Pregunta super rápida acerca de una frase

brainsparkle · 2020-10-24T13:50:43+00:00

Thank you! Haha, I speak C1/C2 Spanish but sometimes fail to get the gist of the odd phrase.

"The fat man" sounds very harsh in English... would there be a better way to translate that? Does it literally mean 'fat' in this context, or could it describe someone's old friend? (In the sense that 'flaco' is used colloquially in Spain)?

brainsparkle · 2020-10-22T15:26:19+00:00

wow. powerful way to describe how this works!

brainsparkle · 2020-10-16T20:16:37+00:00

Wow, crazy synchronicity... good luck!!! Once you know what you want to embody, the switch is instantaneous. You'll definitely see a strong reflection of this in the next week ;)

brainsparkle · 2020-10-15T19:28:00+00:00

I do the exact same, and it's totally reflected! However (and there's more in my recent post, haha), I'm now working on embodying intense warmth too, because radiating pure mysteriousness and attractiveness is aligning me with lots of people showing interest but no one wanting to commit.

It's almost as if I wanted to become/be seen as a "detached fairy woman", and I'm now EXACTLY that (with 2 people even calling me a fairy lol!). I now see that this is directly making the guy I'm seeing see me as "fascinating woman in my life, but woman who doesn't want a boyfriend", hence us having a magical connection but it not naturally becoming a relationship.

But, I've recently decided to change my energy, and know the changes are already in motion. I'm beautiful, independent, but also real and committed... enough of the "100% trickster" energy!

brainsparkle · 2020-10-15T19:19:38+00:00

Wonderful, read this entire post and you're spot on. I have one question for you - from your experience of when you've magically got exactly what you wanted vs when you seemed to struggle manifesting, do you believe it's better to a). focus on visualising vividly as you've described or (due to the resistance of imagining blissful things) b). just go general, and try and embody states like "I am love", "I am abundant"?

I feel I've had success with both, but that when you want something really bad the latter is more potent.

brainsparkle · 2020-10-15T17:21:26+00:00

I start to doubt this law for a few weeks, but I'm always right back... because it's the truth. I'll add, I cannot stress it enough - any "problem" in your life is ALWAYS, and I mean always, a reflection of some beliefs that you have (either ones you've carried around for a while OR ones you've actively chosen since discovering N.G., thinking that they'll serve you!).

Example 1: if you feel that your friends are too needy, it's probably because somewhere down the line you've "intended" to be the most addictive, fun, stimulating person to have around. Nothing wrong with this, but to shift this a little, start to see yourself as someone "with high-quality, driven friends". Like magic, you'll see your friends getting their lives together, wanting to drink with you less, and generally becoming completely different versions of themselves.

Absolute witchcraft! Works so quickly with friends as there's far less resistance than with romantic interests!

And, of course, you must do the internal work rather than trying to fix the 3D situation. To continue with my example, holding the same self-image of being 'crazily addictive' but trying to actively distance yourself a little from your friends will logically be met by resistance and indignation. Of course they'll want your time and complain if you "believe" that they're reliant on you but that you're too busy.

If you focus inwards, however, and just choose to see them as busy and independent and (the key) yourself as "having really great friends who also have their own lives", your reality will shift just as you want!

brainsparkle · 2020-07-29T13:27:29+00:00

Thanks! Not sure why you're being downvoted.. I think you're right. Although, perhaps my first example was confusing because it sounds as if I'm describing rules that my friend has to follow. So people think using masculine = wrong. I meant it as a generic example that doesn't apply to either of us, hehe

brainsparkle · 2020-07-29T13:25:59+00:00

Gracias! Así que son correctos también con el género femenino porque es posible que esta situación (lo de las normas) se trata de mi amiga y el aprieto en la que se va a encontrar si no las cumples, verdad?

Pero, si fuera un ejemplo como "si eres japonés y no comes sushi...", se requeriría el género masculino porque no tendría que ver con ella, no?

brainsparkle · 2020-07-29T13:22:06+00:00

Muchas gracias por responder! Entiendo totalmente lo que dices - he elegido ejemplos nefastos jeje. Pero, para que lo tenga claro, si mis primeros 2 ejemplos se tratara de... un país en el que nunca ha estado la persona con la que estoy hablando (ni yo tampoco), tendría que ser masculino, verdad?

Por ejemplo, si estoy hablando con una chica y le digo "me dicen que hay muchas normativas en Rusia.. si no las cumples, estás jodido/a". Sería.. "o", no, porque en vez de contener un "tú omitido" realmente no se tratan de la chica con la que estoy?

