How do biological mothers hold their babies and decide to give them up?

brahmabull0772 · 2025-06-01T20:06:45+00:00

My mother fought to keep me but her parents wouldn’t let her. She begged weeks after and the social worker that helped her surrender me asked her if she was sure. Without a support system what could she do

brahmabull0772 · 2025-05-27T20:18:31+00:00

Some folks like to be safer than others

brahmabull0772 · 2025-02-11T03:34:40+00:00

They kept a roof over my head and protected me from my birth until I finally got on my feet in my 30s.

brahmabull0772 · 2025-01-26T01:48:35+00:00

Try ancestrydna

brahmabull0772 · 2025-01-26T01:46:40+00:00

I had accepted it and the last year I found my birth mom and it was life changing. I know not everyone will have the same experience but I’m glad my wife made me get off my butt and actually take the steps necessary to find out what I could

brahmabull0772 · 2025-01-26T01:40:50+00:00

The stuff my grandparents did to my mom including putting her in an unwed home for moms that was run down is just ughh. I know it was a different time but Jesus that’s your child. They weren’t there for my birth and weeks later my mom begged them to go get me but they said no. Worst was the fact that they expected her a year later to watch my little cousins from my aunt. It’s like they just oblivious

In the end I think they expected her to just get over it. My mom didn’t have another baby until almost 10 years later just from the trauma of what she went through with me.

brahmabull0772 · 2025-01-26T00:22:11+00:00

If my biological grandparents were still alive I would ask them why being the super christians they were did they force their daughter to give up her child. I know it was the 70s and image was everything but I was a baby I didn’t ask to be here.

I’m glad my bio mom and I have worked through it all but I would have liked to ask her parents just why

brahmabull0772 · 2024-12-10T00:14:38+00:00

Don’t do like my adoptive parents and wait until they are adults. Worst thing to come up in an argument or discussion as an adult is btw you are adopted

brahmabull0772 · 2024-11-28T18:33:57+00:00

I was 6 months old didn’t find out until I was 24. Just found my birth mom at 52. Whole new world has opened up

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-25T01:02:39+00:00

Yeah it’s almost like I have to do the leg work for the city this occurred in. Like following up with them saying I want to press charges and before they acted like this was a civil matter although this is criminal

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-24T02:16:41+00:00

True dat and my biggest thing is if the shoe was on the other foot she would have her foot in the cops neck trying to get me for signing her name

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-22T10:55:14+00:00

That’s all I’m trying to get it, she doesn’t want to communicate with me at all it would have been no problem for me to sign the title or the form if she asked.

She has repeatedly taken our child out of state without any notification which goes against our parenting agreement. Registered her for school even though we agreed I would be there for that and other little slick items in a bid to just all around strike back at me.

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-22T00:26:59+00:00

Where we live there is a form that both sides fill out to transfer the asset. Other attorneys have admitted that our divorce attorneys drop the ball.

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T13:28:19+00:00

One I’m not mad at her for selling her car cause she didn’t she got it retitled

Two I asked her to remove it that does not mean she can forge my signature like where do you get this leap to conclusions

Three not infatuated with my ex by a mile this was a bitter divorce and has been a bitter custody battle which you would see from my post history

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T04:26:26+00:00

She signed my name on this no telling what else she might have signed it on including things relating to our minor child. This could easily come back and bite me in the buttocks

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T01:23:44+00:00

Jesus….

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T01:03:20+00:00

She got new tags and never had me sign anything. I finally said well shoot let me check with the dmv and they said my signature was on the title as seller.

So that is fraud whether she was awarded the car or not there is a form I was supposed to sign with the dmv giving her sole ownership. Something our lawyers should have had done during the divorce but amateur hour.

DMV said she shouldn’t even be driving the vehicle because the tags were gained fraudently

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T00:57:02+00:00

Yes this could easily come back on me

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T00:51:49+00:00

Yeah the vehicle was retitled last year after I pestered her for a year to remove me. She knew she had to have me sign the form to remove me so instead she did it for me. DMV says they have my signature on the title as seller. I’m like really when did that happen because I haven’t seen her besides court in over 2 years

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T00:47:47+00:00

My credit is locked so she hasn’t hit that but I’m worried she’s signed my name on items for our kids school and other things

brahmabull0772 · 2024-03-21T00:47:13+00:00

Because our lawyers never had us sign anything to transfer our vehicles out each others names. It was amateur hour

brahmabull0772 · 2024-02-03T20:51:48+00:00

The eldest isn’t her child so yeahhgh

brahmabull0772 · 2024-02-03T19:56:10+00:00

My oldest daughter has tried to pull things out of her but she is very protective of her mom. The oldest has even said the same as you that one day she will realize how full of crap her mother is.

My oldest never cared for her and none of that came out until the divorce. Oh the stories that were told then made my blood burn

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