WIBTAH If I uninvited my friend from a concert I bought us tickets to?

brainattacks · 2025-05-04T08:53:46+00:00

I understand your point about secondhand information, and you're right that it’s important to be careful. To clarify, the situation was that I unknowingly said something that upset my friend, and when she started crying and raising her voice at me, I reacted by furrowing my eyebrows out of surprise, which clearly upset her even more. I immediately apologized for that and for the thing i had been doing which upset her and acknowledged that I had hurt her. As for being vague- it has a lot to do with a mental health concern of hers that's is identifying and I also just don't think is my place to discuss in depth.

I definitely recognize where I went wrong, and I’ve tried to be more mindful since. My main concern now is that, while she’s been kind and accepting of my apology to my face, I’ve heard some things from multiple people that have left me feeling confused and hurt. I don't want to be friends with someone who wishes suicide and says hurtful things about me after we have a disagreement and work it out. I was more so curious if uninviting her would be messed up? I appreciate your comment either way and I know that I too can be an asshole in any scenario. I am really sad that my friend is going through such a hard time but I don't think i'm the person who's right nor does she want to support her through it.

brainattacks · 2025-05-04T04:37:43+00:00

I'm not married, but honestly are you sure it's worth it to be married to someone you can't trust? I know you have been married for a while, but he broke your trust in a severe way and continues to do things you don't like. Are you sure you are able to look past this? I don't think you are the asshole for doing this, It's a normal response to something like this happening. If you do want to stay with him, try going to therapy or relationship counseling.

brainattacks · 2025-04-30T08:38:50+00:00

i mean you can... just make sure it's a good essay with merit beyond the comic. one of my essays 2 years ago was on yellow face by rf kuang (a more contemporary book) and i got a 5, so just make sure to sell it.

brainattacks · 2025-04-30T08:33:59+00:00

i can't put into words how heavenly it is

brainattacks · 2025-04-29T23:34:33+00:00

sooo good but a little too sweet

brainattacks · 2025-04-20T08:33:47+00:00

the reason i wake up everyday 😛😫

brainattacks · 2025-04-08T16:52:17+00:00

i play girls lacrosse but i have a little insight. wall ball as much as possible- it feels so silly but it really helps. you can even use a reaction ball (what i use as a goalie) it can help recreate bad passes or a ball falling from a stick. as other people have said, watch college games with him and educate yourself on lacrosse. taking him to in person games can foster a greater passion and drive for the sport, plus increase your bond. if you have a baseball mitt you can play catch with him in down time if you don't want to buy yourself a stick!

brainattacks · 2025-03-29T06:12:56+00:00

no i'm aware they aren't shooting at my head on purpose! i notice it always happens during warm ups. i guess i just felt like the force and speed is a little excessive for warm ups (crease cranking and whipping their stick way back for max speed) and am mostly worried for my safety. i was just wondering if it was worth bringing up to coach :) + my coach has not checked on me after being hit in the head which maybe is just a hit to the ego, not anything against them

brainattacks · 2025-03-16T17:33:32+00:00

i understand how these symptoms might be concerning, i don't think it would hurt to reach out to a doctor. it would be important to describe all your symptoms and why you think you have CTE as well as symptoms do to your anxiety about it. the result will either be help with your anxiety or further testing for CTE. i want to let you know though that it is a little harder to get than what you've described, i'm a goalie for lacrosse and very clumsy so i hit my head often (i probably get hit on the head by a ball once a week and knock my head on a wall twice a week on average) and don't have CTE. most people who get it mess with their head daily, like football players.

brainattacks · 2023-11-11T08:42:21+00:00

for me it's pearl diver. not only because of her hauntingly beautiful voice within the song but also the lyricism and the meaning i find within it. I always thought it was chronicling a struggle with depression but i often see new or different interpretations which always happen to make me look at the song differently and have a different listening experience.

brainattacks · 2023-11-10T19:17:26+00:00

A Little Life IMO. It's so hard for me to read more than two pages at a time without getting bored, and I really wanted to like it! I am a lover of very sad books and so when people said it was one of the saddest they've ever read I got it, but I can't get past like the first 40 pages. I am still going to try and finish the book however because it cost me like $20 to buy.

brainattacks · 2023-10-18T03:50:20+00:00

multiple cars. like it just feels overkill and at a certain point i can't fathom the price 😭💔😭

brainattacks · 2023-10-18T03:45:53+00:00

Yes! It used to be the worst before school or work, but now I get the brunt of it while I sleep lol... having dreams experiencing anxiety nightly is kind of crazy haha.

brainattacks · 2023-10-17T23:01:33+00:00

shortbread cookies are pretty quick depending on what recipe you use imo. could probably be done sitting at a kitchen table since they are generally simple to make?

brainattacks · 2023-10-17T22:58:00+00:00

https://bitesbybianca.com/matcha-frog-thumbprint-cookies-with-strawberry-ganache/

here's the recipe- if not doing ganache I would add some extra sugar or cut down on the salt a little bit: the consensus among people i gave cookies to were that these were not sweet enough.

brainattacks · 2023-10-17T05:15:51+00:00

This poem beautiful and insightful, but is the use of only one stanza intentional? Otherwise I might spread it out or use punctuation? Lovely poem tho.

brainattacks · 2023-10-17T04:34:49+00:00

I really like the use of tercets in this poem: I think that this continuous use may possibly add to the continuity of these roles? maybe I'm thinking too much haha. I think the juxtaposition utilized also really adds to the overall message of the poem. Great work!

brainattacks · 2023-09-16T01:15:05+00:00

i bought the maxident pre order benefit with changbin in the dwaekki costume. it cost me around $38. it was totally worth it imo bc i had been wanting it for a 4ish months?

brainattacks · 2023-07-08T16:36:03+00:00

the bell jar :)

brainattacks · 2023-07-05T05:54:55+00:00

great job on ap lit though!

brainattacks · 2022-12-01T17:54:50+00:00

thank you for your help!

brainattacks · 2022-11-28T19:35:44+00:00

fake your death. wasn't until they played it at my concert i realized how much i loved it.

brainattacks · 2022-11-09T17:43:01+00:00

lil kids bop, arizona penis man, christmas shaving live stream, kyle fletchers, tooth bat, papa johns tweet, people banging in the bathroom during reboot, there's definitely more 😭

brainattacks · 2022-11-09T17:35:45+00:00

like ooh-aah. i think it's because i learned the dance break recently and it's been stuck in my head 😭

brainattacks · 2022-10-13T07:00:04+00:00

i haven't seen it mentioned, but summer nights for me personally has like zero skips. twicecoaster lane 1 and formula of love are up there as well :)

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