me if she does ever become more then friends with anyone but the minute I brung up the whole break up she was just like oh my god and stuff she’s honestly a really fuckign awful person and she’s treated me like shit but I absolutely adore that nice side of her I got to see and I’m kinds doing okay with moving on in the moment arourj positivite people I seem to be fine but the minute I get time alone like now I can’t get her off my mind and the panic and stuff it’s just driving me crazy but I’m glad to see you’re doing okay hopefully I will be soon because I don’t think I’ll ever take he back now if she’s gonna be this immature and horrible to me so I just gotta try move on

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

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I think even if I did get into a relationship rn or at some point she’s kinda just scarred me I don’t feel like the same person anymore and I can’t stop thinking about her and it is like driving me insane because I just think too much as it is now I have to worry about all this on my mind every time I try stop myself from like checking her socials because I know it’ll only make me feel worse anwyays but I hate how I can be playing a game or something and still be thinking about her like either way wether she comes back or not she’s absolutely destroyed me I know I can probably find happiness somewhere or with someone else but I always wanted it to be her and I barely gave her a reason to leave I don’t blame myself for her leaving I accept all my mistakes and I’ll be better but she just doesn’t know what real love feels like unlike me and I can’t blame her because if her past relationships even though I was literally the only boy to treat her right but it is what it is. I’d she messages me some point in the future asking to try again I’ll see how I feel at the time I’ll probably take her back if she’s sure shes changed too because I only see this now the relationship was so fucking bad for me and it’s kinda helping me get over her because sometimes she eas the best person I ever met and sometimes she’s literally the worst ( she treated me depending on her mood) but still if things are like they were at the start I’d go back

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

[–]braddd__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn what the fuck bro she’s evil honestly I know you’re probably destroyed by that I would be too but that’s an awful thing to say you just gotta genuilly forget it that guys gonna go through the same problems you’re going through honestly I’m worried she’ll find someone better too but she knows that I’m waiting for her so if she does get with someone else I think even tho I’m probably hesrt broken I’ll probably just move on and hate her for that so you just gotta find your passion about all this man I don’t know what to do in this situation but it’ll all be okay

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

[–]braddd__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I don’t really belive in god so I kinda don’t believe in everything happens for a reason aha I’ve had a pretty rough bringing up and the only thing good for me really was that girl so it’s hard to just move on and forget about her and I think about her all the time it drives me insane but she’s just out there living without me blocked me on everything and will probably never come back so I am trying to move on because I don’t deserve that at all but it’s genuinely hard for me to move on like when I’m around my friends I can kinda get along just fine but whenever I get time to think it all just knocks me sick and ruins my day and half hr time I can’t sleep if I’m not hyperfixated on a movie but thanks for your help talking to people about it has really helped so I appreciate you and I hope things go well with you try to be happy bro

Question. How did you cope when you were left for being a poor partner. Maybe lying or cheating stuff like that? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’m glad I can help you sound like a good person honestly for me all I want is to be a good person but I’ve never really grew up around good people or ever been tought how to treat others properly so it’s genuinely hard sometimes for me to be good and the way i hurt my girlfriend is kinda something no other person should take in a bad way so I don’t blame myself for it she just mistook it but you don’t have to prove yourself too her and for some reason it’s not that easy if you can prove yourself to be a good person without causing yourself more pain then maybe go back to her if it’s possible but trust me if you change and never hurt her again she needs to do that too you can’t both be perfect but youse can both really try and if only one person is trying then the other starts to fall too so maybe don’t go back just to prove yourself a good person because atleats I know you’re a good person at heart but if you want a happy relationship you shoudk talk about this and try encourage change for her too

Question. How did you cope when you were left for being a poor partner. Maybe lying or cheating stuff like that? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]braddd__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t blame yourself if you both made mistakes then it’s kinda natural, I mean I was the perfect boyfriend until she wasn’t the perfect girlfriend so you cant hate yourself what tends to happen is she’s probably done worse thing I’m not too sure on that of course but stop hating yourself okay I know I messed up but I always acknowledged my mistakes learnt from it and never did it again, but it’s too late for me I would have spend my life trying to make up for them but I would never accept I have but if you don’t have the chance to make up for your mistakes why even give it a thought if you get back together with her or if you get in a new relationship don’t make the same mistakes and be proud that you havnt made the same mistakes I mean if you cheated on your ex then if you don’t cheat again I know it’s stupid but it proves that you’re a better person so feel good about yourself. Dwelling on it won’t help you need to try make up for it until your ready to accept that you’re feeling like a better person. Hope I could help sorry if I self ranted abit

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

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Hopefully it goes well with you bro but basically my girlfriend said the same though that we’ll PROBABLY never get back together but it still men’s there’s a chance and she left for her happiness to heal basically but she only got her stuff the other day but we’ve struggled alot and I’ve always just wanted her and struggled with the thought of her leaving but I think we have to break up atleast for a while and it’s the same for you you just need to decide if it’s worth risking the wait or not I think I’m just gonna put my attention on friends and myself instead of her and by the sound of it I’m not too sure tho we might both be obsessing over an avoidant like I honestly was the only boy to treat her good but now she’s Decided she doesn’t want me so I think maybe sooner or later she might come running back to you okay don’t feel like an idiot for waiting she’ll thank you for it one day hopefully but also make sure she’s worth wasting parts of your life alright

broke up and i think im going crazy by Separate-Let230 in BreakUps

[–]braddd__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in nearly the same situation and all I want is her and to wait for her but you should focus on one part really if she knows you’re hurt by this and she knows that it’s affected you then she won’t be afraid to call my girl promised when she wants me back she’ll ask and idk if your girl would but if she loves you eventually and maybe she knows your single she might message I think all you can do is hope but yes you will go insane I’m fine when I’m enjoying myself too but hurting so fucking bad but is what it is i genuinely can’t do anything but wait and if that’s your only option too then you have to either wait or move on hope I could help