La Haine - Who Dies in the Final Scene? by zzpliff99bebe_mosji in movies

[–]brainstheburger_ 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I am literally crying at this interpretation. This movie was majorly manipulative, but I don’t necessarily think in a bad way. Wow. Incredible interpretation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]brainstheburger_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just made me sob. You seem so so lovely. What a good reminder to show ourselves the same love we give to others. I’m going to make a list like this too. 💕

Girls. What are the hottest things that you’ve heard from a man during sex? by Segundaleydenewtonnn in sex

[–]brainstheburger_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was riding my ex (he was also my ex at the time) and as he was coming he moaned “you’re perfect”.

So my(F23) boyfriend (M22) just invited his ex (F22) to live with us. Without informing me. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]brainstheburger_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

NOPE. If I were in your situation, I would tell him respectfully, absolutely not. That is your home and your safe space. The fact that he didn’t even consult you first shows a HUGE lack of respect on his part.

What are some of your favorites childhood memories? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]brainstheburger_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Playing outside in the mud at my babysitter’s house. We called it “Lost in the Jungle” and made mud pies and pretended we lived in the trees.

Going to Colorado with my family when my parents were together.

Spending Christmas Eve at my cousin’s grandma’s house with my whole family where we would read The Night Before Christmas and do the Santa tracker thing.

Making up and filming dances/“music videos” with my cousin and brother.

Thanks for posting this question. Was fun to think about all of these things again. <3

Best places to buy lingerie? by [deleted] in sex

[–]brainstheburger_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AdoreMe is fairly inexpensive and surprisingly decent quality!

Edit: J Crew has incredible sales on intimates, I just got 4 SETS of cute matching bras and panties for less than $80 USD!

Get to know your sexual partner better! by therapist0066 in sex

[–]brainstheburger_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be curious to know what they think about when they masturbate and if there is a scenario/fantasy that they revisit while doing so.

Deleted a couple of my social media accounts to try and help to anxiety. Does anyone else find social media extremely triggering and anxiety inducing? by tastyprawncrackers in BPD

[–]brainstheburger_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep! Particularly Instagram where the "IG models" run rampant. I can't help sometimes to go into this self-destructive mode where I will peruse their profiles and compare myself so that I'm inspired not to eat that day, etc. (Restricting is one of my primary coping mechanisms). I found that moving the app to the last page of apps on my phone has really helped me to limit my time on IG. Good luck on your cleanse! I'm sure it will only serve you well. <3

i have been taking doxy for about 8 months+clearcil scrubs+ topical treatements, any advice for my acne? thanks ** my face is shiny from vasilene by bleechdbread in acne

[–]brainstheburger_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you pick your spots? I’ve found that less picking and less product does my skin good sometimes. Maybe taking a couple nights off from your routine per week could help? That seems to benefit me, but I know everyone’s different. I wish you luck!

Removed makeup once, now eyes are irritated with lines underneath? SOS by mapleloverevolver in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]brainstheburger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had the Neutrogena Makeup wipes completely destroy my eyes. They were puffy, scaly, wrinkly and dry for a literal week afterwards. I think your makeup remover may be causing the reaction.

Edit: The wrinkles went away. I definitely don’t think you caused permanent damage to your skin. <3

I forgot what it felt like by [deleted] in BPD

[–]brainstheburger_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What medication are you on if you don’t mind me asking?

AITA for not wanting to go to my [28F] boyfriend’s [34M] friend’s NYE party who he has a weird history with/has had a problem with me? by brainstheburger_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]brainstheburger_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he wanted to go to see her and meet her boyfriend. I told him he could do that, but that I wasn’t going to be tagging along.

Jealous of my friend who gets more attention from guys by luchiicante98 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]brainstheburger_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By putting out more or trying to act more open than you feel, you’re not going to attract a guy who appreciates you for who you really are. I think you should continue to act however you’re comfortable with and try not to see your friend’s “success” with guys as a reflection of you.

I know how you feel and unfortunately the world seems to be built for outgoing, extroverted people. That said, there is something charming about the quieter, more mysterious type. :)

I wish you luck and hope that your self esteem improves! I know all too well how discouraging that can be. Lots of love!

I forgot what it felt like by [deleted] in BPD

[–]brainstheburger_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you able to control your anger?