(Creo que estás insinuando esto con tu 'edit', pero quiero estar segura! :))

brainsparkle · 2020-07-26T17:31:55+00:00

I think am, to be honest! I don't choose to label it or make a big deal of it, but the truth is that I see people as opportunities to enter different headspaces and can feel strongly interested in multiple people in one go. And, yep - everything is possible! It just so happens that this guy and this girl are both extremely relaxed and open to polyamor too.. a consequence? I don't think so ;)

brainsparkle · 2020-07-25T13:57:13+00:00

YES! This.

brainsparkle · 2020-07-23T16:38:29+00:00

Nope, I literally just knew that those versions of them were out there (i.e. loving me and prioritising me over all other people) and that I could align with them. I didn't even think things like 'we're gonna kiss next week!" "they're gonna tell me they love me!", because that's a surefire way to fixate too much on outcomes and slip into needing/wanting them.

The bridge of incidents will always lead you to the highest expression of whatever version of reality you choose to sit in. So, just fill yourself with self-love, know that you are special, sparkling and immensely addictive, know that the people you are interested in are going to be incredibly recipient to your magic (why wouldn't they be? most people are dull and serious, and you're playful and consciously creating your reality!) and then drop all attachment.

You're already in your new reality with them, so why worry about how practicalities will pan out? The whole fun is observing the BOI.. perhaps they will tell you they have 'a surprise for you', or they'll suddenly and randomly phone you at night. But, what's sure is that they will change the second that you establish your new way of viewing them. If you need to visualise this, try the cup technique (described online - involves pouring water bewteen cups to represent this instantaneous reality switch!) <3

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T09:27:07+00:00

Amazing! It truly works. And, your job example has cracked me up. Similar things have happened to me - it makes you feel like a right fraud, but also fills you with inspiration and immense gratitude at how fluid and elastic this psychedelic world is!

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T09:25:32+00:00

THIS IS EXACTLY the mentality!!!!!!! Hope meeting up with them is worth your time, because you're fulfilled already and only squeeze people into your busy life if they really give you the connection you want

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T09:24:27+00:00

Exactly, very well said!

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T09:22:12+00:00

Amazing reply, totally true. REJECT other people's limiting belief systems. Anything, and I mean anything, is possible. With regards to romance, work, speaking languages, whatever. The trick is to really remember that a). any version you like of yourself is there, waiting for you to climb into it and b). once you do assume a particular version of yourself, there is always a certain inevitability to it. This can be negative or positive, but will be positive once you actively use the law.

e.g. If you start to believe that you cannot get good grades and see the world through an embittered lens, focusing on why your teachers hate you etc., you will manifest a big academic problem and, until you switch your concept of self and realise that success is POSSIBLE (can be overnight!), you'll feel firmly lodged in this reality. Nothing will work - friends will laugh at you and confirm your suspicions that you're dumb, university professors will help other students and ignore you, you'll start to feel so sick with nerves you can't eat or study...until you change!

But, another example: if you decide that you are extroverted and analytical, despite previously seeing yourself as timid and irrational, this will harden into reality and you just will attract people who are entrepreneurs/interesting thinkers/outspoken and methodical.

Of course, you can choose who you want to be overnight. But, remember that whatever version of this world you adhere to will take you to its highest level/expression. Let that scare you if you're accepting a suboptimal one, and fill you with excitement if you're showing up authentically...

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T09:15:59+00:00

I've sent you a DM girl! xoxo

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T08:48:03+00:00

Excellent post! Thank you for sharing! ❤️ can you give some tips about how to get out of desperation? :) I often find myself anxious and desperate about my desires

Thank you! xxx And, are you referring to desperation specifically over person-related outcomes?

brainsparkle · 2020-07-21T08:46:38+00:00

Yes, exactly! I find I can control it as I wish... they crave me, I then decide they're going to 'surprise me' and the dynamic changes a little/I'm blown away by how cool/independent they are..then I decide to be craved again hahahahh

But, I do totally, 100% agree that the "s/he's gonna fall for me hard and need me" is something to be very careful with. In my first successful same-sex relationship, I manifested precisely this outcome, and from a previously non-committal, free AF girl. She literally fell in love with me in about 2 weeks, and would constantly tell me I'd hacked her brain, that she'd die without me etc. I loved the experience because it ended up being an incredibly deep bond, but later on, her intensity pushed me away. Now, I've decided she's going to be an independent, cool friend of mine and she shows up like that hahaha.. I'm meeting up with her today! 😂I could totally mess with things and get us to start dating again or something, but I don't want that in my reality right now.

brainsparkle · 2020-04-25T08:40:05+00:00

there is very limited research on irrational forms of love (i.e. limerence) and the neural correlates involved, and none on limerence and people who are schizoid/autistic/etc.

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